Nadia

Rancho Cucamonga, CA

#699 Apr 27, 2011
Michelle wrote:
This too has happened to me. It happens every couple of months. After sex, I experience a pain like no other. I've never given birth, but this pain i have felt is probably similar to it.I am unable to move, breathe, and this last time was so intense that i was throwing up.I am still experiencing uncomfortable pain whenever i move a certain way in my abdomin area.It's been three days and Im starting to get worried it might be something serious. The other times the pain went away within hours. Ive been reading other peoples experiences. Could this be a cyst? A few months back i told my gyno about the pain, and she didn't seem to think anything of it.
I feel the same way! Last night I had intercourse with my fiance and began having really bad pains soon after. The pain was intense! I felt like I was going to vomit. I drank some tea and a tylenol. But the pain is still there. Its hard for me to breath and my body akes wen I walk. Is this something serious? Please help!
rugby girl

Brandon, Canada

#700 Apr 30, 2011
I lost my virginity on Sunday, and my lower abdomin has hurt since. I ended my period just before so, as you ladies have pointed out this is a common occurence? I am scared I am pregnant, but it was safe, condom, pill and all. So could it just be sore for the impact?
tlk

UK

#701 May 1, 2011
Someone in SC wrote:
I have been married for 8 years and very faithful to my husband.
But for the last couple years, every few months if we have sex right before my period or right after, I get a horrible sharp pain in my lower stomach and inside along my cervix. It is so bad it sends me into a cold sweat and it feels like childbirth!(I have 2 sons)
I have visited the GYN who brushed this off as nothing and said if it was a cyst, he would have been able to feel it while pressing on my stomach since I am so skinny(his words, not mine).
Could this be something serious? Should I get reexamined? I have not been to the GYN in 2 years since he told me it was nothing to worry about. But again this only happens ever few months.
any suggestions? Endometriosis runs in my family, and my mother had a hysterectomy because of it.
reading what you go through has amazed me,ive had the exact same problem and the way you described it i couldnt have put it better myself,until i read your comment i thought i was alone i have not had any explanation as to what causes the pain either,i had had my own theory that maybe it was the air bieng pushed in thruough penetration that was causing it? it only happens to me every few months or so but i am determined to find out what is causing it,i once fainted because the pain was so bad,then when i had a baby well,labour pain was nothing compared to the other ain id had before,keep persuing as i will too beause there must be some explanation and some kind of treatment for whatever it is,until people know how it feels its hard to explain isnt it? good luck anyway and hope your problem gets sorted x
LizC

Glendale, AZ

#702 May 1, 2011
Three nights ago I had sex and was in a position where he was able to go very deep, which wasn't anything new but it started to hurt a little like he was pushing on a bruise. Almost immedietly after, I felt like I had so much gas that I couldn't get out. When I would sit certain ways it felt like I had horrible indegestion all through my back, chest, neck and stomach (just an example of the pain). I couldn't lay, sit or stand to make it feel better. I tried taking Pepto Bismal, indegestion relief, ibprophen...anything to make it stop. Even went to the point last night of making myself a mixed alcoholic drink at 3am to ease the pain so I could sleep! It did knock me out but when I woke up this morning it was back. Not as painful, felt like trapped gas. Just ate some food and started feeling the pain again. It's on and off all day but gets really bad at night :/ Anyway, I have had this for 4 days now and have been reading posts. I am supposed to get my period in a week and I guess when you have sexual intercourse a week prior that's usually when people are having this pain. Makes sense because your uterus and ovaries are very sensitive at this time but that's as far as I can get with that. I wish someone knew of something to help the pain go away. I have had this happen before but it hasn't lasted this long.(not constipated, no cysts or anything like that that would be a cause) Please someone find a cure for us!!
Nathaly

Orlando, FL

#703 May 2, 2011
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year+ and when we had sex (numerous of times) it never hurt before. But yesterday while we were I had a random sharp pain in my lower abdomen.
Idk what it was if it was my cervix or ovaries.. But it kinda felt like cramps. It was painful enough to stop us from continuing. I'm ovulating today which is the day after. But we always use a condom so I don't think I'm pregnant. My breast have been kind of sore though.
A few months ago I had to get surgery and they found a cyst in my ovaries and I got it removed. But I never knew it was there because it never bothered me.

I'm so confused with the possibilities of what may be wrong. Can anyone please help me??
kristie

Australia

#704 May 4, 2011
I've been having Sharp n deadly pains in my upper adomine for the past year n the doctor keeps telling me take unire sample n now I'm going to dubbo n I've neen bleeding in my unrine for 6 years n I can't drink any alcholich drink or I drop to the ground spewing blood anyone no whTs wrong with me
LizC

Fort Worth, TX

#705 May 4, 2011
seems to me that you are going to get your period anytime now. every month when a woman ovulates we become very sensitve down there in our uterus/ovaries. sometimes around that time of the month we can develop non-cancerous cysts that go away when the period is over. nothing to worry about. so when you had sex your boyfriend may have irritated your uterus/ovaries, may have felt like a bruise or something. I have had this happen a few times and i am 99% positive you have nothing to worry about. if the pain happens everytime you have sex I would consult a doctor. good luck :]
Nathaly wrote:
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year+ and when we had sex (numerous of times) it never hurt before. But yesterday while we were I had a random sharp pain in my lower abdomen.
Idk what it was if it was my cervix or ovaries.. But it kinda felt like cramps. It was painful enough to stop us from continuing. I'm ovulating today which is the day after. But we always use a condom so I don't think I'm pregnant. My breast have been kind of sore though.
A few months ago I had to get surgery and they found a cyst in my ovaries and I got it removed. But I never knew it was there because it never bothered me.
I'm so confused with the possibilities of what may be wrong. Can anyone please help me??
anv

United States

#706 May 5, 2011
I could really use someone's help.I am 19.I've never had sex.About a week ago, my boyfriend(whom I've been dating for four years) fingered me in the car while I gave him a hand job.he did not touch himself and I did not touch myself at all.I washed my hands soon after and took a bath..I'm suppose to start today, but haven't yet.I'm having pain in my lower abdomen and my lower back is also hurting a little bit and I've been peeing more than usual probably for the past week.I'm worried I may be pregnant.I could really use someone advice.thank you.
anv

United States

#707 May 5, 2011
Also, my stomach feels hard and when I press on it, it hurts a little bit.
monique

United States

#708 May 5, 2011
anv wrote:
Also, my stomach feels hard and when I press on it, it hurts a little bit.
...you can't be pregnant if you have never had sex
Vicki

Stanwood, WA

#709 May 5, 2011
Someone in SC wrote:
I have been married for 8 years and very faithful to my husband.
But for the last couple years, every few months if we have sex right before my period or right after, I get a horrible sharp pain in my lower stomach and inside along my cervix. It is so bad it sends me into a cold sweat and it feels like childbirth!(I have 2 sons)
I have visited the GYN who brushed this off as nothing and said if it was a cyst, he would have been able to feel it while pressing on my stomach since I am so skinny(his words, not mine).
Could this be something serious? Should I get reexamined? I have not been to the GYN in 2 years since he told me it was nothing to worry about. But again this only happens ever few months.
any suggestions? Endometriosis runs in my family, and my mother had a hysterectomy because of it.
Please go to your annual check ups they are so important!
kayleigh

Airdrie, UK

#710 May 6, 2011
Hopefully someone can help...i have always experienced pain during sex but never afterwards until recently. I have been told during swabs and smeres that i have a low cervix and ive always thought this was the reason. However, lately after sex the pain has been horrendous - sharp pains right the way up through to my stomach. I had sex last night and today i havnt been able to sit down on my bum because i keep getting these really sharp pains. Could this be endrometriosis? my mother has also had it and had to get a hystorecomy. Im onyl 22....
Renee

Australia

#711 May 6, 2011
I have this problem too. I have trouble with my periods anyway, the doctor said something called "irritable cervix" so menstrual pain is like "mini labour", sometimes I get pains after sex but usually goes away within 20minutes. Today my fiance and I had sex (pretty rough), during it felt like he stabbed me, it went away but afterwards I got the harshest strongest pain, maybe worse than my period pain. And I couldn't sit, I didn't have the energy to stand up- feeling like I may pass out. I felt like I was going to vomit. My whole body was shaking and I couldn't help but cry due to the pain. I've been laying here now for about half an hour with a bucket and a heat bag. The pains starting to ease off.... I am in the middle Of periods so it's not like the comments I've read.
Lin

Canonsburg, PA

#712 May 7, 2011
Leslie wrote:
I am right now experiencing this pain in my lower abdomen after intercourse. While having sex, my significant other went really "deep" inside of me and there was a sharp pain for a second. About 2-5 minutes after sex I started getting horrible cramps...enough to make me want to throw up. It is now coming up to 3 hours. It feels like I have to go to the bathroom and when I try...nothing. It also hurts if I sit directly on my butt (I did not have anal sex. Please help! Is there something to help relieve the pain? How long does this last?
Everything you said is the same thing i feel.. I don't know what it is and would like to find out.. If you have found out please let me know?? I'm so glad that someone else knows what i'm talking about.Because at least i know i'm not the only one... PLEASE get back to me if you can? You can email me.. Linnydaugherty@yahoo.com
kayzie

United States

#713 May 8, 2011
I had this pain tonight, when me and my fiancee was having sex,it felt like he went to far. Kinda felt like I was a virgin and having intercourse for the first time but 20x more the pain. It hurt forever after sex,I couldn't stand up strait.it hurt when I tried to pee,going pee didn't hurt,but the pushing did. I felt like I had to hold my breath and expand my tummy by pushing it out making myself look bloated. I would move just a little bit and the pain will strike again every movement I made. I was crying and freaking out. I thought Mayb I am prego or worse having a miscariage idn't know what to think because the cramps felt worse than my normal menstrual cramps. I am also suppose to start my period the same night or within a couple days.

Also when I been having my period. I get such bad back pain,lower back,hip pain and pain that goes into my legs, its so bad,nothing will take it away. I seriously can not move even a inch or less. I feel like I am stuck on my bed. Its so bad,I just feel dead and I cry.
in pain

UK

#714 May 9, 2011
well i've been seeing this guy last 2 months , i am very tight i cant really do over 6 inchs either with out it causing me pain, i'm 36 , and he's 30 hes very large 9half very wide, we really like each other but sex is such a problem for me. He made me bleed for a wk the first time, and we still had sex while i was bleeding. It wasnt my period as id finished 3days b4 sleeping with him for the first time. And the last time i had sex b4 that it were 9wks , had same problems with guy b4 so stopped seeing him.(he didn't take it well ) but i have so much pain i actualy shake while we are having sex i feel like i will pass out , once i think i did (he was still goin ) i'm goin to the clinic 2moro have a check always best to have a check even with protection, i've not ever had any stds but its always when i meet guys with big willy's , i asked my man y do you f me so deep and hard , he said cos after i pass your cervix there this little bubble that opens up for me and sucks my head and it feels so good , i didnt understand what he means ? But i rung the guy i used to see and he said almost the same thing, even if we have sex gently it still happens , thing is he lasts for long if i don't let him do it hard , it does feel like your almost in labour , i think i have so much interenal brushng , i do like this guy just i cant take the hard rough sex , he say's he cant help it. But truth is he likes that i'm tight and he like to fuckthe shit out me. Girls i think we all need to look 4 guys with small diks :o) i know i do i cant do it any more. Best luck to you all.:o)
I do not understand

Memphis, TN

#715 May 16, 2011
My ovaries feel like they may be swollen and I have yellow discharge and my stomach feels gassy-- is this a sign of pregnancy? What is probably going on? I have sex twice recently- once protected and wonder if I am allergic to the latex and/or the size of his penis and doing it hurt me down there (it was painful to do- I think he broke my hymen since I had not had sex in years, and never really have ever made a habit of it to be honest!) and the second time it was unprotected but not painful except when I was on top of him I think his penis went into my uterus-- maybe that is the cause for the pain in my ovaries now.
He did not ejaculate inside of my vagina but I know there is pre-ejaculation apparently, so I am wondering if any of this is a sign of pregnancy? Or an infection or allergic reaction? Or STD?(I don't believe though at all that it's an STD)
Or is my body just simply recovering from having sex twice when I normally do not do that?
Thank you for your help anyone if you can give me a helpful answer!!
brittany

Wiscasset, ME

#716 May 26, 2011
me and my boy friend have been trying for a baby and this happen to me 3 times whenever we get done having sex 3 or 4 days after my peirod i get bad pains in my belly i dont know why and i pass gas alot what does that mean i never had kids befor and no one is helping me
missy

United States

#717 May 28, 2011
So, happy I'm not the only1 in pain after sex, but we need a solution! I'm going th take what Renee said and go to the doctor & really hope it helps/works. Years ago something like this happened to me. They did an ultrasound, gave me antibiotics & never found out what it was. I spent like 3weeks going to the doctor. Than it just disappeared. And here we are again!!!!! Its painful and I want it to Stop!!! Lying in bed right now-horrible
Angelina

New Delhi, India

#718 May 31, 2011
I had sex for the first time 3 dayz ago. My periods started yesterday night and their is no pain which i had to face on the 1st two days of my periods usually. Although i had protected sex.. But i wanna know that what could be the reason that the pain stopped suddenly?

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