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why i cannot feel anything inside my vagina while having sex

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intome

UAE

#1 Jun 8, 2007
hi there,

me n boyfriend have been having sex for almost a month now but i cannot feel anything inside my vagina when he pushes i have tried various methods but still nothing we were jus wondering if there is a problemo with me...

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anonymous

Clarks Summit, PA

#2 Jun 16, 2007
i have the same problem. i actually just looked it up on google to see if anyone else did. i dont know how old this is though.

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mememe

New York, NY

#3 Jun 17, 2007
wow...same here! it sucks being like this, plus I dont know what is wrong and what it is that is happening
anoooonnymous

North Hollywood, CA

#5 Jun 24, 2007
samee heree
and i dont wanna say anything because he might think he's too "small" but he isnt.

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anonymous

AOL

#6 Jun 26, 2007
I'm 15 and when I first started haveing sex with my boyfriend.. after about like 20 minutes I couldn't really feel him inside me, i don't really think it's something to worry about.. I think that it's because condoms tend to be really smooth and if your lubricated your not really going to feel anything...

It's a proven fact that if you put a pillow under your butt your guy can get deeper inside of you(it's a whole angle thing).. so you'll deffinantly feel him inside you then..

So don't worry if you don't feel anything I'm pretty sure theres nothing wrong with you... I'm not positive because I'm not a doctor but i wouldn't be worried

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katrina

India

#9 Jul 6, 2007
intome wrote:
hi there,
me n boyfriend have been having sex for almost a month now but i cannot feel anything inside my vagina when he pushes i have tried various methods but still nothing we were jus wondering if there is a problemo with me...
hes small or the girth size of his penis is small.

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katrina

India

#10 Jul 6, 2007
your boyfriend has a small penis in lenth, girth or both in size.

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kaykay

Blue Ridge, GA

#11 Jul 7, 2007
I've had sex two times. Once with a guy who was small..we did it two times and i felt nothing. So with one of my bestfriends who i knew was a big guy width and length wise, we had sex... but i still didnt feel anything. I'd really like to know whats going on. The only way i feel anything is if i do something myself.. I tried a dildo, and fingering.. it doesnt work. Please help.

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intome

Dubai, UAE

#12 Jul 8, 2007
well he is big to all of u i have tried all angles i can think of i can feel him inside i cant come... its like i know he is there but then he is not... :( i told him about it n he understands but sumtimes he asks me if i had come n i am like no... is there sumthing at all ny hope...

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bojo

Svishtov, Bulgaria

#13 Jul 8, 2007
Q ELATE DA VI NABIQ EDIN QK BULGARSKI HUI VASHTO MAMI DA VI VIDQ AZ DALI NQMA DA USESHTATE NISHTO!!!
anonymous

United States

#15 Jul 11, 2007
i am 20 i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months(but friends since we were 12) and i came once out of the many times we had sex. i come all the time when he eats me out, but when we have sex i cant seem to...can anyone help!!!

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April

Norcross, GA

#22 Jul 15, 2007
Hmmm... perhaps you're not sexually stimulated enough? If you're truly turned on your vagina will naturally have stimulation. Women actually have more nerve endings in their sexual organs than men. When you have sex, who chooses to do so first, you or him? Nest time, you should initiate when to have sex. Be completely honest and tell him how to please you. If you still have problems, remember, it is not your duty to sexually please him. There is no point in having sex when you aren't gaining pleasure from doing so.

Also, maybe when you're having sex it's centered around getting him off rather than focusing on you. That's enough to turn any girl off. Most likely there's something wrong with the way he's doing it rather than there being something wrong with you. A man being too small AND too big can be a problem.
April

Norcross, GA

#23 Jul 15, 2007
anonymous wrote:
i am 20 i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months(but friends since we were 12) and i came once out of the many times we had sex. i come all the time when he eats me out, but when we have sex i cant seem to...can anyone help!!!
Different angles that stimulate the clitoris. Sit on top of him, facing backwards. This usually helps with clitoral stimulation.
anon

Paradise, CA

#25 Jul 18, 2007
brunnnete wrote:
i enjoy rubbing my vagina against a chair or somethiing am i weird ? please reply someone
i would say that is really weird...

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anon

Paradise, CA

#26 Jul 18, 2007
brunnnete wrote:
ive tried fingering myself buti get nothing :(
iv never really tried fingering myself but my boyfreind has for me and i dont really feel anything ether but i get wet ... i dont kno ether...:(
Old Woman

Lethbridge, Canada

#27 Jul 18, 2007
I'm surprised to find this question. You are perfectly normal. While some women experience sexual sensation during intercourse, studies are showing more do not. The main sexual organ for the female in regards to sexual response is the clitoris. This is why many can masturbate to orgasm yet cannot orgasm during intercourse.
Relaxing, being able to stop the mind and really tune into body sensations helps.
The next time you are having intercourse, feel free to stimulate yourself or show him how (nicely, no one likes orders). There is no need to be embarrassed, this is perfectly normal. It is unlikely he will be put off. In fact, probably the opposite if you don't make a big deal of it (and even stimulate him occasionally).
By bringing yourself to orgasm during sex you can learn to associate sensations, and possibly even eventually achieve orgasm through intercourse. Even if you never do, there is nothing wrong with you. And truthfully, orgasm achieved by clitoral stimulation are usually stronger.

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anon

Paradise, CA

#28 Jul 18, 2007
hi people i am almost 18 and i have been with my boyfreind 4 a lil over two yrs now.. and we both was virgins . we lost it to each other.. i was 15 almost 16 when i lost it to him.. my first time it only hurt when he first put it in after i didnt feel anything.. i dont kno wats wrong is it that he is small???? or do i have a problem.. i dont masterbate.. he has 4 me but i also dont feel anything.. i get wet tho..????? before i got on the shot i used to get wet a lot easier.. but im off the shot now.. i need help.. im scared to see a docter.. i had a pap done and they never called me so i dont kno if i need to tell them to look for some other problem i could have... but me and my boyfreind tried did positions and nothing works.. we have talked about it he feels really bad about it and thinks it is that he is small.... i need some advise please comment back...

THANK YOU A LOT

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stranged

Vancouver, Canada

#29 Jul 18, 2007
hm yea i dont feel anything too..does anyone feel something weird inside their vagina when they finger themselves? like a little to the left..=\
stranged

Vancouver, Canada

#30 Jul 18, 2007
should i be worried? i thot it was just supposed to be like a hole... i duno how to describe it
Old Woman

Lethbridge, Canada

#31 Jul 18, 2007
anon wrote:
hi people i am almost 18 and i have been with my boyfreind 4 a lil over two yrs now.. and we both was virgins . we lost it to each other.. i was 15 almost 16 when i lost it to him.. my first time it only hurt when he first put it in after i didnt feel anything.. i dont kno wats wrong is it that he is small???? or do i have a problem.. i dont masterbate.. he has 4 me but i also dont feel anything.. i get wet tho..????? before i got on the shot i used to get wet a lot easier.. but im off the shot now.. i need help.. im scared to see a docter.. i had a pap done and they never called me so i dont kno if i need to tell them to look for some other problem i could have... but me and my boyfreind tried did positions and nothing works.. we have talked about it he feels really bad about it and thinks it is that he is small.... i need some advise please comment back...
THANK YOU A LOT
It is unlikely anything is wrong. If you feel there might be something physical, consult your doctor at your next exam. That is what they are there for. It sounds more like you simply do not know what excites you. Many girls make the mistake of assuming their partner will satisfy them. You are responsible for your own satisfaction. Masturbate on your own, both inside the vagina and the area outside surrounding it. Find out what and where feels good. Then you can show him.

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