How Husbands Feel About Male Gynecolo...

Since: Oct 12

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#737 Oct 12, 2012
Modest Woman wrote:
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That's great. You can email me your Twitter address privately.
I see a wider issue of disrespect of a womans privacy in public services generally - this is an awful case of strip search of a female by a police team which included 2 male officers....Hope Steffey of Ohio, USA

http://blog.simplejustice.us/2009/07/16/hope-...

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#738 Oct 12, 2012
John wrote:
Well since the Supreme Court ruling on the Albert Florence case, who was strip searched twice in seven days after he was arrested on a warrant for a traffic fine he had already paid, we will probably be seeing more of this crap.

As for the tampon, that is what I suspected about the Hope Steffey case. That the guys were checking her for a tampon, and that's why she is going ballistic at the end of the video. But like I said, even though their own jail rules say that a woman on her period can not be completely stripped, they deny that she was checked, even though it violates their own rules.

BTW this isn't the only incident of woman being strip searched by the side of the road. Arnetta McCloud, her then-15-year-old daughter, Cynthia were also strip searched by the side of the road.
And then we have cases like Ms.(Ellin) Spellman & Maureen Rattray who were strip searched, but some how once lawsuits were started, the video's came up "missing".(Like a lot did in the Hope Steffey case!)

Corrupt politicians are bad enough, but it looks like we have a corrupt majority on the Supreme Court now! The future looks bleak!
http://blog.simplejustice.us/2009/07/16/hope-...
Debz as Boots65

Ottawa, Canada

#739 Oct 13, 2012
we're the same person - needed this new alias to establish my profile here
Debz as Boots65

Ottawa, Canada

#740 Oct 13, 2012
From another forum - interfered with under aneasthetic

The case came to light in June 2009 with a scream.
Dr. Richard Lewis, a cardiologist, was performing a pacemaker procedure on an anesthetized female patient at a Mesa hospital when a male scrub nurse assisting the surgery saw Lewis fondle her breasts. The woman screamed in pain when he pinched them. Two other nurses watching through a window corroborated the offense. Lewis was arrested.

By January 2010, when an indictment was brought up, 19 women had come forward to accuse Lewis of inappropriate sexual touching, even rape, during office examinations and surgical procedures. He was indicted on 61 counts, including sexual abuse, misdemeanor assault and one count of sexual assault.

Read more: http://www.azcentral.com/arizonarepublic/loca...
CHRIS

Bedford, MA

#741 Oct 13, 2012
Jbs wrote:
We agreed to use the female ob. Thanks everyone for your support.
That's great ! It's good to see a woman who loves her husband enough to not want to hurt him.

Since: Oct 12

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#743 Oct 14, 2012
pailrider wrote:
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Debz unable to open your link? unfortunately.
However it cant be true, can it ? doctors train at med school which
stops it happenning, their male sexual desires are removed after years of training, perhaps I read something wrong!! Did I?
To u and I and the other faithful veterans of this forum (Modest Woman, Not with my Lady, Stephen777, Chris etc) it really is...

"THAT REDICULOUSLY CLEAR"
Not With My Lady You Dont

AOL

#744 Oct 15, 2012
Bootz65 wrote:
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To u and I and the other faithful veterans of this forum (Modest Woman, Not with my Lady, Stephen777, Chris etc) it really is...
"THAT REDICULOUSLY CLEAR"
Agree!
Not With My Lady You Dont

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#745 Oct 15, 2012
JBS, if you're still reading....I'm glad you reached an agreement with her. I'd bet it feels like an elephant has been taken off your shoulders. There's nothing worse than that kind of emotional stress.

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#748 Oct 25, 2012
pailrider wrote:
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Ooops forgot to include the link-25 Oct 2012.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-22227...
Thanks for your support Pailryder - I was feeling like quitting this site - now I have gained my healing via it

But then I remembered the point is also to encourage others - and there arent many female posters with their own testimony

hopefully it will not only encourage women to recognise what has happened to them and avoid such incidents in the future - but i also want to encourage men to stay convicted that what is happening to their women isn't acceptable

Since: Nov 12

Singapore, Singapore

#750 Nov 8, 2012
hiii...

i just came across this discussion...2 years late though...

well, i respect men that treasure their wives and want to protect them by not wanting them to see male gynecologist.

i will never go to a male gyne and i feel creepy with a male stranger examining and touching me in my private areas...

So i think you guys that are protective of your wives from going to male gyne are to be praised.

Your wives are lucky to have you as husbands.

..just me..
lin lin
CHRIS

United States

#752 Nov 8, 2012
linlinsingapore wrote:
hiii...
i just came across this discussion...2 years late though...
well, i respect men that treasure their wives and want to protect them by not wanting them to see male gynecologist.
i will never go to a male gyne and i feel creepy with a male stranger examining and touching me in my private areas...
So i think you guys that are protective of your wives from going to male gyne are to be praised.
Your wives are lucky to have you as husbands.
..just me..
lin lin
Thank you. I don't know why some wives become so militant about seeing their male gynecologist. They get nasty and call their husbands all sorts of names. Seems as though they will do anything to protect THEIR male gyno. Any idea why SOME woman do this ? Are they just a bad seed ?
ann

United States

#753 Nov 8, 2012
I hate my wife going to a male gyno, he's a Guy and we know how guys are. My wife's gyno hurt her. The pain of her going to this pile of crap without me is the same as if she cheated. But I know she never cheat on me its the pain I'm referring to. Male gynos have no bussines pawing wife's behind there husband's backs. If I was a woman and my man wanted I would go to a woman in a heart beat. Ill be damn if I can see why a woman would have a male gyno.
CHRIS

United States

#754 Nov 8, 2012
ann wrote:
I hate my wife going to a male gyno, he's a Guy and we know how guys are. My wife's gyno hurt her. The pain of her going to this pile of crap without me is the same as if she cheated. But I know she never cheat on me its the pain I'm referring to. Male gynos have no bussines pawing wife's behind there husband's backs. If I was a woman and my man wanted I would go to a woman in a heart beat. Ill be damn if I can see why a woman would have a male gyno.
If any of us men went to a woman doctor and our wife asked us to see a male doc instead, we would, in a skinny heart beat. What are you sh!tin' me! Happy wife, happy life. Though, it goes both ways. I don't have any idea why a wife would balk at the same request????
annon

United States

#757 Nov 9, 2012
Its was supposed to be annomous. I'm a husband that doesn't like some pile of crap fondling his wife. I would tell you who this creep is that hurt my wife but I don't want to get sued. Believe me this has caused a lot of problems between my wife and I. She still is going to let this creep do that HTA thing I don't know why, if I was her I would be seeing a lawyer. You know how I feel and what I would like to do
CHRIS

Bradford, VT

#758 Nov 9, 2012
annon wrote:
Its was supposed to be annomous. I'm a husband that doesn't like some pile of crap fondling his wife. I would tell you who this creep is that hurt my wife but I don't want to get sued. Believe me this has caused a lot of problems between my wife and I. She still is going to let this creep do that HTA thing I don't know why, if I was her I would be seeing a lawyer. You know how I feel and what I would like to do
If a person is telling the truth they can't be sued. Truth is an absolute defense. Also, your annomous. Did he hurt her via pal smear, or something else?

Since: Nov 12

Singapore, Singapore

#759 Nov 9, 2012
CHRIS wrote:
<quoted text> Thank you. I don't know why some wives become so militant about seeing their male gynecologist. They get nasty and call their husbands all sorts of names. Seems as though they will do anything to protect THEIR male gyno. Any idea why SOME woman do this ? Are they just a bad seed ?
hiii CHRIS...

i've got a friend she because of her anger with her husband having an affair decided to go for a male gynae....

But if a woman loves her husband, she will respect and submit to his wishes...that is what i believe is the right way.

lin lin
annon

United States

#760 Nov 9, 2012
CHRIS wrote:
<quoted text> If a person is telling the truth they can't be sued. Truth is an absolute defense. Also, your annomous. Did he hurt her via pal smear, or something else?
It was during the exam, he jabbed the living you know what out of her with the hysterscope. I told her from the start I didn't want some guy pawing her.
CHRIS

Bradford, VT

#761 Nov 9, 2012
linlinsingapore wrote:
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hiii CHRIS...
i've got a friend she because of her anger with her husband having an affair decided to go for a male gynae....
But if a woman loves her husband, she will respect and submit to his wishes...that is what i believe is the right way.
lin lin
Ahhh, just like revenge sex. Well I guess it's the same thing. Hurts the same anyways.
CHRIS

United States

#763 Nov 9, 2012
pailrider wrote:
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OK got it, I know exactly how you feel from experience, you have to get her on your side, show her some comments here, if she want longevity in your relationship, it will not happen if she goes against your morals. Sorry if I misread your post, some drop by and leave us crap lol. By the way the doctors do not care about partners, the only way is get her on your side, she has had years of brainwashing by the media friends and family, it can be hard work, Good luck and keep posting...
Some good advice hear. It's true the doctors don't give a sh!t, if they did they wouldn't have become gynecologist in the first place. They are not "regular guys." She needs to know how you feel and your not alone. Good advice to show her these comments. Let us know how you make out :)
CHRIS

United States

#764 Nov 9, 2012
annon wrote:
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It was during the exam, he jabbed the living you know what out of her with the hysterscope. I told her from the start I didn't want some guy pawing her.
There was another gentleman on either this forum or another similar one a few weeks ago with the same problem. He talked to his wife and showed her the comments from other men. She switched to a female doctor for her husband. There's one SAVED.

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