What you should know about pain during intercourse

Sep 9, 2010 Full story: SouthCoastToday.com 15

Dr. Christian S. Pope, DO, practices with HealthCare for Women Inc. in New Bedford and Mattapoisett.

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Seymour

Christchurch, New Zealand

#1 Sep 9, 2010
This article is silent about a significant cause of women finding vaginal intercourse painful or unpleasant: circumcised partners. Yet other women are unable to enjoy intercourse when he's using a condom. Many women should also use artificial lube.
enoughalready

Stockbridge, GA

#3 Sep 9, 2010
ttflyer69 wrote:
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HEY FREAK..PULL YOUR PANTS UP AND GET OUT OF YOUR MOMS BASEMENT..AND GO FIND A REAL LIVE BREATHING GIRLFRIEND....GEEEZZZZ..
Quit copying and pasting that moronic, ignorant response to so many posts, as I have seen you do.

If you have nothing better to do, follow your own advice.

Stupid people piss me off, therefore, you piss me off. Try leaving an intelligent comment now and then, just to break up the monotony of your idiocy, please!
Sherry1

Macon, GA

#4 Sep 10, 2010
ttflyer69 wrote:
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HEY FREAK..PULL YOUR PANTS UP AND GET OUT OF YOUR MOMS BASEMENT..AND GO FIND A REAL LIVE BREATHING GIRLFRIEND....GEEEZZZZ..
He's got to do something while he jacks his little two inch weenie.
Lionbar says

Chippenham, UK

#5 Sep 12, 2010
ttflyer69 wrote:
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HEY FREAK..PULL YOUR PANTS UP AND GET OUT OF YOUR MOMS BASEMENT..AND GO FIND A REAL LIVE BREATHING GIRLFRIEND....GEEEZZZZ..
See what happens when you allow this type of person to seek care in the community, instead of locking them up in a secure institution !

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#6 Sep 12, 2010
Seymour wrote:
This article is silent about a significant cause of women finding vaginal intercourse painful or unpleasant:

circumcised partners.

Yet other women are unable to enjoy intercourse when he's using a condom. Many women should also use artificial lube.
What circumcised penis got to do with painful intercourse?
Seymour

Christchurch, New Zealand

#7 Sep 12, 2010
_Space1 wrote:
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What circumcised penis got to do with painful intercourse?
In other internet forums, there are American women who say they have "been with" both kinds of men, and have noticed that they often have discomfort during or after vaginal intercourse with cut men, and never with intact men. Other women say that they have learned the hard way that they must always use artificial lube with a cut partner.

Please keep in mind that many women university students are having a lot of sex with many different partners. Having sex with a foreigner or a Latino who is a fellow student at the same college is no longer rare. Thus more and more American young ladies are becoming acquainted with trouser snakes having eyelids. With bishops wearing turtlenecks. A few don't like it. Some say it doesn't matter to them. But a number say that discovering intact intercourse was a turning point in their sex lives.

“CAUTION: I SPEAK MY MIND.”

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#8 Sep 13, 2010
Seymour wrote:
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In other internet forums, there are American women who say they have "been with" both kinds of men, and have noticed that they often have discomfort during or after vaginal intercourse with cut men, and never with intact men. Other women say that they have learned the hard way that they must always use artificial lube with a cut partner.
Please keep in mind that many women university students are having a lot of sex with many different partners. Having sex with a foreigner or a Latino who is a fellow student at the same college is no longer rare. Thus more and more American young ladies are becoming acquainted with trouser snakes having eyelids. With bishops wearing turtlenecks. A few don't like it. Some say it doesn't matter to them. But a number say that discovering intact intercourse was a turning point in their sex lives.
I can't see why those high mileage women will feel pain during intercourse unless they are dry or they have some health issue.

I only have one sexual partner and that's my hubby. And the only reasons why it hurts are because I am tight and he is long. Sometimes when I am not ready it also hurt because I am not too stimulated. But as soon as he foreplay me,I can get so wet and the ride is smooth and fun.

Majority of Filipinas are married to Filipinos who are cut. I am married to American and he is cut. I've never heard of the cut penis as an issue for pain for women during intercourse. Only in Topix.
Seymour

Christchurch, New Zealand

#9 Sep 13, 2010
Space1, for some men, giving good foreplay is as natural as breathing and sleeping. But a lot of men need to learn with the help of good women partners.

Many women have dryness issues. My SO tells me that male precum is very important. I suspect that there are women who cannot enjoy vaginal intercourse unless they combine it with masturbation.

I read many times in the 1960s and 70s that men too clumsy or too impatient to give good foreplay was the #1 sex problem, and I bet that that is still the case. For example, when I was a lad, there was a lot of talk about cunnilingus and inserting fingers into the vagina. But the only boys who talked about clitoris were those who like me, who had done a fair bit of reading. We never talked about fingering the clitoris. Even less about moving the hood (which some women cannot do but that's OK).

I have read quite a few American and Canadian who post on the internet, including in FaceBook under their real names, that they prefer intact and even find cut painful. A lot of cut men are fine partners before age 40 or 50, and many are good lifelong. But some are damaged goods, and this is something USA sex "experts" don't talk about.

The crucial thing is that young American and Canadian women nowadays often have a chance to compare cut and uncut dates. And then talk about it over the internet. More and more of these women are voting for intact. I cannot endorse this "fact finding," because doing it in the most informative way, namely without a condom, is frankly dangerous.
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#10 Sep 13, 2010
Seymour wrote:
Space1, for some men, giving good foreplay is as natural as breathing and sleeping. But a lot of men need to learn with the help of good women partners.

Many women have dryness issues. My SO tells me that male precum is very important. I suspect that there are women who cannot enjoy vaginal intercourse unless they combine it with masturbation.
I read many times in the 1960s and 70s that men too clumsy or too impatient to give good foreplay was the #1 sex problem, and I bet that that is still the case. For example, when I was a lad, there was a lot of talk about cunnilingus and inserting fingers into the vagina. But the only boys who talked about clitoris were those who like me, who had done a fair bit of reading. We never talked about fingering the clitoris. Even less about moving the hood (which some women cannot do but that's OK).

I have read quite a few American and Canadian who post on the internet, including in FaceBook under their real names, that they prefer intact and even find cut painful. A lot of cut men are fine partners before age 40 or 50, and many are good lifelong. But some are damaged goods, and this is something USA sex "experts" don't talk about.

The crucial thing is that young American and Canadian women nowadays often have a chance to compare cut and uncut dates. And then talk about it over the internet. More and more of these women are voting for intact. I cannot endorse this "fact finding," because doing it in the most informative way, namely without a condom, is frankly dangerous.
Since I don't have any other partner for an experiment,I think I just have to wait for what's next.

My hubby is 50 and still doing fine. I am on my 40's and still soupy so maybe I would see the difference when he get older and I get dryer?

If cut dong and dry bottom would means pain in the future,it is okay. I still have a moist mouth and throat to take care of him. I think my throat have a cl#t anyway. It always itches for my hubby and my throat would surely appreciate him scratching the itch with his manhood.

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#12 Sep 13, 2010
Seymour wrote:
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In other internet forums, there are American women who say they have "been with" both kinds of men, and have noticed that they often have discomfort during or after vaginal intercourse with cut men, and never with intact men. Other women say that they have learned the hard way that they must always use artificial lube with a cut partner.
Please keep in mind that many women university students are having a lot of sex with many different partners. Having sex with a foreigner or a Latino who is a fellow student at the same college is no longer rare. Thus more and more American young ladies are becoming acquainted with trouser snakes having eyelids. With bishops wearing turtlenecks. A few don't like it. Some say it doesn't matter to them. But a number say that discovering intact intercourse was a turning point in their sex lives.
They should also add a partner that is too large. Not all women are built the same and some can't take a large man. Even though many can be stretched with plenty of lube there are some that still find it uncomfortable.

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#13 Sep 13, 2010
Pamela in red wrote:
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They should also add a partner that is too large. Not all women are built the same and some can't take a large man. Even though many can be stretched with plenty of lube there are some that still find it uncomfortable.
Stop reading the sexual advise in Topix, get proper books.
Seymour

Christchurch, New Zealand

#14 Sep 14, 2010
Pamela in red wrote:
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They should also add a partner that is too large. Not all women are built the same and some can't take a large man. Even though many can be stretched with plenty of lube there are some that still find it uncomfortable.
In 2030, the only size queens in the entire USA will be total white trash who hang out at interstate truck stops. The rest of American femininity will move on.

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#15 Sep 17, 2010
Seymour wrote:
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In 2030, the only size queens in the entire USA will be total white trash who hang out at interstate truck stops. The rest of American femininity will move on.
I think that is pretty much the case now. I never hear decent women discussing things like that. Only in forums like this one.
William

Lombard, IL

#16 Aug 24, 2012
Women should be attentive about these details because it can be a source of many different problems. http://www.vaginalmeshlawsuit.com/vaginal-mes...

Since: Feb 10

North Dartmouth, MA

#17 Aug 24, 2012
Why the hell is this topic even being brought up here??? I think it all started with a perve wanting to talk about sex. Plus, it's a bunch of crap ... a circumsized weiner doesn't hurt women! What a weirdo!!!

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