Masturbation while getting a Therapeu...
Debbie

United States

#374 Oct 16, 2012
Well LMT I am not sure if you are a guy or a female LMT like me. My boyfriend who gets lots of massage at the gym from a male LMT said he would never ever get an erection with a male LMT but he does with a female LMT. None of my regular clients who masturbate " just whip it out" from under their towel. They are always very polite and ask me first. I never encourage them and they are always draped first. Yes it is very interesting their size, the amount they shoot the different colors and textures it is interesting but it never causes me to be sexually aroused. That is what different between males and females. Guys can get sexually aroused at the sight of a naked breast. That is why strip clubs are so popular with guys. Females we like to be wined and dined and have some foreplay (such as a massage) before we are sexually aroused. Its very simple when a client ejaculates they shoot all over their chests and necks and they never get any on the towel or the sheets. I hand them baby wipes, that I use for excess oils, they clean up themselves, I hand them a trash can they dispose of the baby wipes themselves. They always say thank you and are now much more relaxed. I finish the massage.
LMT-GA

Columbus, GA

#376 Oct 16, 2012
Old perv wrote:
Debbie,
I'm glad to see that some female therapists are more open minded. I can't say that I have ever masturbated in front of a LMT, but I have after they left the room.(The asian massage places around here encourage you to do it in front of them, but most won't give a hand.)
I guess I have not figured out the right way to ask if would be ok to masturbate.
The therapist I have been seeing lately knows that it happens when the massage is over but she leaves the room. I wouldn't mind if she stayed in the room while I did it. I guess that is the exhibitionist in me.
Im a female LMT Debbie. Thank you for ur honesty. Im still quite new in the world of massage and its helpful getting real life stories from other LMTs,,,:-)
Debbie

United States

#377 Oct 17, 2012
LMT-GA wrote:
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Im a female LMT Debbie. Thank you for ur honesty. Im still quite new in the world of massage and its helpful getting real life stories from other LMTs,,,:-)
Well LMT-GA it is nice to hear from another sane female LMT. I came across this topic after a search. It was nice to hear that there are other female LMTs that allow clients to masturbate. You can usually tell the guy that is very stressed and has a throbbing erection. I just tell them to relax and enjoy the music and enjoy their therapeutic massage. Some will ask me if it is ok to masturbate I tell them its ok just relax. These are regular clients that I feel comfortable with. The nice thing is they become very loyal and very regular customers. These loyal customers always help pay my monthly rent and expenses. Its really not that big of a deal to me. I know everyone has comfort levels with nudity I guess I just am now comfortable with men being nude in front of me with erections. I never touch them and they never ever have asked for anything else. They are always very polite and always say thank you after they are done. Its not all of my clients but it does make my days more interesting. Once you let one client try it you will see it is not that big of deal for us females. Best of Luck.
LMT-GA

Columbus, GA

#378 Oct 17, 2012
Debbie wrote:
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Well LMT-GA it is nice to hear from another sane female LMT. I came across this topic after a search. It was nice to hear that there are other female LMTs that allow clients to masturbate. You can usually tell the guy that is very stressed and has a throbbing erection. I just tell them to relax and enjoy the music and enjoy their therapeutic massage. Some will ask me if it is ok to masturbate I tell them its ok just relax. These are regular clients that I feel comfortable with. The nice thing is they become very loyal and very regular customers. These loyal customers always help pay my monthly rent and expenses. Its really not that big of a deal to me. I know everyone has comfort levels with nudity I guess I just am now comfortable with men being nude in front of me with erections. I never touch them and they never ever have asked for anything else. They are always very polite and always say thank you after they are done. Its not all of my clients but it does make my days more interesting. Once you let one client try it you will see it is not that big of deal for us females. Best of Luck.
Debbie you have really helped me understand something in a very sensitive grey area. again, thanks. I dont know when the day will come, but should it come i know now i dont have to stress out on what to do next. can you tell me more about your first expirence with how it came to happen?.. juicy details please :-) i dont know how you remain not aroused because honestly sometimes if its a handsome guy on my table with an erection i cant help but become a bit moist where it counts...,. of course i hide it, but inside its a rush or flood if u will. to see i guy with a throbbing erection come to orgasm with his body jumping and twitching will def cause major waterworks i believe,... im nervous,..

what type of environment do u work.? private office, spa,... have there ever been a time where things got a bit messy?.. what areas do you work when the majority of your M. clients start to reach for their erection.? do u massage slower or at the same pace,?.. and are there pressure points that could spreed things along should u start running out of time? i look forward to chatting with u and other LMTs on this very interesting subject
FloridaBeachGal

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#379 Oct 21, 2012
Cindy wrote:
I do massage in your town. My name isn't really Cindy. But I have no problem with men or woman master bating on the table. They do relax a lot more and get more out of the session. I wish there was a way to tell you who I an and where my office is without exposing me. Hope you end up on my table.
Please tell me you are in South Florida??
JanMT

Hollywood, FL

#380 Oct 27, 2012
I have read most of these posts. It apperas that most of the female LMTs do not have a problem with this topic. It appears that the only peolpe who have a problem with male erections are jealous male LMTs that know male clients prefer female LMTs. The females that have a problem with this obviously do not have a boyfirend. One even posted that semen smells really. Not all of our cleints have erections but some do. If a male client is comfortable with having an erection in front of us who cares most of us females have seen them before.
aron

Australia

#382 Nov 3, 2012
piscescmp wrote:
Masturbating during a massage?
U do realize that's sexual assault u can be arrested for that.
Is it legal to whip it out and start mastering when u buy groceries or if your at the dentist? Come on now
Hopefully the next time one of u decides to jack off the CMT stops what they are doing and calls the cops
Your a total bullshit artist, HERE IS WHAT you POSTED IN THE FEMALE
FORUM OF THE SAME TOPIC!!!!

you admit to assulting them!!!

I do some amazing glute work, it always does the trick. It's obvious when I'm massaging the inner thigh and it feels so warm. Or when their breathing changes and or you can see their heartbeat. I finish with the neck if the lady has been a little to receptive to my touch I always do a combo of neck and on point, great chest work. Never do anything illegal but sort of give them a little of what they want so they come back for more. If they want it to be clinical it'll be clinical if they are touch deprived then the session will be very nurturing. It is what it is
banguhard

Haslet, TX

#383 Nov 4, 2012
JanMT wrote:
I have read most of these posts. It apperas that most of the female LMTs do not have a problem with this topic. It appears that the only peolpe who have a problem with male erections are jealous male LMTs that know male clients prefer female LMTs. The females that have a problem with this obviously do not have a boyfirend. One even posted that semen smells really. Not all of our cleints have erections but some do. If a male client is comfortable with having an erection in front of us who cares most of us females have seen them before.
AMEN!
John UK

Leeds, UK

#384 Nov 11, 2012
Debbie wrote:
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Well LMT-GA it is nice to hear from another sane female LMT. I came across this topic after a search. It was nice to hear that there are other female LMTs that allow clients to masturbate. You can usually tell the guy that is very stressed and has a throbbing erection. I just tell them to relax and enjoy the music and enjoy their therapeutic massage. Some will ask me if it is ok to masturbate I tell them its ok just relax. These are regular clients that I feel comfortable with. The nice thing is they become very loyal and very regular customers. These loyal customers always help pay my monthly rent and expenses. Its really not that big of a deal to me. I know everyone has comfort levels with nudity I guess I just am now comfortable with men being nude in front of me with erections. I never touch them and they never ever have asked for anything else. They are always very polite and always say thank you after they are done. Its not all of my clients but it does make my days more interesting. Once you let one client try it you will see it is not that big of deal for us females. Best of Luck.
Hi Debbie
It is refreshing to hear your comments. I have been having a FBM over 6 sessions, partly to ease muscle tension in my left shoulder but also partly for relaxation. My female MT Lauren was fabulous and very professional. I was naked under a towel and she really dug down deep on my shoulder and released a lot of the tension. She worked on lower back and legs including upper thighs. The combination of the aromatic oils and her handwork soon had me in a very relaxed and aroused state. Although I remained draped under the towel it must have been very obvious I had an erection and she remained in the upper thigh area a while but did not cross the line in any way. It was good to have an easy rapport with her and she commented that guys need some personal time to be pampered now and again. I was wearing an eye pillow but I imagine that she was fully aware of my aroused state as my erection was really throbbing at this point.
Debbie

United States

#385 Nov 15, 2012
Well LMT-GA the first time I had a M client was interesting and embarrassing. He was a regular good looking customer. He obviously had an erection under his towel. He asked me very politely and kidding around if it would be ok. I told him to do whatever makes him comfortable. I did not encourage him. I was actually surprised when he started. I worked on his lower regular at a regular pace. It took him about 5 minutes. When he shot it went all over his face he was very embarrassed. I laughed handed him a couple of baby wipes to clean up. I finished the massage. This does not happen to every client that has an erection. Most of my clients that have an erection the erection just goes away during the massage. I am now now very comfortable when one of my regular clients needs to relax a little more. They become very relaxed and have a great massage. None of my M clients have ever asked for anything more.
LMT-GA

Midland, GA

#386 Nov 18, 2012
Debbie wrote:
Well LMT-GA the first time I had a M client was interesting and embarrassing. He was a regular good looking customer. He obviously had an erection under his towel. He asked me very politely and kidding around if it would be ok. I told him to do whatever makes him comfortable. I did not encourage him. I was actually surprised when he started. I worked on his lower regular at a regular pace. It took him about 5 minutes. When he shot it went all over his face he was very embarrassed. I laughed handed him a couple of baby wipes to clean up. I finished the massage. This does not happen to every client that has an erection. Most of my clients that have an erection the erection just goes away during the massage. I am now now very comfortable when one of my regular clients needs to relax a little more. They become very relaxed and have a great massage. None of my M clients have ever asked for anything more.
Omg lol i bet he never thought it would end up there. that was embarrassing :-) pretty hot until that point tho. debbie what working environment do u work? spa, home office,...

“Wanted fugitive ”

Since: Nov 12

Location hidden

#387 Nov 19, 2012
Debbie wrote:
Well LMT-GA the first time I had a M client was interesting and embarrassing. He was a regular good looking customer. He obviously had an erection under his towel. He asked me very politely and kidding around if it would be ok. I told him to do whatever makes him comfortable. I did not encourage him. I was actually surprised when he started. I worked on his lower regular at a regular pace. It took him about 5 minutes. When he shot it went all over his face he was very embarrassed. I laughed handed him a couple of baby wipes to clean up. I finished the massage. This does not happen to every client that has an erection. Most of my clients that have an erection the erection just goes away during the massage. I am now now very comfortable when one of my regular clients needs to relax a little more. They become very relaxed and have a great massage. None of my M clients have ever asked for anything more.
Really happened? Do you have regulars that have done it more than once?
Debbie

United States

#388 Nov 19, 2012
LMT-GA wrote:
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Omg lol i bet he never thought it would end up there. that was embarrassing :-) pretty hot until that point tho. debbie what working environment do u work? spa, home office,...
LMT-GA I work in a small spa setting with one other female LMT. We each have our own M customers. It makes the long days more interesting and enjoyable. I have other female LMT friends and they each have their own M customers. It really is not that big of deal once one does it, no pun intended. The key is to know your client. Our M customers are regular frequent clients that tip well. They all start off drape. They no we offer no other services or endings and never have asked for anything except a nice relaxing massage.

“Wanted fugitive ”

Since: Nov 12

Location hidden

#389 Nov 20, 2012
Debbie wrote:
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LMT-GA I work in a small spa setting with one other female LMT. We each have our own M customers. It makes the long days more interesting and enjoyable. I have other female LMT friends and they each have their own M customers. It really is not that big of deal once one does it, no pun intended. The key is to know your client. Our M customers are regular frequent clients that tip well. They all start off drape. They no we offer no other services or endings and never have asked for anything except a nice relaxing massage.
Your other female friends have similar experiences? I guess I am extra curious as I go to a gal regularly at a very nice day spa. We are very comfortable with each other and she definitely does a great job on the massage part. Seeing her every couple weeks for the past three years, she isn't shy about getting close and I definitely get erections and occasionally leak a little when on my stomach and she is doing my lower back. Honestly, she seems open that if I asked, she'd probably let me. But, and a huge but, I really don't want to do anything wrong to the point of getting anyone in trouble, embarrassing either of us or, worse, losing her as my LMT. Your feedback?
LMT-GA

Winston, GA

#390 Nov 24, 2012
debbie, ill let u answer this one,:-)
LMT-GA

United States

#391 Nov 27, 2012
Debbie thanks for responding to my post. I also work in a spa setting with about 4 other therapist.. at this point it seems we all just have regular clients, however a few of my male clients show signs that lead me to believe they want more... We will just have to wait and see I guess. What kind of tips do your M clients leave for an hour massage?
Duckhillbandit

Anniston, AL

#392 Dec 2, 2012
“P-PAP” In September!
Playboy’s - Prostate Awareness Program

Who else could make something BENIGN come to life?

The objective is to change the masculine MIND’S EYE; of men, to allowing women, toying in man’s, inner sanctions (Prostate Massage) with the intent of enhancing HIS love life.

First make the idea seem more literary, less disgusting; an easier read, with less vulgarity (four letter words) more animated descriptions… make the idea fun, rather than skuzzy.

Make the issue about masculine, prostate health… with a loveable side effect… less about SEX.

Explain “Prostate Awareness” in a better than the normal; Medical... ASSAULT the PROSTATE format… make it a… prevent the prostate from getting bad enough, to have to poison it with chemicals, to stab it with needles, and via preventative maintenance… away from the slice and dice of the surgeon’s knife.
Duckhillbandit

Anniston, AL

#393 Dec 2, 2012
NCMT wrote:
I did a search for "news about massage" and ended up on this thread.
News flash for everybody: IT'S NOT OKAY TO GET SEXUAL DURING A LEGITIMATE MASSAGE SESSION. I've been a certified massage therapist for 12 years and would never accept the behavior in which you guys engage. No matter what you've experienced or how many "therapists" you've known, you're obviously seeing sex workers, not massage therapists.
Sexual activity is never allowed during any legitimate massage session by a licensed or certified professional. Any LMT/CMT who formally studied at an accredited massage school to get licensed/certified knows that they risk losing their credentials for sexual behavior in the massage room, as it's a huge breach of ethics. Would a physician tolerate you jerking off during a routine visit? Get real.
For the yahoo from OK who considers himself a "massage fan", don't speak for the group of true professionals with whom you clearly have had no experience. To state that "Most female therapists consider helping you masturbate as part of their job...It all depends on how well she knows you" is ridiculously erroneous.
Hey Johsonplay in NJ (where I happen to work), you're not the expert you think you are. "A number of massage therapists" ARE NOT "starting to be OK with a client masturbating." Guess what--when the recession hit, I got a second job to supplement my income. I haven't "lost" any clients because none of them were interested in sexual favors to begin with.
To sum up, don't confuse massage therapy with prostitution--healthy, compassionate touch doesn't equal sex, and the confused belief that it does leads to a lot of misguided behavior.
Making the jump from nasty to Therapy...
“P-PAP” In September!(Prostate Awareness Month)
Playboy’s - Prostate Awareness Program

Who else could make something BENIGN come back to life?

The objective is to change the masculine MIND’S EYE; of men, to allowing women, toying in man’s inner sanctions (Prostate Massage) with the intent of enhancing HIS love life.

First make the idea seem more literary, less disgusting; an easier read, with less vulgarity (four letter words), more animated descriptions; make the idea fun, rather than skuzzy.

Make the issue about masculine, prostate health… with a loveable side effect… less about SEX.

Explain “Prostate Awareness” in a better than the normal; Medical… ASSAULT the PROSTATE format… make it a… "prevent the prostate from getting bad enough" in the first place, to have to poison it with chemicals, to stab it with needles, and via preventative maintenance… away from the slice and dice of the surgeon’s knife.
(But first, it needs to be suggested by more than one or two men and women. Start Suggesting! Bring this Special Massage from the dark ages to the future of Men's Health. By the way, this massage used to be the common means of keeping the prostate from going bad... Before "the Pill" made "the Finger" obsolete. More profitable as well.
Paul

Birmingham, AL

#394 Dec 19, 2012
Debbie wrote:
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LMT-GA I work in a small spa setting with one other female LMT. We each have our own M customers. It makes the long days more interesting and enjoyable. I have other female LMT friends and they each have their own M customers. It really is not that big of deal once one does it, no pun intended. The key is to know your client. Our M customers are regular frequent clients that tip well. They all start off drape. They no we offer no other services or endings and never have asked for anything except a nice relaxing massage.
This is a nice compromise between therapists who offer a "happy ending" and therapists who insist that all erections are inappropriate, and that sexual arousal can never be part of a massage.

And because there's no sexual contact between you and the client, it isn't illegal. It may be against the code of massage ethics in your jurisdiction, depending on whether or not your area allows for undraped massage with consent of both client and therapist. Some do, some don't.

But, you are not providing any sexual services to the client. At most, you are engaging in a form of voyeurism, watching the client masturbate (and I can say that is arousing to many men, myself included.)

Obviously, I'd always prefer to have someone else provide the happy ending, rather than using my own hand! Still, if this is what a therapist is comfortable with, it's better than a massage that remains draped, and ends with no release at all.

Well done, and thanks for being willing to discuss this openly. I know it isn't always easy to do so, and I appreciate it.
Sexsee Sonia

United States

#395 Jan 6, 2013
Cautious wrote:
If you're going to do this sort of thing, you'd better have a long list of potential LMT's to book for future appointments. At the very least, you may not get repeat appointments if you do this. Many will NOT condone this sort of behavior in any fashion, and as noted above, some MAY report your lecherous ass to the authorities. If she willingly touches you, to whatever degree, that's one thing--if you don't report it, she surely won't either; if you begin to get frisky, you become the aggressor in the eyes of the law and are subject to HER charges, if she objects. Don't say you weren't warned...
BTW, I'm a cop who enjoys massage and I know to keep my hands above the sheet...or at least, out of trouble.
Its so funny how guys will waste their money on hopes of getting their peter touched. Why not just go to an Asian/Oriental massage parlor. Better yet, help out us independent providers. Rates are usually the same, sometimes lower.

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