Masturbation while getting a Therapeutic Massage (Is it Normal?)

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Unsure

Scarsdale, NY

#1 May 6, 2010
I admit I have masturbated while my female massage therapist gave me a massage. She did not say a word. I just put my hand under the towel and masturbated because I could not stand the arousal any longer. She did not encourage me, but I must admit I enjoyed it. I did ejacualate and cleaned up a bit with the towel. She just kept massaging me like nothing happened.

Is it OK to do that? I bet a lot of LMT's just look the other way like mine did.

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Kman

Clearwater, FL

#2 May 7, 2010
I'm glad to see i'm not the only one with this experience.. I recently went to a local massage therapist in which it is not necessary to drape (cover with towel) seeing that i am 24 and pretty well hung, i figured it would be exciting to let it hang out while she massages me. before she got back in the room i made sure whe i laid on my belly to tuck it back so she could see it from the back...by the time i was ready to turn over i was just dripping semen..when she went to work on my thighs... that was it.. i couldnt help but reach down and grab my throbbing cock... it hurt it was so hard.. so i grabbed it for a second and stopped... went back again and stroked it.. no response from her... so i went for it and kept jerking until i came... i apologized to her and said i just couldnt help it... it was causing me discomfort.. she replued with I understaqnd and didnt see anything wink wink. and we left it at that.. adter being relieved the massage was 100% better! i have not been back... but i cant wait... thkis time i wanna undress with her in the room and talk to her while my cock is just hanging out so i can catch her looking at it! do u get aroused the same way?

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Erectus

Thailand

#3 May 8, 2010
Nothing wrong with this at all, IMHO. I've done it for years and think of it as a hobby. HOWEVER, be careful as a massage therapist who is a bit off her rocker might call this sort of thing an assault and go to the police. It has happened as a google search will reveal. Also, a well know celebrity was accused of doing this, but I don't think he got into legal trouble. But it was all over the internet. Kevin Costner.

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feelingthesame

Kingsland, GA

#4 May 22, 2010
I perposely go to massages just for the hopes that the therapyst touches my erect cock.
I have been going to this one for a couple visits. when the massage is just about over I will grab it and start stroking it .. she replies by saying I will give you a few minutes to finish up. I am meeting with her on the 28th and I am hoping I can hint to her to touch it. I know she wants to just by the may she massages me:)

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Cautious

Baton Rouge, LA

#5 May 22, 2010
If you're going to do this sort of thing, you'd better have a long list of potential LMT's to book for future appointments. At the very least, you may not get repeat appointments if you do this. Many will NOT condone this sort of behavior in any fashion, and as noted above, some MAY report your lecherous ass to the authorities. If she willingly touches you, to whatever degree, that's one thing--if you don't report it, she surely won't either; if you begin to get frisky, you become the aggressor in the eyes of the law and are subject to HER charges, if she objects. Don't say you weren't warned...

BTW, I'm a cop who enjoys massage and I know to keep my hands above the sheet...or at least, out of trouble.
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Moreno Valley, CA

#6 Jun 2, 2010
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Har Nee

Twinsburg, OH

#7 Jun 3, 2010
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Not just 4 massage

Twinsburg, OH

#8 Jun 4, 2010
I like to masturbate while getting a colonoscopy. The gastroenterologist and his nurse just look the other way and don't say a word.
What? Why do you think I'm a perv? Flogging my dong allows me to be "relaxed" during the colonoscopy and it's a natural thing, you know. I've had 4 colonoscopies so far this year and I'm scheduled for next week. Should I take the office staff some flowers?

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Paul

Birmingham, AL

#9 Jun 4, 2010
Ignoring the silly colonoscopy comment above, I'll echo the advice to be cautious. If a massage therapist tells you to stop, STOP immediately. A client who continued touching himself after the therapist asked him not to could get into big trouble.
Massage Fan

Oklahoma City, OK

#10 Jun 9, 2010
Paul wrote:
Ignoring the silly colonoscopy comment above, I'll echo the advice to be cautious. If a massage therapist tells you to stop, STOP immediately. A client who continued touching himself after the therapist asked him not to could get into big trouble.
It is all in the manner of how you bring up the subject (no pun intended). If you already know the therapist somewhat and you really need to do it (get rid of the buildup) then simply politely say that you have to masturbate. And start doing it. She may leave the room and let you finish in private; more likely she will stay in there and watch- men would watch a woman who masturbates; and most women like to see nude men. If you are masturbating you are certainly NOT a threat to her so she safely have some "viewing pleasure".

A female therapist will probably be constrained by how much help she can provide to you in this "endeavor"; she can legally massage the outside of your prostate. Most therapists, if they know you are not in law enforcement and if you are a nice person, will eventually feel comfortable enough to help you in one way or another beyond massaging the outside of your prostate. This is not the 1950s; everybody knows that everybody else has needs. Most female therapists consider helping you masturbate as part of their job in a sense; though a part they are usually restricted from doing. It all depends on how well she knows you.

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LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#11 Jun 10, 2010
Massage Fan wrote:
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It is all in the manner of how you bring up the subject (no pun intended). If you already know the therapist somewhat and you really need to do it (get rid of the buildup) then simply politely say that you have to masturbate. And start doing it. She may leave the room and let you finish in private; more likely she will stay in there and watch- men would watch a woman who masturbates; and most women like to see nude men. If you are masturbating you are certainly NOT a threat to her so she safely have some "viewing pleasure".
A female therapist will probably be constrained by how much help she can provide to you in this "endeavor"; she can legally massage the outside of your prostate. Most therapists, if they know you are not in law enforcement and if you are a nice person, will eventually feel comfortable enough to help you in one way or another beyond massaging the outside of your prostate. This is not the 1950s; everybody knows that everybody else has needs. Most female therapists consider helping you masturbate as part of their job in a sense; though a part they are usually restricted from doing. It all depends on how well she knows you.
Or you could just get a girlfriend and quit fantasizing about your MT.
Johnsonplay

Matawan, NJ

#13 Jun 11, 2010
A number of Massage Therapists are starting to be OK with a client masturbating. Due to the recession, they simply cannot risk losing clients.

I went into a new place yesterday and was surprised that the lady was wearing a clear shield over her face, like the kind some dentists use. I asked her why she wore it and she said she doesn't want to risk any "bodily fluids" getting in her eye.

I took this as a sign to masturbate after she had massaged my back areas and had me turn over. Sure enough the shield worked as I hit it when I ejaculated. She didn't say a word, just kept massaging me.
Linus

Ridgewood, NY

#14 Jul 26, 2010
Wow. A lot of guy in Hazlet, NJ love the ho's!:) Hi Liberal Dem :) Hope Im not being too "emotional" for ya! HAHAHAHHA!
Johnsonplay wrote:
A number of Massage Therapists are starting to be OK with a client masturbating. Due to the recession, they simply cannot risk losing clients.
I went into a new place yesterday and was surprised that the lady was wearing a clear shield over her face, like the kind some dentists use. I asked her why she wore it and she said she doesn't want to risk any "bodily fluids" getting in her eye.
I took this as a sign to masturbate after she had massaged my back areas and had me turn over. Sure enough the shield worked as I hit it when I ejaculated. She didn't say a word, just kept massaging me.

Since: May 08

Miami, FL

#15 Jul 30, 2010
I thought I had a wild imagination...
Charles Yong

Singapore, Singapore

#17 Sep 1, 2010
Yeap I did that a few times during massage but usually under the towel. Not sure if the MT noticed though but I guess that sort of thing is rather obvious even if its under the towel :)
Bob

Chiang Mai, Thailand

#19 Sep 1, 2010
Charles Yong wrote:
Yeap I did that a few times during massage but usually under the towel. Not sure if the MT noticed though but I guess that sort of thing is rather obvious even if its under the towel :)
Hey, you wun be smilin if she cane you, lah. Dun do that.

Since: Sep 10

Ocean City, NJ

#20 Sep 5, 2010
I did a search for "news about massage" and ended up on this thread.

News flash for everybody: IT'S NOT OKAY TO GET SEXUAL DURING A LEGITIMATE MASSAGE SESSION. I've been a certified massage therapist for 12 years and would never accept the behavior in which you guys engage. No matter what you've experienced or how many "therapists" you've known, you're obviously seeing sex workers, not massage therapists.

Sexual activity is never allowed during any legitimate massage session by a licensed or certified professional. Any LMT/CMT who formally studied at an accredited massage school to get licensed/certified knows that they risk losing their credentials for sexual behavior in the massage room, as it's a huge breach of ethics. Would a physician tolerate you jerking off during a routine visit? Get real.

For the yahoo from OK who considers himself a "massage fan", don't speak for the group of true professionals with whom you clearly have had no experience. To state that "Most female therapists consider helping you masturbate as part of their job...It all depends on how well she knows you" is ridiculously erroneous.

Hey Johsonplay in NJ (where I happen to work), you're not the expert you think you are. "A number of massage therapists" ARE NOT "starting to be OK with a client masturbating." Guess what--when the recession hit, I got a second job to supplement my income. I haven't "lost" any clients because none of them were interested in sexual favors to begin with.

To sum up, don't confuse massage therapy with prostitution--healthy, compassionate touch doesn't equal sex, and the confused belief that it does leads to a lot of misguided behavior.

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Fan of Al and Kevin

Chiang Mai, Thailand

#21 Sep 5, 2010
NCMT,

You are just plain wrong. Lot's of men are masturbating as part of a massage, Al Gore and Kevin Costner to name two. Just do a google search and you will see.

There is nothing wrong with sexual release as part of a massage. If you don't like it, get another job.
Charles Yong

Singapore, Singapore

#22 Sep 5, 2010
I agree... On my last session, I again did it but this time i admitted to my MT and she replied it was ok.
biglad

UK

#24 Sep 9, 2010
we are talking abaout if the masssage person is ok wiv it

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