Non Sexual Penis Massage
sparkp51

Clinton, MA

#48 Apr 25, 2011
Thor Elfdail wrote:
Well, bellfly, why do we need "studies" to show us what is and is not a "sane nation." Because it's pretty evident without studies that ours is not a sane nation. Why do you think sexual favors have anything to do with sanity? Or morality? And who cares what some National Exam may or may not contain, when one is interested in sexual favors that may occur as part of a massage between two consenting adults?
As for you, LMT, why do you suggest that a man find a girlfriend to give him a handjob? Isn't that a pretty shallow reason to start up a significant relationship? What kind of person are you? Besides, in most cases, a man's wife would disapprove! So now you're promoting domestic violence and divorce. One thing I notice about you blue-nose wowser types, for all your holy show, you tend to be responsible for much evil! Finally, many older males enjoy spending quality time with young women in their twenties. Obviously, most twenty-something women don't care to become romantically involved with 50-70 year old males, however interesting they may find them. So some sort of pecuniary compensation must be involved. However scandalous you find that, what right do you have to deny either party here what they need and want? And what's so wrong with this anyhow? A woman must pay her way and the younger boys can't or won't do that, or in many cases the woman in question simply does't care to be beholden to anyone. Erotic massage offers a wonderful way for a woman to make her way in the world. For the god's sake, LMT, why do you imagine that massage is only about working on hamstrings, glutes, etc? How drab and boring!
Wow.. you are right on.. I could not have said it better... you hit the Mark so right.. and gave her a reality check... thank you... on your in site...
Kennny D

Debary, FL

#50 Jul 3, 2011
I am a male , who has done massage therapy for over 30 years .. included with my massage is reflexology on hand and feet , as well as REIKI Healing as I am also a REIKI master-Teacher ....
Early on ; I came across males (abut 95%) who would make a remark about "Happy Ending" , "Groin Massage" , "Penis Massage", and some even used the words like "Tantric" or "Lingam" .... there were also those who'd say something like "Can ya' help a buddy out ?" and such comments since 99% of the time the guys would have full blown erections by the time I reached that area of their body ...
I have each and every one sign a disclaimer /release stating that they are NOT law enforcement and have request a "Sensual/Erotic" massage and agree not to hold me liable , either criminally or civilly as a direct or indirect result of this treatment ... Then; IF they request groin , lingam, tantra, penis, etc etc massage .. they get it ... and so far ; NO ONE has tried to prosecute me for anything related to their treatments ... Everyone who has received the "Special" massages has become repeat clients ..
Nowdays , I am semi retired ; BUT have five regular male clients who each get a massage once a week , minimum . One guy comes three times a week ... and anyone has to be a REFERRAL from a current client .. Four of my current clients are 19 - 28 .. and the other is 34 years of age .. and so far ; NO Complaints ....
If you find a massage therapist who can / will do the Lingam / Groin Massage .. give it a try; you might surprise yourself as one customer calls it getting "SEXYFIED" ...
LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#51 Jul 4, 2011
Kennny D wrote:
I am a male , who has done massage therapy for over 30 years .. included with my massage is reflexology on hand and feet , as well as REIKI Healing as I am also a REIKI master-Teacher ....
Early on ; I came across males (abut 95%) who would make a remark about "Happy Ending" , "Groin Massage" , "Penis Massage", and some even used the words like "Tantric" or "Lingam" .... there were also those who'd say something like "Can ya' help a buddy out ?" and such comments since 99% of the time the guys would have full blown erections by the time I reached that area of their body ...
I have each and every one sign a disclaimer /release stating that they are NOT law enforcement and have request a "Sensual/Erotic" massage and agree not to hold me liable , either criminally or civilly as a direct or indirect result of this treatment ... Then; IF they request groin , lingam, tantra, penis, etc etc massage .. they get it ... and so far ; NO ONE has tried to prosecute me for anything related to their treatments ... Everyone who has received the "Special" massages has become repeat clients ..
Nowdays , I am semi retired ; BUT have five regular male clients who each get a massage once a week , minimum . One guy comes three times a week ... and anyone has to be a REFERRAL from a current client .. Four of my current clients are 19 - 28 .. and the other is 34 years of age .. and so far ; NO Complaints ....
If you find a massage therapist who can / will do the Lingam / Groin Massage .. give it a try; you might surprise yourself as one customer calls it getting "SEXYFIED" ...
But of course it's a "non-sexual" hand job
LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#52 Jul 4, 2011
Prostitutes, take note:
Now you can have your Johns sign a disclaimer statement that says,
"I hereby certify that I am not involved in Law Enforcement, and that the BJ you are about to give me is in no way sexual and is for therapeutic purposes only."

“The Truth Can Hurt:”

Since: Jul 11

Central Florida

#53 Jul 4, 2011
LMT wrote:
Prostitutes, take note:
Now you can have your Johns sign a disclaimer statement that says,
"I hereby certify that I am not involved in Law Enforcement, and that the BJ you are about to give me is in no way sexual and is for therapeutic purposes only."
Perhaps YOU might try Stand Up Comedy .. You would be FAIRLY good at it ...
Phil

London, UK

#54 Jul 4, 2011
I had my first massage recently, an undraped Lomi-Lomi massage. She came very close to the boy bits but stopped just short, pulling my legs out like frogs legs to avoid any contact.
Before the next massage I asked her a carefully worded question.
I asked her if any other clients had ever asked for extras and if so what was her answer. I did not ask her for myself directly. She suggested I come to the next session and I would find out, so to speak and sure enough lets just say I was very happy with the way the massage ended.
Phil

London, UK

#55 Jul 4, 2011
On a slightly connected topic I do belive there is a legitimate Thai massage service that concentrates on the male genitals, the purpose of which is to help those who are not so 'potent' to become more so.
After my second 'full' massage I ejaculated far more than I normally would. The masseuse actually commented on the volume produced.
Sorry to be so graphic.
For those who have thought about such a massage I thoroughly recommend it.
If you don't think you will last long ask the masseuse or masseur to 'do' you a little and often rather than all at the end, if you get my meaning.
LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#56 Jul 4, 2011
Kennny D wrote:
<quoted text>
Perhaps YOU might try Stand Up Comedy .. You would be FAIRLY good at it ...
Just calling a "Jack Shack" what it is...
j-El

Woodland, CA

#58 Aug 15, 2011
Yes. This is a non sexual massage and you should not ask for anything more as this would be very disrespectful in the thai culture

“The Truth Can Hurt:”

Since: Jul 11

Central Florida

#59 Aug 15, 2011
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>But of course it's a "non-sexual" hand job
Since you have a computer ; might I suggest that you look up "Lingam Massage" and "Tantric Massage" in your search engine ....

Of course; it does become more or less "Sexual" ... there is no way around it ; but it isn't like anyone is kissing anyone , giving oral sex , or anal sex ... it is simply a groin massage and in most cases , the guy gets a release ... where is the HARM in that ?

If anyone ever really has had one and not just a "Hand Job" .. they probably are going back for more also ....
LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#60 Aug 15, 2011
Kennny D wrote:
<quoted text>
Since you have a computer ; might I suggest that you look up "Lingam Massage" and "Tantric Massage" in your search engine ....
Of course; it does become more or less "Sexual" ... there is no way around it ; but it isn't like anyone is kissing anyone , giving oral sex , or anal sex ... it is simply a groin massage and in most cases , the guy gets a release ... where is the HARM in that ?
If anyone ever really has had one and not just a "Hand Job" .. they probably are going back for more also ....
That's your point? "I like it and it doesn't harm ME, so I demand that it be mandated in all massage establishments."
Would YOU give your father a groin massage? Or your brother?
Paul

Birmingham, AL

#61 Aug 15, 2011
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>That's your point? "I like it and it doesn't harm ME, so I demand that it be mandated in all massage establishments."
That's not any different than what you say, repeatedly, LMT:
"I DON'T like it so I demand it NOT be offered in any massage establishments, even when its twelve states away from me and has nothing to do with me."
You're not that different, it seems.
STR8_LMT

Chickamauga, GA

#62 Aug 17, 2011
I'm a straight male LMT. I have no desire to give another male a lingam, groin, or non-sexual or sexual penis massage. That's just my preference. I have given female clients sensual massages, which was fun for both of us. No sex was involved between us, but I did finish their massage with a woman's version of a HJ. My tips were generous, and yes I know this is not legitimate practice of massage therapy, so don't condemn me if you don't like it.

I would love to receive such a massage myself. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. As long as the boundries are set, and both the therapist and client agree on the outcome. In otherwords, what happens between two consenting adults should be there business.

One more thing, one of the female clients came to me specifically requesting this type of massage. She had issue's with reaching an orgasm and wanted help.
WAT THEY KNOW

United States

#63 Aug 26, 2011
ILL JUS SAY THAT ANY LADY THAT DOES THAT IS WILLING TO FINSH WAT SHE STARTED WAT,A LADY JUS TOUCHES You THEIR AND IT's SAPOST TO BE OK LIKE IF You WENT IN TO THE STORE AND PAID FOR SOMTHING AND THAT's THAT,NAH I THINK SHE's JUS MAKING SHURE UR NOT GONNA CALL THE COPS OR BE A COP SHE WANTS You TO SAY SOMTHING SO SHE CAN GET MORE OF THAT MONEY BUT I've ONLY HAD ALOT OF MASSAGES THAT SAID IT's NON SEXUAL AND ENDS UP IN THEIR HANDS BUT THAT MITE JUS B ME AND EVERY OTHER GUY THAT KNOWS WATS TO HAPPENed BY GOING INTO A SESSION.WELL HOPE FULLY I HELP You OUT UNDER STAND SO NEXT TIME You GO IN UR HEART WILL BE POUNDING BUT JUS GIVE HER A SIGN HAHA LATER PLAYBOY
LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#65 Aug 26, 2011
WAT THEY KNOW wrote:
ILL JUS SAY THAT ANY LADY THAT DOES THAT IS WILLING TO FINSH WAT SHE STARTED WAT,A LADY JUS TOUCHES You THEIR AND IT's SAPOST TO BE OK LIKE IF You WENT IN TO THE STORE AND PAID FOR SOMTHING AND THAT's THAT,NAH I THINK SHE's JUS MAKING SHURE UR NOT GONNA CALL THE COPS OR BE A COP SHE WANTS You TO SAY SOMTHING SO SHE CAN GET MORE OF THAT MONEY BUT I've ONLY HAD ALOT OF MASSAGES THAT SAID IT's NON SEXUAL AND ENDS UP IN THEIR HANDS BUT THAT MITE JUS B ME AND EVERY OTHER GUY THAT KNOWS WATS TO HAPPENed BY GOING INTO A SESSION.WELL HOPE FULLY I HELP You OUT UNDER STAND SO NEXT TIME You GO IN UR HEART WILL BE POUNDING BUT JUS GIVE HER A SIGN HAHA LATER PLAYBOY
Do you even own a pair of shoes? What a hick!
Hotdude

Hollywood, FL

#66 Aug 26, 2011
I don't know about shoes, but you sound like an 11 year old using your parents computer for the 1st time? Wow, you need to get back to school son.
franco

Geneseo, NY

#67 Aug 28, 2011
Massage therapist are nothing more then, half prostitute and a little college experience. It is a lousy 6 month course and their stupidity and healing power leads the dum into spending money on their nonsense. Have plenty of massages and most of you truly sucked, save you shit for the dummies and your lousy experience or bullshit as I call it.
KennyD

Debary, FL

#68 Aug 28, 2011
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>That's your point? "I like it and it doesn't harm ME, so I demand that it be mandated in all massage establishments."
Would YOU give your father a groin massage? Or your brother?
No; of course not; just like a doctor would not give his brother or father a digital prostate exam ...
There are many articles that state that the groin / Lingam/Tantric massage is very healthy and beneficial to males for a variety of reasons.
I NEVER said that it should be "Mandated" in all massage parlors or by all massage therapist; I said that IF a therapist and client agree ; then there should be nothing illegal or obscene considered about as it is between two consenting adults and for the benefit of the one.
If anyone has NOT had a good groin massage; I'd suggest that you try one if you can get one and find out just how good they can be.
LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#69 Aug 28, 2011
KennyD wrote:
<quoted text>
No; of course not; just like a doctor would not give his brother or father a digital prostate exam ...
There are many articles that state that the groin / Lingam/Tantric massage is very healthy and beneficial to males for a variety of reasons.
I NEVER said that it should be "Mandated" in all massage parlors or by all massage therapist; I said that IF a therapist and client agree ; then there should be nothing illegal or obscene considered about as it is between two consenting adults and for the benefit of the one.
If anyone has NOT had a good groin massage; I'd suggest that you try one if you can get one and find out just how good they can be.
"Many articles" does NOT mean that this "technique" has been clinically evaluated through any trial sanctioned by the AMA, let alone approved for the massage room. Go to any State Medical Board web site and see how many physicians have been stripped of their license for sexual contact with their patients, even when "both parties agree." Why would you think that if physicians are prohibited from doing this, that massage therapists would be expected to have a lower standard of ethics?
blah

Minneapolis, MN

#70 Sep 9, 2011
Interestingly, this came up with the Supreme Court of Canada. They have mandated that a full body massage "can" include the genitals, but by no means is required. In other words, in Canada, like most of the rest of the world, it is okay.

No therapist should ever cross boundaries that he or she is not comfortable with. As clients, we must be respectful of the therapists' boundaries, just as therapists should be respectful of ours.

LMT, I'm glad you've defined your own set of ethics. That is as it should be. On the other hand, as I've said before, not everyones' boundaries are in the same place. YOU don't need to define everyone else's. We're all perfectly capable of doing that for ourselves.

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