Is my LMT crossing the line or just c...

Is my LMT crossing the line or just comfortable?

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#1 Dec 24, 2012
I am no stranger to massage therapy, I have been on many tables over the years, but only within the last couple months have I found an LMT whose heavy pressure suits me. That said, nothing inappropriate has ever happened during my massage, but of late I do question some of the accidental brushings.

Is accidental brushing of the testicles, shaft, and even perineum (anogenital distance) every single massage still considered accidental? Or is it simply a matter of my LMT relaxing (and just possibly not paying attention) because of acquired trust and distraction during normal chit-chat?

I'm not one to demand complete coverage, though I insist my LMT keep me covered to his/her comfort level as an uncomfortable LMT means not a great massage. Now it seems I'm undraped more than draped - which I'm fine with, but again.. is it just because the draping can be a pain in the ass to deal with and my LMT knows it doesn't matter to me?

It also seems as though each time I go back, the strokes become longer and slower and often, over sensitive areas, fingertip light. There is no way this cannot be arousing and my LMT would be blind not to see, but again, is this change in stroke simply due to the fact that I see my LMT on a regular basis and perhaps the heaviest pressures are no longer continually needed (my muscles are MUCH looser now that I get regular massage therapy).

Don't get me wrong, I am no prude - just curious to know why with this particular LMT I seem to maintain a much higher arousal level than I have in past. Is it me? I mean I've been on a lot of tables, as I've said, but never really been loyal to one LMT until now. Any thoughts? I'd be curious to hear from others if this is just normal boundaries relaxing over a period of time and trust with the same person.

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#3 Dec 24, 2012
That I didn't reveal the gender of my LMT was actually on purpose. I've seen enough postings in this forum to know how quickly some of the more puritanical will group the female lmt into the catagory of prostitute just yanking someone's chain for bigger tips, and the male lmt will be lumped in along with the client as homosexuals. Neither is the case. So I'm interested in what someone thinks specifically of the slow progress some of the familiarity in my massage has taken. If someone must have the gender to make an accurate assumption, then please assume both. What if it is a female? What if it is a male? Is there a different answer or would it be the same? I mean, isn't professionalism supposed to be gender-biased?

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#4 Dec 24, 2012
sorry - meant: isn't professionalism supposed to not be gender-biased?

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#6 Dec 25, 2012
That's weird. What happened to the previous two responses? Can posts just be deleted?

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#7 Dec 26, 2012
LOL, it looks as if I'm carrying on a conversation with myself, but there was someone else posting in-between my posts. Wonder what happened to those responses?
Smokybare

Holliston, MA

#8 Dec 26, 2012
You should consider yourself lucky his posts are gone. Look back and read some of his posts, you'll see what I mean. Maybe he's banned.

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#9 Dec 26, 2012
I kind of wondered. I sort of had the feeling he was trying to draw me out where I want to get an intelligent point of view from someone. All he kept posting in between my posts was: "Is your LMT a man or a woman?" And despite my answer, he just re-asked the same question.
kajak

Albert Lea, MN

#10 Dec 27, 2012
Manmanman from Norway is obsessed with male LMTs giving him ejaculations, as you can read in his posts.

Same time he is offending here users with his pseudo-religious aggressions.

I collect his posts and my lawyer is preparing to take actions (Manmanman, sorry, to ruin your expectations, but he is not gay and will not pee on you.:-))

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#11 Dec 27, 2012
LOL Kajak! That's awesome. But it wasn't manmanman who was posting here, but his alter ego, mannanman who would post trying to get people to think it was manmanman. And I've seen the stuff mannanman has called poeple here on the forums which is why I wouldn't answer his questions. But I don't think the religious dude has been kicked off, his posts are still here

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#12 Jan 17, 2013
klyent wrote:
I am no stranger to massage therapy, I have been on many tables over the years, but only within the last couple months have I found an LMT whose heavy pressure suits me. That said, nothing inappropriate has ever happened during my massage, but of late I do question some of the accidental brushings.
Is accidental brushing of the testicles, shaft, and even perineum (anogenital distance) every single massage still considered accidental? Or is it simply a matter of my LMT relaxing (and just possibly not paying attention) because of acquired trust and distraction during normal chit-chat?
I'm not one to demand complete coverage, though I insist my LMT keep me covered to his/her comfort level as an uncomfortable LMT means not a great massage. Now it seems I'm undraped more than draped - which I'm fine with, but again.. is it just because the draping can be a pain in the ass to deal with and my LMT knows it doesn't matter to me?
It also seems as though each time I go back, the strokes become longer and slower and often, over sensitive areas, fingertip light. There is no way this cannot be arousing and my LMT would be blind not to see, but again, is this change in stroke simply due to the fact that I see my LMT on a regular basis and perhaps the heaviest pressures are no longer continually needed (my muscles are MUCH looser now that I get regular massage therapy).
Don't get me wrong, I am no prude - just curious to know why with this particular LMT I seem to maintain a much higher arousal level than I have in past. Is it me? I mean I've been on a lot of tables, as I've said, but never really been loyal to one LMT until now. Any thoughts? I'd be curious to hear from others if this is just normal boundaries relaxing over a period of time and trust with the same person.
I finally got my answer to this question

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#14 Jan 21, 2013
deengreenx wrote:
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What was the answer?
The last muscle was definitely added to my massage. Well, now I know what was going on.
Jbraceboy

Happy Valley, OR

#15 Aug 5, 2014
Interesting

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