Wearing A Condom for Massage if Nude?

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Since: Jun 11

Wolcott, CT

#1 Jun 24, 2011
I had my very first massage with a wonderful LMT. She told me to undress while she left the room to my comfort level and put a towel over my buttocks. I undressed down to my briefs and socks. I was very anxious and nervous never having this done before. After working on my shoulders and arms she worked on my lower back. The gentle but firm rocking motion got my aroused and before I knew what was happening I ejaculated into my briefs. I'm not sure she noticed but needless to say I was nervous the rest of the time, especially when I flipped over and covered myself with the towel. Nothing was said by her and after getting changed I made another appointment.

The second and last time I saw her I decided to take precautions. I went to the bathroom before having my massage and put on a condom just in case the same thing happened again. I undressed down to my just my briefs and it was the best hour of my life! She worked my fingers, toes, face and neck wonderfully. I pulled my briefs down a little as she got a lot of cream on them the first time. I got aroused at times, but never to the point of ejaculation and it felt so wonderful that I set up another appointment in two weeks.

I want to undress all the way next time so she wont get any cream on my expensive underwear and also to feel more relaxed. I'm fearful though of having an accidental ejaculation again. I thought I would just put on a condom before I had the massage so that if anything did happen, it wouldn't get all over her table and me too. I'm hesitant to do this as she might notice, especially when I flip over as I cover myself and get the wrong idea. On my last visit when I flipped over I was feeling quite relaxed and had a good erection in my briefs that I'm sure she noticed under the towel. She didn't say anything or seem uncomfortable and allowed me to make another appointment. I'm a very happily married man and have no desire for anything more than just a great massage to relieve the stress and pains in my neck, back and also get relief from my migraines. Would I be doing the right thing to wear a condom or not? Thanks in advance for any and all advice provided.
Hotdude

Hollywood, FL

#2 Jun 24, 2011
if you fear that you will ejaculate, then simply masturbate beforehand. I always go with nothing under the sheet/towel, and many LMTs do undraped massages. This is the beast way to go!!
I have an opinion too

United States

#3 Jun 24, 2011
It is clear from some of the comments on this forum that it is not unusual for male to enjoy an undraped massage. What about the ladies viewing this forum? Do any of you enjoy an undraped massage? Just curious.

Since: Jun 11

United States

#4 Jun 26, 2011
Hotdude wrote:
if you fear that you will ejaculate, then simply masturbate beforehand. I always go with nothing under the sheet/towel, and many LMTs do undraped massages. This is the beast way to go!!
Thanks for the reply, but masturbation is not an option because of my beliefs.

Any LMT's here that could please comment on my original questions. Thanks in advance.

Since: Jun 11

Englewood, FL

#5 Jun 29, 2011
Aren't there any LMT's here that could please answer my question? How about instead wearing a sock or drawstring bag over my genitals? I'm not a pervert, I just don't want to have an accident on the table.

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#6 Jun 29, 2011
Wear some cheap underwear that you don't mind a little massage oil on, problem solved.

A little confused, you are okay with ejaculating during a massage but feel it is inappropriate to masturbate. The rocking that rocked your world is not much different than self satisfaction.

You seemed to be focused more on the sexual nature than the relaxation nature of the massage, which gives rise to disbelieving the whole story.
Bwaaahahahahahah aha

Buffalo, NY

#7 Jun 29, 2011
That is the funniest thing ive heard in a long time!
Dork gets a massage, blows his load!
Johnny

Saint Louis, MO

#8 Jun 29, 2011
Lol at people taking the troll's post seriously. Well, it's hard to find somebody who is not a troll on this board :-)

"a sock or drawstring bag over the genitals" LOL Very amusing. Do they have "the best of Topix massage forum" ?

Come on guys help him out, I think a plastic shopping bag would be the right thing to wrap around the family jewels in this situation :-)
cici

Kansas City, MO

#9 Jun 29, 2011
I'm a therapist and erections are normal. All of the sudden blood flow arouses the genitals. It's nothing out of the normal. Where I massage, we use sheets. Not towels. If you're concerned with ejaculation I would just use the condom and ask if you can be draped more. Most therapists are trained to draped using sheets anyway. Towels and other things are just additives. If you're afraid you won't be as comfortable because of the sheets, ask about a diaper drape with the sheet. Anyway, if she is a professional, she will not be eyeballing your junk and notice the condom.
I also like the comment about buying cheaper underwear.
FreDDY

San Diego, CA

#10 Jun 30, 2011
Condom is a good idea safe sex. I hope u luck out and she see's u wearing the condom and goes down on u.

Since: Jun 11

Brea, CA

#11 Jun 30, 2011
cici wrote:
I'm a therapist and erections are normal. All of the sudden blood flow arouses the genitals. It's nothing out of the normal. Where I massage, we use sheets. Not towels. If you're concerned with ejaculation I would just use the condom and ask if you can be draped more. Most therapists are trained to draped using sheets anyway. Towels and other things are just additives. If you're afraid you won't be as comfortable because of the sheets, ask about a diaper drape with the sheet. Anyway, if she is a professional, she will not be eyeballing your junk and notice the condom.
I also like the comment about buying cheaper underwear.
Cici - Thanks so much for your reply and great advice. I'll make this suggestion for my next massage.
go for it!

United States

#12 Jun 30, 2011
Don't fight it dude you know u want to bang her!

“The Truth Can Hurt:”

Since: Jul 11

Central Florida

#16 Jul 3, 2011
bellfly wrote:
Wear some cheap underwear that you don't mind a little massage oil on, problem solved.
A little confused, you are okay with ejaculating during a massage but feel it is inappropriate to masturbate. The rocking that rocked your world is not much different than self satisfaction.
You seemed to be focused more on the sexual nature than the relaxation nature of the massage, which gives rise to disbelieving the whole story.
RIGHT; wear some cheap / less expensive old underwear if you are so afraid of getting oil or seaman on your undergarments.
However; as a male massage therapist ; I've seen many guys leak or ejaculate .. it is a normal thing , just be prepared ..

Since: Apr 12

Location hidden

#17 May 6, 2012
Roger87 wrote:
I had my very first massage with a wonderful LMT. She told me to undress while she left the room to my comfort level and put a towel over my buttocks. I undressed down to my briefs and socks. I was very anxious and nervous never having this done before. After working on my shoulders and arms she worked on my lower back. The gentle but firm rocking motion got my aroused and before I knew what was happening I ejaculated into my briefs. I'm not sure she noticed but needless to say I was nervous the rest of the time, especially when I flipped over and covered myself with the towel. Nothing was said by her and after getting changed I made another appointment.
The second and last time I saw her I decided to take precautions. I went to the bathroom before having my massage and put on a condom just in case the same thing happened again. I undressed down to my just my briefs and it was the best hour of my life! She worked my fingers, toes, face and neck wonderfully. I pulled my briefs down a little as she got a lot of cream on them the first time. I got aroused at times, but never to the point of ejaculation and it felt so wonderful that I set up another appointment in two weeks.
I want to undress all the way next time so she wont get any cream on my expensive underwear and also to feel more relaxed. I'm fearful though of having an accidental ejaculation again. I thought I would just put on a condom before I had the massage so that if anything did happen, it wouldn't get all over her table and me too. I'm hesitant to do this as she might notice, especially when I flip over as I cover myself and get the wrong idea. On my last visit when I flipped over I was feeling quite relaxed and had a good erection in my briefs that I'm sure she noticed under the towel. She didn't say anything or seem uncomfortable and allowed me to make another appointment. I'm a very happily married man and have no desire for anything more than just a great massage to relieve the stress and pains in my neck, back and also get relief from my migraines. Would I be doing the right thing to wear a condom or not? Thanks in advance for any and all advice provided.
Well, Roger, I can relate to what you are saying.
Nebu

Wiesbaden, Germany

#18 May 6, 2012
I would wear a condom, if she wants intercourse.

But i do not see any importance to wear a condom when there is only massage.

When you get an orgasm this is just natural, especially when she massages you holistic allover and relaxes you totally.

She will be prepared (at least the qualified ones), so feel not embarrassed about normal body functions when you are laying nude there while a nice woman is massaging you!
tom

Abbotsford, Canada

#19 May 25, 2012
I had a chance to wear a condom to during my massage. I try a condom but I wasnt comfotable. So I enjoyed my massage totally naked..... And I did ejaculate too...
Haha

Los Angeles, CA

#20 Nov 1, 2012
May I just say it is nice not to have LMT comment on this post

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