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Casual massage in the nude by elderly neighbor

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Sandy

Avenel, NJ

#1 Jan 3, 2011
I just relocated to an apartment from my parent's house. I just turned 18 and have a job, and I found the apartment real cheap. It is part of an elderly man's home (maybe 65 or more/he is retired), and he live's in the other apartment next door.

We became aquantances, and soon after he pffered to massage me once or twice a week to assist him in learning massage and to assist in my work as a waitress (sore feet, back etc...)

I was glad to accept the offer. When we had our first massage last week, I came dressed in a pair soft shorts and wore a bikini top, but he said that I should remove them so that I would definitely get better massage and benefit more. It made sense, but was very embarassing at first.

I have been getting the massages three times a week, and I need to know, if during such a casual massage, and one where I am nude, and sometimes so is he, is it ok to have the breasts gently massaged (he is very gentle while he does it)? Also, while he is doing my buttocks muscles and the front inner thighs, I experience arousal because he accidently, or purposely involves the vagina. Should I try not to be aroused? I know that he realizes that I am, and he doesn't seem to mind, but is it ok ettiqeutte?(spelling)

I have noticed that since he too is often nude during the massages, I can see hm become erect off and on. I have even seen dripping from him, so should I even worry that I become noticably aroused?

Thanx
live nearby

New Hope, PA

#2 Jan 3, 2011
Sandy wrote:
I just relocated to an apartment from my parent's house. I just turned 18 and have a job, and I found the apartment real cheap. It is part of an elderly man's home (maybe 65 or more/he is retired), and he live's in the other apartment next door.
We became aquantances, and soon after he pffered to massage me once or twice a week to assist him in learning massage and to assist in my work as a waitress (sore feet, back etc...)
I was glad to accept the offer. When we had our first massage last week, I came dressed in a pair soft shorts and wore a bikini top, but he said that I should remove them so that I would definitely get better massage and benefit more. It made sense, but was very embarassing at first.
I have been getting the massages three times a week, and I need to know, if during such a casual massage, and one where I am nude, and sometimes so is he, is it ok to have the breasts gently massaged (he is very gentle while he does it)? Also, while he is doing my buttocks muscles and the front inner thighs, I experience arousal because he accidently, or purposely involves the vagina. Should I try not to be aroused? I know that he realizes that I am, and he doesn't seem to mind, but is it ok ettiqeutte?(spelling)
I have noticed that since he too is often nude during the massages, I can see hm become erect off and on. I have even seen dripping from him, so should I even worry that I become noticably aroused?
Thanx
Be careful I live nearby if you want a real massage
Sandy

Avenel, NJ

#3 Jan 3, 2011
live nearby wrote:
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Be careful I live nearby if you want a real massage
Hey, you do live not too far, hehe. Anyway, what did you mean when you said be careful? How? Thanx
live nearby

New Hope, PA

#4 Jan 3, 2011
Sandy wrote:
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Hey, you do live not too far, hehe. Anyway, what did you mean when you said be careful? How? Thanx
Be careful because he is getting his rocks off and will probably want more
Sandy

Avenel, NJ

#5 Jan 3, 2011
live nearby wrote:
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Be careful because he is getting his rocks off and will probably want more
Do you mean he sexually enjoys it? I figured he does, but I think it's just a spontaneous response, as is my arousal. I mean he is in his 60's, so I don't think he is trying to have sex with me, or date me or anything like that. He has become aroused as much as I do, and I have even been near the "O", if you know what I mean, but it is an automatic arousing experience both being in the nude don't you think? As well as for me, it is arousing when his hands and fingers accidently slip in or near or over the vagina opening. I feel a bit awkward that I am probably just too young to control it yet. I am actually asking here, if that is improper for ME, because I don't know if it is triggering his arousal more, or if, on the other hand, is it embarrassing him?

Anyway, I have even seen him "dripping" semen drops from his penis, when it's erect, and even when it is not erect for that matter, but he has never tried to have sex with me.
live nearby

New Hope, PA

#6 Jan 3, 2011
Sandy wrote:
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Do you mean he sexually enjoys it? I figured he does, but I think it's just a spontaneous response, as is my arousal. I mean he is in his 60's, so I don't think he is trying to have sex with me, or date me or anything like that. He has become aroused as much as I do, and I have even been near the "O", if you know what I mean, but it is an automatic arousing experience both being in the nude don't you think? As well as for me, it is arousing when his hands and fingers accidently slip in or near or over the vagina opening. I feel a bit awkward that I am probably just too young to control it yet. I am actually asking here, if that is improper for ME, because I don't know if it is triggering his arousal more, or if, on the other hand, is it embarrassing him?
Anyway, I have even seen him "dripping" semen drops from his penis, when it's erect, and even when it is not erect for that matter, but he has never tried to have sex with me.
Sure it is a normal responce. I get massages often and it happens to me sometimes but if he is giving the massage why is he nude. He is looking for more
Sandy

Avenel, NJ

#7 Jan 3, 2011
live nearby wrote:
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Sure it is a normal responce. I get massages often and it happens to me sometimes but if he is giving the massage why is he nude. He is looking for more
He wasn't nude during the first massage, only I was, but after that, he said it was more of a natural massage with a natural ambience (spelling?), if he too was nude. He also said, that since I was nervous being nude, that it would make me more comfortable if he was too. I thought it was a nice gesture of him, and I asked him if he didn't mind, it probably would help if I wasn't the only one naked while he was fully dressed. He had on a robe and took it off, and was nude the second massage and the few other massages so far after that.

I think it helps, and it seems kind of a neat thing too. I think it makes me feel more aroused than embarrassed though, and that is better. I think he's just being nice. I was just worried that my arousal increases his more and embrasses him. In the future there is what he called thai or thei massage or something, which involves being on the floor on a blanket, and body to body contact. I want to try to control my arousal to prepare for that, because I think that is going to be even more of an intense thing if we have to be nude for that massage too.

What do you think? I that a nude massage?
live nearby

New Hope, PA

#8 Jan 3, 2011
Sandy wrote:
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He wasn't nude during the first massage, only I was, but after that, he said it was more of a natural massage with a natural ambience (spelling?), if he too was nude. He also said, that since I was nervous being nude, that it would make me more comfortable if he was too. I thought it was a nice gesture of him, and I asked him if he didn't mind, it probably would help if I wasn't the only one naked while he was fully dressed. He had on a robe and took it off, and was nude the second massage and the few other massages so far after that.
I think it helps, and it seems kind of a neat thing too. I think it makes me feel more aroused than embarrassed though, and that is better. I think he's just being nice. I was just worried that my arousal increases his more and embrasses him. In the future there is what he called thai or thei massage or something, which involves being on the floor on a blanket, and body to body contact. I want to try to control my arousal to prepare for that, because I think that is going to be even more of an intense thing if we have to be nude for that massage too.
What do you think? I that a nude massage?
Usually a Thai massage is done with comfortable clothes on
Paul

Australia

#9 Jan 4, 2011
Sandy, You are probably in for a "soapy massage" in which the giver uses his/her naked body to give the massage. Usually reserved for (older) men in asian countries given by young masseuses.
I have read what you have written and if this is all true you have got yourself into a pickle. At 18 you are probably a bit naive. Mistake #1 was to allow the tenant/landlord position to be less than professional.#2 allowing yourself to be talked into naked massages by the old bloke. He must think he's died and gone to heaven.#3 giving him the benefit of the doubt in everything and being worried about HIS embarrassment?? He is at least three times your age and knows exactly what he is doing. Sure, you need a massage and it is nice to get an arousing one, but this really is inappropriate. It really will do you no good to continue, and it is already gnawing at you inside - am I right? You now have to work on getting out of this, get a boyfriend to give you a nice massage or pay for a decent one. I think the old boy knows that you would be reluctant to move away, so in a way he's gotcha. Keep us posted, hope you can work it out.
Sandy

Avenel, NJ

#10 Jan 4, 2011
Thank you, "live Nearby", I suppose it is usually done with clothes on as you said, but I asked him yesterday, and he said it is going to be with us both undressed, and with oil. I suppose it is more like "Paul" says in his posting, which I am OK with, and actually prefer it to be with us both nude just to see how it is. I just was curious to know ahead of time.

Paul, I think I understand what you are saying about how he is my landlord and everything, and he is about an age to be my grandfather. I thought like you said, that he probably loved it when I agreed to undress that first time, with me such a young girl, but I wanted to let him see me naked and to touch me.I also felt very sexy and it all just turned me on.

I figured that he probably hasn't even seen a girl in so long, and one my age would be an even better treat for him. So I decided right then to do it for that reason, and because I thought it would be exciting for me, and actually it is. I also thought of how I don't know anyone around here yet, and the company, and sexual part of it all, along with a nice massage has been nice.

I suppose I am looking forward to the other massage on the floor with our naked bodies oiled, and he rubs his against mine, I don't know if he will try to have sex with me.I know he will be hard though. I'm also not sure if I would mind it if he does. I think I would let him.

What do you guys think about it if I do allow him to?
Mindy

Crown Point, IN

#11 Jan 4, 2011
Sandy wrote:
What do you guys think about it if I do allow him to?
Sandy, the way you're going on and on about this you're starting to sound more like somebody (possibly even a guy) typing out a fantasy rather than somebody who is asking a legitimate question.

You're an adult (legally, anyway), so it's completely up to you if you want to have sex with another consenting adult. It's not a professional massage situation, as you've acknowledged, so why do you care what strangers on a massage therapy forum think about your sex life?
Hot Dude

Alpharetta, GA

#12 Jan 4, 2011
Sandy, the thought of you, naked on a table getting aroused is cool, but the thought of a 65 year old man naked and getting off on giving you a nude massage is pretty creepy! I would much rather massage you (and do it naked as well), bit I am not anywhere near PA.
Paul

Australia

#13 Jan 4, 2011
Hmm, looks like this topic could be a jape as Mindy has observed. Usually the name Sandy is male as opposed to Sandie, Sandra.
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#14 Jan 5, 2011
Hot Dude wrote:
Sandy, the thought of you, naked on a table getting aroused is cool, but the thought of a 65 year old man naked and getting off on giving you a nude massage is pretty creepy! I would much rather massage you (and do it naked as well), bit I am not anywhere near PA.
I agree very creppy!
Sandy

Avenel, NJ

#16 Jan 5, 2011
Mindy wrote:
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Sandy, the way you're going on and on about this you're starting to sound more like somebody (possibly even a guy) typing out a fantasy rather than somebody who is asking a legitimate question.
You're an adult (legally, anyway), so it's completely up to you if you want to have sex with another consenting adult. It's not a professional massage situation, as you've acknowledged, so why do you care what strangers on a massage therapy forum think about your sex life?
Hi Mindy,

It's not so much that I care what strangers think, I'm just looking for opinions and/or advice on the matter. Sort of an outside view of the situation to assist me in evaluating it, and hopefully to make good choices. I really do appreciate your input so far, and I'm not some male having a fantasy in some way, so please don't think that.
Sandy

Avenel, NJ

#17 Jan 5, 2011
Paul wrote:
Hmm, looks like this topic could be a jape as Mindy has observed. Usually the name Sandy is male as opposed to Sandie, Sandra.
Hi Paul,

Actually on my birth certificate, my given name is spelled as "Sandy", and is not short for Sandra or another name.
Sandy

Avenel, NJ

#18 Jan 5, 2011
To the guys posting about his age- well I can admit how it could seem creepy, but I also understand that age is just a number as was posted.

I think originally what spurred me to go ahead with the massage even after he suggested I be unclothed, was that I was already there, and expecting a massage, and wanted one, and also it seemed exciting, yet embarrassing at the same time. Sort of difficult to explain.

My main thought, that made me agree though, was I figured, why not allow him to see me in the nude, since he seemed harmless, and probably hasn't seen a female in the nude in a long time, let alone my age. I thought of it as benefitting us both.:)
Tom

San Francisco, CA

#19 Jan 5, 2011
Sandy- Does the thought of having sex with a 60+ year old entice you or is it the circumstances of the massage that is exciting?
Sandy

Avenel, NJ

#20 Jan 5, 2011
Tom wrote:
Sandy- Does the thought of having sex with a 60+ year old entice you or is it the circumstances of the massage that is exciting?
Tom,

From the start, it ws the circumstances of the massage...being nude, and his age etc..., but the added thought that he may now be trying to set up to have sex with me, has me even more intrigued.
You Troll

Des Moines, IA

#21 Jan 6, 2011
If I really believed your story, which is full of gaping holes, you make it sound like this guy has it down to a science - which means he has several stupid young girls getting massaged and laid. If it were a real story, you are an extremely stupid, arrogant, little twit to assume that a guy hasn't seen a naked female just because he is over 60.

I am calling bullshit on this one, some lonely guy writing this crap to get attention.

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