Client in Texas

Waco, TX

#50 Apr 14, 2010
I get frequent un-draped massages, and sometimes get erections when the therapist is working on my inner thighs and pelvic area. She has never embarrassed me by giving me a towel and suggesting that I masturbate. She just continues to massage me and eventually the erection goes away. I don't care if she looks, as long as the massage is good.
GaryL

Pompano Beach, FL

#51 Apr 14, 2010
Client in Texas has the first adult response to this question. An erection is a naturally occurring phenomenon; the problem is that most Americans are so hung up on the body that we think an erection is only a sign of intercourse or instant masturbation. Glad that one person has a healthy attitude toward his body and reactions to it...
Jersey

Cincinnati, OH

#53 Apr 23, 2010
I recieved a massage recently and the masage therapist half way through had me roll over. She had grabbed a washrag and asked if i would use that because the towel gets in her way. She concetrated alot on my stomach and my pu line. She never really covered me as she did each leg while i was laying on my stomach. leaving the towel like a thong position by the time i rolled over.The massage was great but a bit seductive. I fought off the erection the whole time..thoughts??
Why fight it

Baton Rouge, LA

#54 Apr 23, 2010
Jersey wrote:
I recieved a massage recently and the masage therapist half way through had me roll over. She had grabbed a washrag and asked if i would use that because the towel gets in her way. She concetrated alot on my stomach and my pu line. She never really covered me as she did each leg while i was laying on my stomach. leaving the towel like a thong position by the time i rolled over.The massage was great but a bit seductive. I fought off the erection the whole time..thoughts??
Why on earth would you fight off an erection? Must have pretty much negated the whole idea of RELAXATION, eh? Let it be. If she didn't seem uptight about your draping, etc, it probably wouldn't have bothered her for you to raise a tent pole under the "washrag" either. I NEVER resist fully enjoying the touch...no matter the consequence. And I usually leave relaxed and satisfied with the massage. No, I'm not talking about a "happy ending," just honestly getting what I paid for.
lmk

Durham, NC

#55 Apr 26, 2010
A massage is considered "legitimate" if it is not sexual. But how can something not be sexual when it so obviously arouses one sexually? There's a problem here.
Erectus

Chiang Mai, Thailand

#56 Apr 30, 2010
Tad wrote:
As she started massaging my chest she worked her way down to the thighs, at this point I opened my legs wide and in a buttefly postion with knees bent and she got right in there and was working the inner thighs and the area where the tendon in the inner thigh meets the groin area. At this point I could not take it any longer and reached for my penis and adjusted it and slightly rubbed it to see if she would oppose, not a word from her so i began to stroke it without any problems she continued to massage my calfs and feet while i was touching myself.
This is what it's all about in my opinion. I have gotten massages and done this type of thing for years. Spreading the legs seems to be part of it. It is a signal that I am looking for more. If the massage therapist says nothing, that is a green light to go ahead and masturbate. Sure they could lose their license, but who is going to say anything?

I have had varied reactions from the women massage therapists, ranging from dead silence, to hinting they want to see me outside of the massage room, to walking out immediately and telling me never to come back.

Quite exciting, a great hobby, and it sure beats golf, pun intended.
Richard

Las Vegas, NV

#58 May 4, 2010
If you're such a nasty peice of work that you'd turn something therapeutic into something sexual, and assault a professional like that, you shouldn't get massages.
And yeah, if someone did that to me, I'd call the authorities. Thats not appropriate and massage therapists that let that go on will lose there license.
MAssage therapists don't bring up erections because we don't want to embarrass a client. Not a signal you should masturbate.
Honestly it sounds pathetic if you really can't wait or get it somewhere else.
Paul

Birmingham, AL

#59 May 4, 2010
Richard wrote:
If you're such a nasty peice of work that you'd turn something therapeutic into something sexual, and assault a professional like that, you shouldn't get massages.
And yeah, if someone did that to me, I'd call the authorities. Thats not appropriate and massage therapists that let that go on will lose there license.
MAssage therapists don't bring up erections because we don't want to embarrass a client. Not a signal you should masturbate.
Honestly it sounds pathetic if you really can't wait or get it somewhere else.
Yawn, Richard. You're making the same "ooh you're a pervert!" argument that's been made here a million times before.

The simple fact is this: plenty of clients (almost exclusively male) prefer their massages to conclude with an orgasm. And there are plenty of providers (both male and female) willing to provide that service.

If you're not willing to, I totally respect that and hope no one ever asks you about it.

I still maintain that if providers of sensual massage could openly advertise those services, we'd all be a lot happier. Therapists who didn't want to provide sensual services wouldn't get asked about them, wouldn't have to wonder if their new client was going to be looking for "extras."

Those of us looking for something extra would know who to patronize without any subterfuge needed.
Chuck

Las Vegas, NV

#60 May 6, 2010
Richard wrote:
If you're such a nasty peice of work that you'd turn something therapeutic into something sexual, and assault a professional like that, you shouldn't get massages.
Erectus, Richard is right. Either start assaulting NON-professionals, or stop getting massages. The choice is yours.
Paul

Birmingham, AL

#61 May 6, 2010
Chuck wrote:
<quoted text>
Erectus, Richard is right. Either start assaulting NON-professionals, or stop getting massages. The choice is yours.
No one was "assaulted," as he only touched himself, no one else.

And contrary to your statement, there's a third choice, and that's continue to find legitimate therapists who are open to providing a more sensual experience.

My assertion, based on years of experience: there is a certain percentage of licensed massage professionals who are open to this sort of thing. In my experience, the percentage is around 15-20%, but it isn't a scientific survey. The real number may be higher or lower for other people, and in other geographic locations.

Whether it's simply for the extra money, or because they recognize the inherent relaxation provided with sexual release, there ARE professional therapists who are not offended by the idea of nude massage which concludes with orgasm for the client.

If you don't like that, fine. If you don't provide it, of course that is your choice. But pretending it's only "unlicensed therapists" and "prostitutes" who provide this sort of service is simply, categorically, untrue.
ThomasP

Albany, NY

#62 May 19, 2010
I was at the bus station the other day. A woman approached me an told me that she was an LMT, and that she would massage me for 40 dollars.

she took me out behind the bus station and massaged my "you know what" for about ten minutes until I was very relaxed.

I looked for her in the yellow pages a few days later, but she wasn't listed under "massage therapists".
Duh

Baton Rouge, LA

#63 May 19, 2010
ThomasP wrote:
I was at the bus station the other day. A woman approached me an told me that she was an LMT, and that she would massage me for 40 dollars.
she took me out behind the bus station and massaged my "you know what" for about ten minutes until I was very relaxed.
I looked for her in the yellow pages a few days later, but she wasn't listed under "massage therapists".
Duh?
george russell

Willingboro, NJ

#64 May 29, 2010
i look for massage therapist ( female) that will give a lagit massage as well as a hand release or bj,i have learend that if u have a great body ( lean body with muscles) that will turn a woman on therapist or not,i have had a therapist that had an orgasm whie massage ( i could smell her when she came) i said nothing went back again and the same thing happened so i asked her to take care of my erection during the course of our conversation ,she is my regular massage therapist is see her 2 to 3 times a month. she is a great massage she knows all the parts of the body
massage addict

Middletown, OH

#65 Jul 16, 2010
I had erection and my therapist just ignored it as if she has seen it day in day out.
Gee

Zacata, VA

#66 Jul 21, 2010
I went to this Asian massage place where they offer a table shower and enjoyed it very much. Once escorted to the room to disrobe, the MT said take off you clothes and put this towel on. She was there watching me undress. I did not mind at all. We walked to the shower area and I lied down in the nude. She washed me all over. Even my thing was washed. God it felt good. She rinsed me off and then I stood up so she can dry me off. She bent down to dry my legs as my thing was sticking up and out. I brushed it against her face a few times and she tried to lick it. We then went back to the room and she rubbed me down. She then asked if I wanted other places masseged. I said sure. She used oil on it and then I exploded. She really knew how to work it. She cleaned me up and I then went home. Just another day.
Raj

Washington, DC

#67 Jul 27, 2010
[Hi
Any body knows any parlour in DC / VA area that provides erection/ejaculation .
mail me at sinraj68@gmail.com
Gee

Zacata, VA

#68 Jul 27, 2010
Go to someone else (an Asian chick)who will take care of it. They really know how to work it.
massage addict wrote:
I had erection and my therapist just ignored it as if she has seen it day in day out.
wtf

Tacoma, WA

#69 Aug 1, 2010
Wtf is wrong with you people.
dick

Wilmington, DE

#70 Aug 2, 2010
whats the big thing,thats not church,if you have a pulse,you'll have an erection,its natural thing in life,do you think during massage when the massage lady tells you to turn over ,its a compliment to her that its hard,when its not hard ,its an insult what do you think shes doing when your lying on your stomach,shes playing with the ass ,WHY? hoping you get erection
Smooth

United States

#71 Aug 2, 2010
Got a Brazilian wax treatment recently and, as one might expect with a particularly attractive woman fiddling around his man parts, I became aroused. I apologized and said I was doing all I could to prevent it. She said not to worry as it was a common occurrence. She continued her task, moving my semi-erect penis with her gloved hand to give herself access to the hair that she needed to remove. When she told me to turn over so she could wax my anal region, I couldn't help noticing that her touch had me almost completely erect and throbbing. Still, she seemed cool with it. Who knows? Maybe one day she'll offer to ease the tension.

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