Draping types
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#22 Jan 3, 2011
I always wanted to try a lomi lomi massage. This is where a hot Latin chick nude rubs her body on your nude body. One problem she wanted names of people who have given me a massage. I had no names since I go to a local chinese massage place.
Paul

Australia

#23 Jan 3, 2011
Thats just a soapy massage. Lomi Lomi is a bit more involved and practitioners do use more than their hands, but not the whole body. The recipient is usually 95% nude. Give it a try if there's anyone near you that offers it (try to get a geniune polynesian)
Kelly

Branson, MO

#24 Jan 3, 2011
I'll sound lazy for saying this but one reason I prefer to not drape my people is due to the fact that I hate doing laundry. People don't realize how much washing and drying is involved with this business. Half as many sheets to wash and dry is a big difference. Also I've noticed a huge increase in visits from guys who prefer not being draped. I love the money. I can put up with them playing with themselves and showing off their stuff. It's funny though how often times the guys who show off their penis the most have the least to show off. I don't touch them any more than before and none of them have anything that I haven't seen before. There have been a few times when I really enjoyed what I saw.
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#25 Jan 3, 2011
Paul wrote:
Thats just a soapy massage. Lomi Lomi is a bit more involved and practitioners do use more than their hands, but not the whole body. The recipient is usually 95% nude. Give it a try if there's anyone near you that offers it (try to get a geniune polynesian)
She was from the big Island and she never returned my call just voice mail. I left a message but no return call oh well. I think she wanted like 80.00phr. Something I wanted to try aleast once.
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#26 Jan 3, 2011
Kelly wrote:
I'll sound lazy for saying this but one reason I prefer to not drape my people is due to the fact that I hate doing laundry. People don't realize how much washing and drying is involved with this business. Half as many sheets to wash and dry is a big difference. Also I've noticed a huge increase in visits from guys who prefer not being draped. I love the money. I can put up with them playing with themselves and showing off their stuff. It's funny though how often times the guys who show off their penis the most have the least to show off. I don't touch them any more than before and none of them have anything that I haven't seen before. There have been a few times when I really enjoyed what I saw.
You let them play with themselves wow! So do you give them a happy ending or they do that on their own in front of you. Or do you leave the room at the end and let them blast off and leave them a smal towel for clean up? So do you just brush up on their bag and forearm on their shaft?
Linus

Corona, NY

#27 Jan 17, 2011
I agree with Mindy, in principle. We do deal with the human body and arousal can happen. There's nothing wrong with it as long as it wasn't the intention of the therapist to create that feeling. However, too often it is the intention of the CLIENT to BE aroused, and to try to take it to an, um, non-theraputic place. On paper and in the classroom, I agree with Mindy. In the real world, it's annoying to have clients try to make the work sexual. I'm approaching my 10,000th session, and work on men (gay and straight) and never once have I encountered a random erection. Intention is key.
SoAmzed

Beloit, OH

#28 Jan 26, 2011
Sandy wrote:
I found this post interesting, because I just posted about how I just moved into my first apartment, and it is a private with two units. I am 18 years old, and the landlord, who is retired and maybe in his late 60's I'm guessing, lives in the other apartment. He massages me three times a week, and he suggested that I have them in the nude with no covering, because it was more beneficial to be able to massage the whole body at once, and to distribute the oils evenly covering all the skin.
I mention our age, because I find it harmless to think that a late 60's man is trying to have sexual relations with me. I actually worry because I am the one who becomes aroused as often as I have seen him aroused. I've seen him aroused because he often is also nude during massages also.
I was embrrassed at first being nude and uncovered, as well as whn he started giving the massages in the nude, but as he says, it's a very natural feeling, and it does feel appropriate for massages, except that there is spontaneous arousal to deal with, but isn't that normal? Is arousal poor ettiquette from a client in professional massage? He is not a trained professional though, but I am curious to know if anyone can answer.
Sandy,

I agree with Mindy. I do massages myself and I am not a professional. When I give them I am also nude. I think that it does feel better on the person receiving the massage and just like the guy giving you the massage I feel more comfortable doing them nude.
SoAmzed

Beloit, OH

#29 Jan 26, 2011
Sandy wrote:
Thanx a lot, Mindy.:) I know it seems strange to be nude and mutually aroused with a man that is near seventy, while I'm still only 18, but it just happened so naturally and I do feel comfortable with him massaging me. We are going to be doing a thai (spelling?)massage, which is done on the floor and inviolves body contact, I didn't ask if it's done in the nude too, but I figure it is. Is this typically a naked massage? Do you know?
Sandy,

I think that you are right. I give what I call a body-to-body massage. No hands all body. I might suggest using virgin olive oil. great on the skin not greasy and does a great job on the massage. It is messy but worth it.
SoAmzed

Beloit, OH

#30 Jan 26, 2011
Kelly wrote:
I'll sound lazy for saying this but one reason I prefer to not drape my people is due to the fact that I hate doing laundry. People don't realize how much washing and drying is involved with this business. Half as many sheets to wash and dry is a big difference. Also I've noticed a huge increase in visits from guys who prefer not being draped. I love the money. I can put up with them playing with themselves and showing off their stuff. It's funny though how often times the guys who show off their penis the most have the least to show off. I don't touch them any more than before and none of them have anything that I haven't seen before. There have been a few times when I really enjoyed what I saw.
Really, please be specific
SoAmzed

Beloit, OH

#31 Jan 26, 2011
Sandy wrote:
Thanx a lot, Mindy.:) I know it seems strange to be nude and mutually aroused with a man that is near seventy, while I'm still only 18, but it just happened so naturally and I do feel comfortable with him massaging me. We are going to be doing a thai (spelling?)massage, which is done on the floor and inviolves body contact, I didn't ask if it's done in the nude too, but I figure it is. Is this typically a naked massage? Do you know?
Do you ever massage the old guy?? You know... hehe
SoAmzed

Beloit, OH

#32 Jan 26, 2011
Mindy wrote:
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It is definitely less so in the U.S., as you've probably noticed from some of the posts by American therapists in this forum. In their attempt to be viewed as a legitimate medical profession and separate themselves from the history of prostitution, many have thrown the baby out with the bathwater and demonstrate a complete discomfort with the naked human body (which, ironically, other legitimate medical professionals generally don't have).
This isn't true of all American massage therapists, but represents enough of them to make shopping around very important. There are one or two so-called therapists on this forum who I wouldn't want anywhere near my body with their negative energy.
I find it very difficult to find therapists that will be okay with clients being toatlly nude during sessions.
SoAmzed

Beloit, OH

#33 Jan 26, 2011
Sandy wrote:
I found this post interesting, because I just posted about how I just moved into my first apartment, and it is a private with two units. I am 18 years old, and the landlord, who is retired and maybe in his late 60's I'm guessing, lives in the other apartment. He massages me three times a week, and he suggested that I have them in the nude with no covering, because it was more beneficial to be able to massage the whole body at once, and to distribute the oils evenly covering all the skin.
I mention our age, because I find it harmless to think that a late 60's man is trying to have sexual relations with me. I actually worry because I am the one who becomes aroused as often as I have seen him aroused. I've seen him aroused because he often is also nude during massages also.
Sandy when I am in town I would like to give you a massage!!!
I was embrrassed at first being nude and uncovered, as well as whn he started giving the massages in the nude, but as he says, it's a very natural feeling, and it does feel appropriate for massages, except that there is spontaneous arousal to deal with, but isn't that normal? Is arousal poor ettiquette from a client in professional massage? He is not a trained professional though, but I am curious to know if anyone can answer.
Sandy when I am in town I would like to massage you :)
Hotdude

Alpharetta, GA

#34 Jan 28, 2011
I have never had or performed a body on body massage but I need to give it a try!!
frEDdy

San Diego, CA

#35 Jan 28, 2011
Hotdude wrote:
I have never had or performed a body on body massage but I need to give it a try!!
Try it out on me haha.
Hotdude

Alpharetta, GA

#36 Jan 28, 2011
hell yea Freddy!
FrEdDy

San Diego, CA

#37 Jan 28, 2011
Only in your dreams hotdude haha.

Since: Dec 10

Mountain View, CA

#38 Jan 29, 2011
Massage Joe wrote:
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This is why there are problems. Since your mind goes that way you assume everyone's does.
I simply tell my therapist female or male that I am not modest, that they are free to move the draping as the see fit without asking and that I would like as minimal draping as THEY are comfortable with.
Another bs post.
Do u tell ur dentist "hey feel free to open up my pants and pull my cawk out, I'm not modest" u don't pull that stuff with your dentist because u'd be in a world of sh*t if u did. Dentists work on your teeth, massage therapists work on your muscles. The cawk isn't a muscle
Massage Me

Green Bay, WI

#39 Feb 8, 2011
How do you compare a dentist visit to a massage? Not starting anything, but just seems like a reach for a comparison.
Mindy

Crown Point, IN

#40 Feb 8, 2011
Massage Me wrote:
How do you compare a dentist visit to a massage? Not starting anything, but just seems like a reach for a comparison.
Ha, true. The better comparison to being undraped for a massage would be to take out your retainer or mouth guard for the dentist.:) Massage therapists work on the whole body. Dentists work on teeth.
paul

Australia

#41 Feb 9, 2011
Just an amusing observation regarding female client draping: Of the clients that prefer an undraped massage, I still provide them with the 1m x 2m towel in the powder room. Strangely, they mostly wear the towel from the change room to the table and then discard it, only to wear it again when the massage is over from the table back to the change room. Maybe its a psychological thing that being undraped is OK when receiving treatment but not between rooms. Anyway, I usually busy myself getting cold water for them when they get up to change so as not to make them feel self-conscious. On mentioning this to a nurse, she has had the same observation at her place of work.

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