Do Women get aroused during massage?
paul

Australia

#46 Jan 29, 2011
Because she's a cartoon.

Since: Feb 11

Salt Lake City, UT

#47 Feb 6, 2011
I admit, I often do get turned on during a massage, even with female therapists, even though I am heterosexual. Something about that deep relaxation and hands sliding on my body that gets me slippery.
Until recently, I avoided male therapists, largely because I had a boyfriend. I've just recently found a wonderful male therapist, and he turns me into a gooey mess! He is sexy and has magic hands, and I find myself wondering (hoping) that he is looking between my legs and seeing how swollen and wet I am.
I have 2 questions: sometimes I feel his cock brush against my arm and hand when he is working. In our last session, I could feel it just barely resting against the side of my hand. I asked him to go deeper into the spot he was working on, and when he adjusted to do that, his cock was totally on my hand. Yum! Do you think he knows he is doing that, or could it be an accident? I'm much too shy to straight out ask him, but I'd love his fingers in me. What are some subtler ways I can let him know I'm interested in a more thorough massage?
paul

Australia

#48 Feb 6, 2011
It is possible to accidentally brush the parts on a client, especially if the table is not wide enough and her arms are at her side, plus when you are working with bolsters etc. you may not notice exactly what you are up against at the time.
It sounds as though your therapist may be open minded enough to give a more thorough massage, but as many posts on this forum point out in your country that is fraught with illegality, risks and dangers. That said, you are paying for a massage and really it would be best to get over any shyness and ask directly for him to go lower, up a bit, further or whatever.
Linus

New York, NY

#51 Feb 25, 2011
So stop seeing him professionally and ask him out on a date. If he's not your LMT you guys can do whatever you want.... Just a suggestion.
Linus

New York, NY

#52 Feb 25, 2011
Or do what paul says ("get over any shyness"? Really? REALLY!?) and never see him again.
paul

Penrith, Australia

#53 Feb 27, 2011
Linus wrote:
Or do what paul says ("get over any shyness"? Really? REALLY!?) and never see him again.
I did reply to this on Friday but the post has gone missing.

What I was trying to get across was that it would be better for her to ask for what she wants directly - that way a polite decline should not result in any embarrassment. Trying to second guess or give subtle hints etc. will only build up more stress in her life.
Linus' suggestion of a date would be an admirable solution. Apologies for any offence.
Trollbuster

Ankeny, IA

#54 Feb 27, 2011
Jennica, professional massage therapist are not interested in sexually satisfying you. Keep your pervy thoughts to yourself or find a gigalo.
Surprised

Shelton, CT

#55 Feb 27, 2011
I was a massage therapist for about 6 yrs and had to stop due to arthritis in my hands. I'd had several male clients hit on me during their massages, but I always remained professional and only ever had to end one massage early because of feeling so uncomfortable. Fast forward fives years- I receive massage on a fairly consistent basis and for the last year have been seeing one guy in particular because he's quite talented, and does a great combo of shiatsu and deep tissue. I will say he has always had a very sensual touch, but aside from a little extra hand holding, nothing was ever inappropriate- albeit very arousing.( Btw, he's very cute, very muscular and Chinese.) Until yesterday- it's been a few months since I last saw him- and as always he was very smiley and happy to see me. I always start face down, and he usually climbs all over the table while massaging. This time I was aware that he had an erection, and like Jennica said in an earlier post, I found that he sort of placed his erection into the palm of my hand - at first I wasn't sure if it was covert or accidental- but it wasn't. The next time he got onto the table ad he was massaging my back he began sort of riding me- through the sheets. He jumped off,came up to the head of the table and asked me to slide down out of the face cradle- so I could turn over onto my back. When I started to and looked up, he immediately began kissing me, touching my hair, smiling and giggling. It was really intense- something even though I admittedly had sort of fantasized about- and unexpected. When I turned onto my back- it continued. He kept initiating heavy petting, and eventually he gave me oral, and three fairly quick orgasms later I just lay there happily stunned. Another 15 minutes of him massaging ensued, he kept stopping, kissing me, nuzzling his cheek to mine. It was very, very intimate and tender. Does this really happen to other women?? Seriously? I guess I always thought of a "happy ending" as something that the performer just did- not necessarily enjoying it. He did ask if I would come back to see him again- that he would like to see me. Now I'm left reliving that experience almost obsessively,
Trollbuster

Ankeny, IA

#56 Feb 28, 2011
I see we have soft porn writers visiting us lately. Are you using this forum as an editor? Using feedback to see what will sell before shipping your manual to a publisher?
Hotdude

Palo Alto, CA

#57 Feb 28, 2011
Jennica wrote:
I admit, I often do get turned on during a massage, even with female therapists, even though I am heterosexual. Something about that deep relaxation and hands sliding on my body that gets me slippery.
Until recently, I avoided male therapists, largely because I had a boyfriend. I've just recently found a wonderful male therapist, and he turns me into a gooey mess! He is sexy and has magic hands, and I find myself wondering (hoping) that he is looking between my legs and seeing how swollen and wet I am.
I have 2 questions: sometimes I feel his cock brush against my arm and hand when he is working. In our last session, I could feel it just barely resting against the side of my hand. I asked him to go deeper into the spot he was working on, and when he adjusted to do that, his cock was totally on my hand. Yum! Do you think he knows he is doing that, or could it be an accident? I'm much too shy to straight out ask him, but I'd love his fingers in me. What are some subtler ways I can let him know I'm interested in a more thorough massage?
Jessica,
I have had many male MTs push their penis up against my arm or sort of place it in or ontp my hand. I will usually wait a bit and if they continue, I'll move my hand a bit to sort of rub it back! This is pretty clear by me that I know what is in my hand. If they keep it there, go right ahead and give him a full grope!

Enjoy, I know I would!!
Surprised

Shelton, CT

#59 Feb 28, 2011
Trollbuster- no I'm not trying to get published- I guess I was just describing what happened this past weekend- it's never happened before and it's been both exciting and confusing. I just wondered if this happens to other female clients- and it was surprising to me since I've been a client for almost 2 years and then this happened. I guess in a weird place because he really is excellent at Thai/shiatsu/deep tissue and I want to see him for that- not necessarily what recently happened, enjoyable as it was.
Trollbuster

Ankeny, IA

#60 Mar 1, 2011
So if you are telling the truth, you were sexually assaulted, and are okay with this? Stuff that porno tales are made of. First the gal is surprised, but aroused, and then she is molested against her will but she secretly liked it, blah, blah, blah.

Tell this to a woman who was REALLY molested and see if she felt aroused. Ask her therapist while your at it too.
Surprised

Shelton, CT

#61 Mar 1, 2011
Troll- I never said anything about being assaulted or molested, nor did I imply that. I just said what happened to me-what I experienced and it was surprising to me- not unwelcomed.
Trollbuster

Ankeny, IA

#62 Mar 2, 2011
He massaged your back and started "riding" you through the sheet, and you don't think that is sexual assault? He also kissed you and initiated heavy petting (your words) and oral, and you still don't think this was sexual assault?

He was in a position of power and abused it, you are a either not telling the truth or an idiot. Accept this and please get help. Or at least think of the other women he will do this to and traumatize.
dean

Memphis, TN

#63 Mar 2, 2011
I am unlicensed but have done many massages over the years, mostly family members and close friends. I have worked on two who were friends of friends who had recommended me. This is my approach.

I ask the usual questions and then tell them, "This is your massage and I want it to be the best possible. May I ask some questions now so we both know what to expect?" They always say "Yes". I tell them first that draping can be a sheet, one or two towels, or none, and explain that none makes the massage easier since I can see my limits easily. Two towels is next best, because more of the body is exposed, and a sheet is the third choice. Most have chosen two towels.

Then I tell them that of course touching genitalia and the anus is legal off limits but the breasts can be done with consent. How about if we get started with you face down with a towel over your midsection and I'll ask questions as we go along about pressure, what feels best, if your want more or less work in an area and see how it goes. Everyone agrees to this approach.

It is selfish of me but when I have worked up the legs and thighs on each side I say, I can remove the towel to do your buttocks or I can rearrange it so that your cleavage is covered. Either will make your massage flow better. Most choose to have the towel rearranged I slide it 45 degrees and then roll it and place it over the crack with the lower end slightly touching the thighs. After I have worked on her butt for a few minutes I ask if it feels good, if the pressure is about right. And, depending on her response I might ask "would you like me to do more area?" Some say no and some say sure or ok. I then add some oil and start at the tail bone and slowly bring my hand downward with my little finger in the crack lightly touching her anus and down to the beginning of her vagina. I have never done that when the gal didn't respond positively either verbally or with body language. I repeat that a few times from each side and then ask her to turn over.

I have a towel in both hands so that when she turns I can cover her breasts and midsection. If she allowed me to do her butt crack she will always say yes when I ask if she wants her breasts done.

When I move to the midsection I tell her I am going to move the towel so I can do one thigh and leg and then the other. I slide the towel and fold it so that she is covered from just above her pubic area and to her thigh. Sometimes, if things have gone well I'll say, I am not allowed to touch your vagina but I can do your inner thighs if you want me to. Some women say OK and I massage the area all around the outer lips but I have never touched the inner except for my wife and one friend.

I also use the same approach when doing males. I don't touch the penis or massage the scrotum but most men want the inner thighs and butt done completely.

Every person I have massaged has become somewhat aroused and 2 have had orgasms. It is natural and OK. By the way, I am clothed when I work.
paul

Australia

#64 Mar 2, 2011
dean wrote:
........ I then add some oil and start at the tail bone and slowly bring my hand downward with my little finger in the crack lightly touching her anus and down to the beginning of her vagina. I have never done .....
It is most unwise to do that - in that direction - due to the
risk of introducing infection into the vagina.
Trollbuster

Ankeny, IA

#65 Mar 3, 2011
Unlicensed and manage to bring on orgasm. That sounds like ANOTHER porn story. At least you know how to spell and use punctuation.
Ben10

Atlanta, GA

#66 Mar 3, 2011
yo Trollbuser, shut the hell up and sit down some where. you always accuseing sombody of faul play
Trollbuster

Ankeny, IA

#67 Mar 4, 2011
There is so much porn available on your computer, why not find it somewhere besides the Massage Therapy Forum.

Faul play? Accuseing? Trollbuser? Why not shut the hell up yourself and buy a dictionary.
Paul

Birmingham, AL

#68 Mar 4, 2011
Trollbuster, if you don't think there are LICENSED massage therapists willing to provide "extras" (especially in this economy) you're fooling yourself.

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