Therapeutic Massage and Ejaculation
to sensitive

United States

#1163 Sep 3, 2011
Mr A wrote:
Read some MTs' responses that when a guy cums on the massage table, the MT's responsible. Don't think so .. I go for a massage regularly and have received treatment from different MTs every time. Until now I've ejaculated 5-6 times, but didn't ever think the MT was doing anything wrong .. seems like my glutes/inner thighs are just too sensitive .. this may be the case with others too!
I have been receiving massages for about 4 years. Heavy stress, bad lower back, sore neck etc. My question: LMT's please. When the therapist starts working on the back of my neck and especially my ears I get an immediate erection and go into some zone. It feels extremely arousing. Is this normal?
Is it appropriate to tell the female LMT how good this feels, sensually? She probably can tell.

This board has helped. Thanks
none

Mount Cotton, Australia

#1164 Sep 6, 2011
why isit a problem if she's hot y would it b if she used it
LMT

Medina, OH

#1165 Sep 7, 2011
none wrote:
why isit a problem if she's hot y would it b if she used it
Huh?

Since: May 10

Singapore, Singapore

#1167 Sep 7, 2011
I am a male massage therapist in Singapore. I think it's natural to get an erection or even ejaculation during massage. Few of my clients had during massaging the lower area of the body. The inner thign area is sensitove and light sensual stroke can make this happen.
www.gaymassagemen.com
LMT

Medina, OH

#1168 Sep 8, 2011
to sensitive wrote:
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LMT,
Is it appropriate to tell the LMT that working on my ears is extremely arousing. I don't want her to stop, but be aware if how it feels.
Is this normal (from your experienced perspective) to get aroused like this
Again thanks for the advice.
Of course you can tell her, and you should. I've had clients tell me how good the ear, mastoid, and scalp works feels but they've never told me it was arousing them, and I never noticed any signs of that happening. But I'm open to the idea that this may be happening and they've just enjoyed it and kept quiet about it.
to sensitive

United States

#1169 Sep 8, 2011
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>Of course you can tell her, and you should. I've had clients tell me how good the ear, mastoid, and scalp works feels but they've never told me it was arousing them, and I never noticed any signs of that happening. But I'm open to the idea that this may be happening and they've just enjoyed it and kept quiet about it.
LMT
Thank you for the grown up honest answer. This Is a serious question.
I dont want to do anything improper but I want her to know it feels fantastic, and to continue if it's ok. I also didn't want to look like a freak with some strange fetish. I've had many massages in many countries this is the first time it has happened. Deep breathing and full pole tent type.
Again thanks for your professional reply

Now how do I tell her. Ugh
Paul

Birmingham, AL

#1170 Sep 9, 2011
to sensitive wrote:
<quoted text>
LMT
Thank you for the grown up honest answer. This Is a serious question.
I dont want to do anything improper but I want her to know it feels fantastic, and to continue if it's ok. I also didn't want to look like a freak with some strange fetish. I've had many massages in many countries this is the first time it has happened. Deep breathing and full pole tent type.
Again thanks for your professional reply
Now how do I tell her. Ugh
You need to be aware, however, that she may feel uncomfortable knowing that you are getting aroused, and she may wish to stop massaging your neck and ears. Just FYI.
to sensitive

United States

#1171 Sep 9, 2011
Paul wrote:
<quoted text>You need to be aware, however, that she may feel uncomfortable knowing that you are getting aroused, and she may wish to stop massaging your neck and ears. Just FYI.
Paul,
That is my concern too. Continue to enjoy it, without being "in your face" obvious. Or be frank and tell her that it is extremely arousing and that I am enjoying it. While on my back it should be obvious from the moans and tent I have in the sheet. But that can be ignored. My telling her cant be ignored.

Still dont know what to do.

Thank you LMT and MT's for the advice. I don't want to lose a great MT but I would like her to know.
to sensitive

United States

#1172 Sep 9, 2011
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>Of course you can tell her, and you should. I've had clients tell me how good the ear, mastoid, and scalp works feels but they've never told me it was arousing them, and I never noticed any signs of that happening. But I'm open to the idea that this may be happening and they've just enjoyed it and kept quiet about it.
LMT
If he told you it was extremely arousing and to not stop would you be offended? Not anything further, no sexual reference just how it felt.
Would you stop seeing him?
to sensitive

United States

#1173 Sep 10, 2011
Paul wrote:
<quoted text>You need to be aware, however, that she may feel uncomfortable knowing that you are getting aroused, and she may wish to stop massaging your neck and ears. Just FYI.
Well I had my massage. I told her how good it felt. She said she had no problem providing a sensual massage. She said as long as the client understood the difference between sexual and sensual. She typically does not provide this to new clients. She said Draping was required by law, and would not do undraped. The massage felt great, and I do not want to push the issue. I have a masseuse that I get along with, is pleasant, articulate and good at her job.

I'll let you know how things progress.
to sensitive

United States

#1174 Sep 10, 2011
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>Of course you can tell her, and you should. I've had clients tell me how good the ear, mastoid, and scalp works feels but they've never told me it was arousing them, and I never noticed any signs of that happening. But I'm open to the idea that this may be happening and they've just enjoyed it and kept quiet about it.
Another question / comment. I am very tall and when I lay on the massage table my elbows stick off the table by a couple inches (yes my legs hang off too). Over the last few years I've noticed many times where the masseuse stands with my elbow right in her crotch (lack of a more appropriate term). This seems very intentional. I've had my arm hanging off the table with my elbow straight out, and have extended it out further, and the masseuse stands with it right between her legs. As she works on my back I can feel her rubbing against me. Now I don't suggest this is sexual at all but I am curious. Happens on both sides of the table, multiple times each time. now they could stand on either side of my arm easily.
I love the idea that they are intentional rubbing on me. No not my imagination, as this has happened many times.
And again I am very tall so it may not happen to everyone.

Is this common?
Robert

Nashville, TN

#1175 Sep 11, 2011
to sensitive wrote:
<quoted text>
Another question / comment. I am very tall and when I lay on the massage table my elbows stick off the table by a couple inches (yes my legs hang off too). Over the last few years I've noticed many times where the masseuse stands with my elbow right in her crotch (lack of a more appropriate term). This seems very intentional. I've had my arm hanging off the table with my elbow straight out, and have extended it out further, and the masseuse stands with it right between her legs. As she works on my back I can feel her rubbing against me. Now I don't suggest this is sexual at all but I am curious. Happens on both sides of the table, multiple times each time. now they could stand on either side of my arm easily.
I love the idea that they are intentional rubbing on me. No not my imagination, as this has happened many times.
And again I am very tall so it may not happen to everyone.
Is this common?
My current regular therapist does this as well. At times she has even placed mt foot in what seemed to be hear crotch (not certain as eyes were closed). Finally I brought her style up, cautiously as I didn't want her to think I was offended by it. Nor did I want her to think I was looking for more. She replied that she never noticed this as she was zoned out while giving the massage.
to sensitive

United States

#1176 Sep 11, 2011
Robert wrote:
<quoted text>My current regular therapist does this as well. At times she has even placed mt foot in what seemed to be hear crotch (not certain as eyes were closed). Finally I brought her style up, cautiously as I didn't want her to think I was offended by it. Nor did I want her to think I was looking for more. She replied that she never noticed this as she was zoned out while giving the massage.
Thanks.
Probably nothing more than long arms in a small space. I don't think I'll bring it up, maybe just move my arm a little to see what reaction I get.
Took me a Long time to find a masseuse I really trust. I don't want to screw it up.

Thanks Robert.
Sid

Ban Hong, Thailand

#1177 Sep 17, 2011
I enjoy a good massage and very often get an erection. The LMT's, all women, are always impressed. This is because I have a very large pole when it is erect. No brag, just fact.
The other day I was getting a massage in a new place and I started to tent up as it were. The LMT asked me if she could call in the other LMT's to see. I said sure.
Well, one thing led to another, off comes the towel, and all three of them enjoyed massaging my penis. One was grinding her crotch into the table the whole time. Needless to say I had an orgasm. I offered them all tips, but they said no, and in fact each one gave me some money. They want me to come back next week where they say they will again pay me to let them play with my pole.
I feel sorry for men with average or small poles. You just can't imagine what it's like if you have a real whopper. Well, maybe you can imagine it. It's good, real good.
Brah

San Francisco, CA

#1178 Sep 17, 2011
Dear Penthouse,

I never thought this could happen to me but, one day....
Sid wrote:
I enjoy a good massage and very often get an erection. The LMT's, all women, are always impressed. This is because I have a very large pole when it is erect. No brag, just fact.
The other day I was getting a massage in a new place and I started to tent up as it were. The LMT asked me if she could call in the other LMT's to see. I said sure.
Well, one thing led to another, off comes the towel, and all three of them enjoyed massaging my penis. One was grinding her crotch into the table the whole time. Needless to say I had an orgasm. I offered them all tips, but they said no, and in fact each one gave me some money. They want me to come back next week where they say they will again pay me to let them play with my pole.
I feel sorry for men with average or small poles. You just can't imagine what it's like if you have a real whopper. Well, maybe you can imagine it. It's good, real good.
DFD

Orem, UT

#1179 Sep 20, 2011
One time I was having spasms in my neck and terrible headaches for several days. When the MT managed to release it I had an immeidate erection and ejaculation, completely un-noticed. It was weird and the only time anything like that happened in my life and hundreds of massages. I was drapped as required by state law here. Fortunately it didn't happen at a nudist club where massages are not drapped and such occurances would have been frowned upon.
very embarrassed

Edmonton, Canada

#1180 Sep 21, 2011
I am in my 40's, male and not looking for any sexual encounters.
I have had two massages in the last six months and have been very enbarrassed. One was kneeling in a chair type in a shopping mall and the other one was a deep tissue massage trying to relax the muscles. Both times it seemed that as I was starting to relax and they were working on my upper back area and shoulders, I felt like I was going to ejaculate and tried hard not too. She had me turn onto my front and was working on my upper chest/shoulders and I was getting that same feeling but this time could not stop it. I did not have a erection nor did I feel aroused. I was so relaxed!! Now I am worried to go to a MT as I do not want that to happen again. I am so confused why this would of happened. I need a MT to explain this to me please. This is so embarrassing.

Since: Apr 11

Location hidden

#1181 Sep 23, 2011
Brah wrote:
Dear Penthouse,
I never thought this could happen to me but, one day....
<quoted text>
LMAO!
Blaise

Bound Brook, NJ

#1182 Sep 27, 2011
I've always been massaged by females because I have an aversion to being touched intimately by males. I've been aroused even by women who don't appeal to me sexually, although never to the point of ejaculation. I don't know why. Am I detecting pheremones? Is there something inherently stimulating about being undraped in the presence of a female? Oh yes, I'm a Scorpio, although I scoff at astrology.
Man

Oslo, Norway

#1183 Sep 29, 2011
I have fear of getting ejaculation during massage which I have experinced more than one time. I also have back-problems and I might need treatment. Problematic, and I don't want to masturbate upfront . Hmmm

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