Therapeutic Massage and Ejaculation
Dr_G

São José, Brazil

#1139 Jul 29, 2011
Cul8r wrote:
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Could you point where this thread is?..(i.e. a link would be helpful).
Thanks.
"I always get my massages in the nude ..."
Dr_G

São José, Brazil

#1142 Aug 1, 2011
Cul8r wrote:
<quoted text>
Could you point where this thread is?..(i.e. a link would be helpful).
Thanks.
The thread is "I always get my massages in the nude ..."
Wal

Lebanon

#1143 Aug 7, 2011
Actually i have had this incident about 6 times in my life so far, first time happened when i my beard was being shaved at a barber, 3 times when my back was being massaged, 2 times by my mom and 1 time by my male-friend -it happened when massage was applied to Mid-back)! and 2 times when my neck and shoulders were massaged by my gf! and in all times (except those when with my gf) i had absolutely no sexual motives or ideations!!! NONE, and in ALL times i had no erection, just a tense feeling in my penis and groin with spontaneous ejaculation.
Stef

London, UK

#1144 Aug 8, 2011
James wrote:
Glen
Thanks for your comments! Are you a massage therapist? I did not just leak a little semen, I had a full blown ejaculation. She had me very relaxed at the time and I was very stressed before I went in. I am 32 yrs old and happily married so that is why I felt a bit embarrased. Not sure if I should ever go back to that same mt or just try a new place? Neither of us aknowledged what had happend so she must have found out when she changed her sheets. If any one else has comments on this I would appreciate it!
I always get a full erection during a massage but any professional therapist will ignor it, it perfectly normal. I have also had a complete ejaculation on a couple of occasions where the therapist got a little to close between my thighs, but again the therapist just ignors it. I wouldn't worry, you're not alone.
mymassager

Thailand

#1145 Aug 8, 2011
Thanks for your input on this

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#1146 Aug 10, 2011
As a female MT of 21 years professional experience I will put in my two cents. For one thing, no, you have no need to be ashamed. Erections and such can happen naturally due to increaed circulation to the GENERAL area and the relaxation. IN spite of this ejeculation should not normally occur with a skilled therapist is the client is not contributing to it. Based on what you said, I have no doubt you were not trying to contribute. I have no doubt that it was the type of touch and technique she used. She is probably either new or a masseuse. Too mnay people call us MTs masseuses. We are highly offended by this, as we are defnitely not. An experienced MT would have used a different touch. The feeling should be therapeutic, not arousing. If an experienced MT notices signh of arousa - and we can tell before an eraction happens (I coudl not tell when I was inexperienced), we change the modality, thus the sensation and the effect is reversed.

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#1147 Aug 10, 2011
Oh, P.S. a legitimate and ethical therapist n the US does not leave you backside or anything exposed - uncovered! That is unethical. Masseuses do that.
lkybfrend

United States

#1148 Aug 10, 2011
Either way ,masseuse, mt, lmt, or girl of the street, I personally have the ability to control an erection. So there you have it "controlled erection & ejaculation" very useful outside of a massage also!
Don

Jamison, PA

#1150 Aug 16, 2011
I have a medical disorder, and thus need massage a lot. I usually get my quads and abdominal regions massaged, if that is something the therapist does. I have only had female therapists. I typically at some point get partially aroused, and make leak a little fluid, but I never ejaculated or came close. I am not looking for anything other than relief from my symptoms, but I will say this.

I've had probably 5 therapists brush or glide over my penis, often with the back of their hand. No one grabbed it and none of it was intentional, but sometimes when working the abs or maybe once the quads it can be in accidentally brushed, moved with the sheet....no one ever apologized or even seem conscious that they did it, and I never said anything....I got upset by it perhaps at first but now I just ignore it and try to enjoy the rest of the massage. Usually, I am almost asleep as I absolutely love abdominal work. I really don't have much drive or care about much due to my medical problems.

Honestly, I get colonics and the worst thing I had happen was a colonic hyrdotherapist put her hand (through the sheet) right on my erect penis. It was just a clumsy, not paying attention mistake, but she apologized and I said "that's OK"...I kind of got tongue tied and didn't know what to say! It honestly didn't bother me I don't think as much as it bothered her....I forgot about it pretty quickly.
Paul

Birmingham, AL

#1151 Aug 18, 2011
NativeBodyworx wrote:
Oh, P.S. a legitimate and ethical therapist n the US does not leave you backside or anything exposed - uncovered! That is unethical. Masseuses do that.
That is simply not true. Plenty of licensed and ethical MTs will perform undraped massage, particularly on the backside, even when no sexual services are involved.

In several US states, undraped massage is legal, if both client and therapist consent.(Again, this is more common for the backside, but even on the front, some states allow undraped. I know Florida is one, for example.)

If you've never had a Lomi-Lomi style massage, long flowing strokes traveling over the entire back side of the body, uninterrupted by a drape, you're missing one of life's great pleasures!
Kassy

Chico, CA

#1152 Aug 22, 2011
There's nothing wrong with that at all. He had the erection in the first place,if he thought it was innpropriate he would have stopped you.
LMT

Medina, OH

#1153 Aug 23, 2011
Paul wrote:
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That is simply not true. Plenty of licensed and ethical MTs will perform undraped massage, particularly on the backside, even when no sexual services are involved.
In several US states, undraped massage is legal, if both client and therapist consent.(Again, this is more common for the backside, but even on the front, some states allow undraped. I know Florida is one, for example.)
If you've never had a Lomi-Lomi style massage, long flowing strokes traveling over the entire back side of the body, uninterrupted by a drape, you're missing one of life's great pleasures!
One of my clients took a Hawaiian cruise in July and decided to try a Lomi-Lomi massage. She told me that she was really dissatisfied that she paid $250 for nothing more than Plumeria-scented stroking that didn't address her airplane neck at all.
Hotdude

Miami, FL

#1154 Aug 23, 2011
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>One of my clients took a Hawaiian cruise in July and decided to try a Lomi-Lomi massage. She told me that she was really dissatisfied that she paid $250 for nothing more than Plumeria-scented stroking that didn't address her airplane neck at all.
too bad for her. I've had a few GREAT lomi-lomi massages.
Paul

Birmingham, AL

#1155 Aug 23, 2011
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>One of my clients took a Hawaiian cruise in July and decided to try a Lomi-Lomi massage. She told me that she was really dissatisfied that she paid $250 for nothing more than Plumeria-scented stroking that didn't address her airplane neck at all.
A shame. But there are crummy massage therapists just like there are crummy mechanics, plumbers, bus drivers, doctors, etc. Doesn't mean the modality itself is invalid.
Sunther

Singapore, Singapore

#1156 Aug 23, 2011
I go for masage quite often. Most of the time I go to TCM massage. It is quite frequent for me to have ejaculations while lying on my stomach and when she massage my lower back and buttocks. What makes me so courious is most of the time, I ejaculated witout erection. I was so embarassed and I am not sure if she saw the wetness over the brief. I tried changing MT, but the ejaculation still happen when she massage my buttock and lower back, shall I ask her to start massage on the front part of body first while lying facing up?
jim

Sylvania, GA

#1158 Aug 26, 2011
I have the pleasure of being massaged by a female mt in Georgia (I don't wish to reveal the exact location). She has a very open mind regarding draping. She allows me the option of being draped.
I ask her to spend most of the time focused on my glutes, perineal area, and other places because that's where the most discomfort is (due to my riding a horse for long periods of time). She, unlike most of the mt's who "preach and screech" on this site, is comfortable with my nudity as am I. There is no modesty hangups. And yes, I do orgasm occasionally on the table. She as seen my strong ejaculations and treats the natural response with humor and an open mind.
Dr_G

Caçador, Brazil

#1159 Aug 27, 2011
jim wrote:
I have the pleasure of being massaged by a female mt in Georgia (I don't wish to reveal the exact location). She has a very open mind regarding draping. She allows me the option of being draped.
I ask her to spend most of the time focused on my glutes, perineal area, and other places because that's where the most discomfort is (due to my riding a horse for long periods of time). She, unlike most of the mt's who "preach and screech" on this site, is comfortable with my nudity as am I. There is no modesty hangups. And yes, I do orgasm occasionally on the table. She as seen my strong ejaculations and treats the natural response with humor and an open mind.
Sounds like you are two mature individuals with respect for each other. You WILL hear from the screechers on the perinium, however. But ignore them. If the MT does not "sratch you where you itch" then why would you use their services?
LMT

Medina, OH

#1160 Aug 27, 2011
Dr_G wrote:
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Sounds like you are two mature individuals with respect for each other. You WILL hear from the screechers on the perinium, however. But ignore them. If the MT does not "sratch you where you itch" then why would you use their services?
By "screechers" you must mean ethical practitioners. Why can't you horn dogs scratch your own perineum? Ethics Always was so right about fake spiritual gurus who use mysticism as a cloak for sexual stimulation. Geez, just rent a hooker!
Veritas

Rockford, IL

#1161 Aug 28, 2011
To those who insist that ejaculation during tharaputic massage must be due to inappropriate motives and/or unprofessional behavior: I can tell you that you are wrong on this, and I feel embarrased for you, because you are making your judgmental pronouncements out of an ignorance that is inconsistent with the level of professional experience and wisdom you claim to have. For your own sake, if not for that of those who are uncomfortable with their experiences with this issue - I hope you will reexamine your thinking.

I've had dozens of good, theraputic massages, from several different practitioners: NEVER an erection. I get massage mostly because of my lower back and, when it is well worked, I nearly always produce some pre-ejaculate, and on two occasions have released semen. I hesitate to call it ejaculation because it isn't quite like that: just a warm sensation in my lower core (hard to pinpoint)and a flow of semen, without the sort of pulsating typical of a sexual ejaculation.

If you believe that theraputic massage can have a powerful influence on the health and healing of the human body (as I do), then why should it be so hard to believe that it has the power to cause a little semen to flow?
Mr A

Pune, India

#1162 Sep 3, 2011
Read some MTs' responses that when a guy cums on the massage table, the MT's responsible. Don't think so .. I go for a massage regularly and have received treatment from different MTs every time. Until now I've ejaculated 5-6 times, but didn't ever think the MT was doing anything wrong .. seems like my glutes/inner thighs are just too sensitive .. this may be the case with others too!

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