Therapeutic Massage and Ejaculation
Gabriel

Hertford, UK

#881 Dec 1, 2010
I’ve been seeing the same Chinese massage therapist for about two years now. She was one of the first massage therapists that I’ve ever visited, and she use to be able to make me cum just by rubbing my butt while I was laying on my stomach. I eventually got use to this and stopped having orgasms during my massage sessions. After a few massage sessions went by where I didn’t have an orgasm, I politely asked her if she could keep going until I finished. She doesn’t speak English very well, and she thought that I was asking for a handjob, which I wasn’t. I only wanted her to keep rubbing my butt to make me cum like she did before. When I asked her this, she laughed, slapped me on the butt, told me not to tell anyone, and stroked me until I blew my load. Now she gives me a HJ during/after each one of my massage sessions, unless I blow my load while she’s rubbing my butt like in the old days. She will always keep all of her clothes on during the massage (and even while she’s giving me a HJ), and has never offered anything other than a HJ. The only problem with this is that I’m craving her to do more. I’d love for her to give me a massage wearing some sexy outfit and I fantasize about getting more intimate with her (feeling her up, BJ, sex, etc.). I just don’t know how to go about this without offending her. I’ve dropped some hints on a few occasions as well. One time I saw that her bra was hanging in the bathroom, and I made a comment that I thought it was cute. Another time I asked her if she does anything other than HJ’s, but because of the language barrier she didn’t understand what I was getting at. Finally, one time I asked her if she does Brazilian waxing for guys, and she said yes, and I asked her if she waxes herself, but once again she didn’t understand what I meant because of her limited English. So basically, I just want some suggestions of what I can do/say to make her wear a sexy outfit while giving me a massage or give me more than just a hand job. I feel like I can’t ask her flat out because her English isn’t great and also because she doesn’t run one of “those” massage places. She actually runs a spa where they do massages, facials, hairstyling, electrolysis, waxing, and any other service that a regular spa would perform. She’s also licensed, gives out insurance receipts, and it took a very long time before she started giving me handjobs’s (about a year), so I can’t just be like “hey here’s 60 bucks, blow me!” I feel like I need to be subtle about it and I don’t want to offend her since I have a pretty good thing going as it is. Any suggestions for what I can do are definitely welcome.
Paul

Birmingham, AL

#882 Dec 3, 2010
Seems like you could start with a few gentle, almost "accidental" caresses of her legs, hips, butt, etc. Her reaction should tell you if that sort of attention is allowed or not -- if she pulls away and gives you a dirty look, there's your answer.

Other activities should be able to be pantomimed with hand or mouth gestures, language barrier aside.
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#883 Dec 3, 2010
Just start rubbing the back of her legs and then butt if she lets you. That's what I do with my Chinese massage lady. I even touch her boobs and finger her pie during the massage and when she is giving me a hj. Next time when I am on my chest I will open my cheeks and say oil. I hope she poures the oil deep in my butt and works in in deep. When it's time for my hj I want her to finger my bum while she strokes my meat.When I am ready to shoot I will stick out my tongue to let her know I want her to shoot my load on my tongue, in my mouth and all over my face. I hope she licks it off my face and makes out with me! That would be so freaky hot!

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#884 Dec 3, 2010
Freddy, you are obviously of the homosexual persuasion, please do us all a favor and stop posting your drivel. No one really cares about your fantasies, maybe try writing in a diary instead of posting online.
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#886 Dec 4, 2010
bellfly wrote:
Freddy, you are obviously of the homosexual persuasion, please do us all a favor and stop posting your drivel. No one really cares about your fantasies, maybe try writing in a diary instead of posting online.
Hotdude sems to enjoy reading my stories. PS: I been with 13 hot chicks and not counting hj's at massage places.
Gabriel

Anonymous Proxy

#887 Dec 4, 2010
I also forgot to mention that a few months ago, she opened up her own home-based massage business (shhh her employer doesn't know!) and I've been going there instead of the spa where I first met her. There's actually a bedroom with a queen-sized bed next to the room where she gives massages. After taking my shower and walking down the hallway alone, I've fantasized about going into the bedroom instead of the massage room, and just waiting for her to realize that I'm not in the massage room, checking the other room, and finding me laid out on her bed.
LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#888 Dec 6, 2010
FREDDY wrote:
<quoted text>
Hotdude sems to enjoy reading my stories. PS: I been with 13 hot chicks and not counting hj's at massage places.
LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#889 Dec 6, 2010
FREDDY wrote:
Just start rubbing the back of her legs and then butt if she lets you. That's what I do with my Chinese massage lady. I even touch her boobs and finger her pie during the massage and when she is giving me a hj. Next time when I am on my chest I will open my cheeks and say oil. I hope she poures the oil deep in my butt and works in in deep. When it's time for my hj I want her to finger my bum while she strokes my meat.When I am ready to shoot I will stick out my tongue to let her know I want her to shoot my load on my tongue, in my mouth and all over my face. I hope she licks it off my face and makes out with me! That would be so freaky hot!
One more time...
LMT

Twinsburg, OH

#890 Dec 6, 2010
Hot Dude wrote:
Freddy,
you are getting me so hot. I want to bang your brazilian, hairless, pink Swesish pucker!!!
I see a nasty STD in your future...
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#891 Dec 6, 2010
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>One more time...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =48rz8udZBmQXX
Don't u have to whack I mean massage a dude's butt
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#892 Dec 6, 2010
LMT wrote:
<quoted text>http://www.youtube.com /watch?v=48rz8udZBmQXX
Don't forget the happy ending to get a big tip!
Freddy

San Diego, CA

#894 Dec 7, 2010
I think it's more up the the person giving u the massage if u come during the massage. Unless they r leting u jack after or during the massage.
Gabriel

Chicago, IL

#896 Dec 7, 2010
Guys, can we please stay on track here and end the bickering? Does anyone have any other suggestions for what I can do about my situation???
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#897 Dec 8, 2010
Gabriel wrote:
Guys, can we please stay on track here and end the bickering? Does anyone have any other suggestions for what I can do about my situation???
Since she speaks no english like my massage girl I say you should put on a condom I think she will get the hint. I am going to wear a condom to my next massage and see what happens next? I bet she will go down on me who knows maybe she will get on top for a little cowgirl action but I doubt it unless she wears a skirt.
Hot Dude

Palo Alto, CA

#898 Dec 9, 2010
Freddy, don't let anyone make you stop your stories. I love that with the butt cheeks and the request for oil!!! Damn...

Gabriel, like Freddy said, rub her leg and work up to her butt and see how she reacts.
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#899 Dec 9, 2010
Hot Dude wrote:
Freddy, don't let anyone make you stop your stories. I love that with the butt cheeks and the request for oil!!! Damn...
Gabriel, like Freddy said, rub her leg and work up to her butt and see how she reacts.
Thanks, will kept the stories coming glad one person enjoys reading them. Going to see my Hot Latin MILF for a waxing next Thursday. Hope this is the time she gives me release by accident.
I will see my Chinese lady friend January 8th and open my cheeks and say oil this should be fun. I wonder if she will massage my prostate? I stopped waxing with the 22 year since I love the Latin MILF way better!!
Jennie T

Los Angeles, CA

#900 Dec 14, 2010
I have been a certified LMT for 7 years in Florida, and I have been involved in some touchy situations over the years. But the most important thing is how you handle the situation. You have to be professional and you have to go out of your way not to get your client embarrassed. I am a 32 year old woman and I realize how sensitive the male penis is when it is rubbed or touched. If I sense my client getting sexually aroused, I make sure to be careful about it. And I stop immediately. Athletes tend to want their buttocks rubbed more often because they are sore in that area. Most of the time, when I ask them to turn over, their penis is erect, and its very obvious. This does not give me the ok to take advantage of my clients by any means. However, I must say that i have been asked by a few of my clients to rub their penis and testicles, and bring them an ejaculation. This will help relieve the stress, and men relieve stress sometimes through their penis. Its just a fact of life that women need to understand. I am very discreet about it, and I ask them not to make noise when they ejaculate. I act in a very professional way. When they are finished, I wipe their penis off with a warm towel and finish the massage. I don't date my clients, and i have never had any sex with my clients. But a happy ending is fine with me. If I had a penis i would probably want the same thing. no harm, no foul. Enjoy guys!!
FREDDY

San Diego, CA

#901 Dec 14, 2010
Jennie T wrote:
I have been a certified LMT for 7 years in Florida, and I have been involved in some touchy situations over the years. But the most important thing is how you handle the situation. You have to be professional and you have to go out of your way not to get your client embarrassed. I am a 32 year old woman and I realize how sensitive the male penis is when it is rubbed or touched. If I sense my client getting sexually aroused, I make sure to be careful about it. And I stop immediately. Athletes tend to want their buttocks rubbed more often because they are sore in that area. Most of the time, when I ask them to turn over, their penis is erect, and its very obvious. This does not give me the ok to take advantage of my clients by any means. However, I must say that i have been asked by a few of my clients to rub their penis and testicles, and bring them an ejaculation. This will help relieve the stress, and men relieve stress sometimes through their penis. Its just a fact of life that women need to understand. I am very discreet about it, and I ask them not to make noise when they ejaculate. I act in a very professional way. When they are finished, I wipe their penis off with a warm towel and finish the massage. I don't date my clients, and i have never had any sex with my clients. But a happy ending is fine with me. If I had a penis i would probably want the same thing. no harm, no foul. Enjoy guys!!
Sounds like you know what your doing and have the right mind set.
Hot Dude

Palo Alto, CA

#902 Dec 15, 2010
Jennie, that is awesome. I would have to guess however that most female MTs are not as comfortable about this because I have found very few that will get too close unless you are a repeat client and have a very good comfort level. Male MTs on the other hand don't get as hung up over an erection or nudity and will jump right in!!!

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#903 Dec 15, 2010
Jennie T wrote:
I have been a certified LMT for 7 years in Florida, and I have been involved in some touchy situations over the years. But the most important thing is how you handle the situation. You have to be professional and you have to go out of your way not to get your client embarrassed. I am a 32 year old woman and I realize how sensitive the male penis is when it is rubbed or touched. If I sense my client getting sexually aroused, I make sure to be careful about it. And I stop immediately. Athletes tend to want their buttocks rubbed more often because they are sore in that area. Most of the time, when I ask them to turn over, their penis is erect, and its very obvious. This does not give me the ok to take advantage of my clients by any means. However, I must say that i have been asked by a few of my clients to rub their penis and testicles, and bring them an ejaculation. This will help relieve the stress, and men relieve stress sometimes through their penis. Its just a fact of life that women need to understand. I am very discreet about it, and I ask them not to make noise when they ejaculate. I act in a very professional way. When they are finished, I wipe their penis off with a warm towel and finish the massage. I don't date my clients, and i have never had any sex with my clients. But a happy ending is fine with me. If I had a penis i would probably want the same thing. no harm, no foul. Enjoy guys!!
Jennie, I agree with just about everything you said. Wish the massage board would see things this way, oh well.

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