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LMT

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Feb 24, 2009
 

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Adrenalin, why couldn't you have just said that before? I enjoy a good argument, but we've locked horns for weeks now over this very issue. I'm glad you are now saying that Professional Massage does not and should not involve any technique that encourages ejaculation. That's what the hookers in the "Rub & Tug" parlors do. We just want it taken one step further so that the term "Massage" isn't even mentioned in these places. Let them call it what it is, but what they do is not the massage we professionals trained for and it insults us to have these folks lumped together with us as "colleagues" in the massage profession.
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Feb 24, 2009
 
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Eric, I apologize for grouping you together with the West-Enders. I have seen from your posts that you also desire to have the image of Massage Therapy in your country pulled out of the muck and cleaned up. I'm glad to hear that Melbourne has higher standards than Adrenalin's trailer park.
That's ok LMT. I'm not offended. I realised that Adrenaline remarks were incendiary, so your response was understandable. It is a shame that the massage industry has to struggle with this when it is a perfectly legitimate professsion that offers real value (I can tell you my mother used to see a very respected masseuse to put her pack back into place - no other massuese that she saw had that ability. Also, the TAC transport accident Committee who oversee payments to car crash victims begged her to work for them after she put right in one session a man who had being seeing physiotherapists for 2 years without being healed).

I did read that thailand also has to deal with this. Thai massage can be very beneficial, but because of the sex industry there , many people I suspect think that is what massage is , or should be about, often to the chagrin of the genuine practioners.
LMT

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That's ok LMT. I'm not offended. I realised that Adrenaline remarks were incendiary, so your response was understandable. It is a shame that the massage industry has to struggle with this when it is a perfectly legitimate professsion that offers real value (I can tell you my mother used to see a very respected masseuse to put her pack back into place - no other massuese that she saw had that ability. Also, the TAC transport accident Committee who oversee payments to car crash victims begged her to work for them after she put right in one session a man who had being seeing physiotherapists for 2 years without being healed).
I did read that thailand also has to deal with this. Thai massage can be very beneficial, but because of the sex industry there , many people I suspect think that is what massage is , or should be about, often to the chagrin of the genuine practioners.
I had to deal with my brother's response when I told him I was in school for massage. He lives in California, where massage has never been regulated and all you need to do is call yourself a Massage Therapist and - Presto!- you can open a parlor on Sunset Blvd. I had to explain to him that in Ohio, Massage Therapy is considered a limited branch of medicine and it's actually licensed and regulated by the State Medical Board, not the Board of Cosmetology like in some other states. He was still skeptical, but the more he found out the more he (finally) accepted the fact that his bro was in a legitimate industry.
Thai massage is an interesting technique, but Thailand also has to deal with prostitution parlors using the term "massage" to cover their true business. It's a shame, because the uncertainty about what to expect is keeping lots of tourists from having an invigorating massage.
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#402
Feb 25, 2009
 
LMT,

Is patroling this website a full-time job for you?
LMT

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LMT,
Is patroling this website a full-time job for you?
Maintaining the image of my profession is a full-time job for me. Too bad you don't work in a profession you can feel passionate about. And too bad you don't have the freedom that I have to spend a little time on the web in between clients!
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I usually go to a male masseur and when this happens he just ignores it, i feel quite relaxed about it now and wouldent mint if he touched my pubic area
Ken

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#405
Mar 5, 2009
 
This for James where do you get your massages in Appleton ?
David

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For you massage therapists out there IM married to a certified therapists who happens to be very attractive .Why do I feel its necessary to tell you shes attractive because guys prefer attactive therapists I wonder why ? It seems like you all ok maybe not all feel its totally natural for a guy to get a errection or actually ejaculate on your massage tables . I wonder how many of you therapists are married ? And honestly how would your husband feel if he knew this was occuring in your massage room of course with the door closed . Would you tell your husband ?? And I would find it incredible if you had and he didnt become upset . And for those therapists who will cliam patient confidentiality for not telling there husbands what a great way to maintain a trusting relationship . How would you feel if your husband was a threapists and a female on his table had a orgasam . I care very much for my wife but honestly I do have issues with her giving massages to men I find any guy in similiar circumstances wouldnt . For you guys who cant seem to control there bodily functions on the massage tables then you should not get massages as Im sure if your wife or girlfriend massaged a guy like you you would not be very understanding . A reminder to guys who get massages from woman theres usually a guy behind that weoman so be careful on what you do and say in the massage room because who you are may not allways be kept confidential especially if the therapists feels threatened or percieves your actions as sexual in nature .
James

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#407
Mar 11, 2009
 
David - again, I think all of you need to stop reading the crap posts on here and read the original one. I am the original poster. This happened to me almost 2 years ago now and I have gotten many massages since then with not the same results! This for me was a one time thing that happend out of the blue. I in no way wanted it to happen and was very very embarrased it did. I also had a wife on the other end of this and never did tell her because I was ashamed. I realize you do not like your wife massaging other men, but maybe you are a bit insecure in your feelings. Trust your wife man! All peopel and I mean all are different and react different to different things. If she has given a man an orgasm, i am sure she was not trying to do it! So from that stand point she was just doing her job and somebody had a different reaction. Alot of people have to get off there high horses on here. I am sure doctors have given people orgasms before too. It does not mean it was sexual in nature, it just means the body reacted in a way some can not control! I know the day it happened to me, it just happened with no warning and I could not stop it. There are always two sides to every story and you always need to look at both of them and try to understand!
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I need my butt rubbed, OOPS, I mean massaged. Can anyone help me?
Mike

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#409
Mar 18, 2009
 
I had a massage a couple of monthes ago and became very erect at having my legs rubbed. After about 50 minutes into the massage I just couldn't hold back and I ejaculated all over myself while she was rubbing my thigh. The therapist didnt miss a beat and continued on with the massage even though I created a very large noticeable mess. I felt really embarassed about it afterwards and assumed I would never get a massage from her again. I ran into her again at the gym I go to and she said that I should come back and get a massage. When she gave me my second massage the same thing happened and I came all over the place. This time was worse because she actually put her hand in my cum and thinking it was lotion rubbed it on my leg. After the massage was over she told me that she hopes I come back real soon. It seems like that she isnt bothered by the fact that I cum when she massages me. Any comments or thoughts would be appreciated.

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#410
Mar 18, 2009
 
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That's what the hookers in the "Rub & Tug" parlors do.
You sound like you speak from experience. If not how do you qualify that statement with anything other than your opinion? So far skimming through this topic your opinion has been repeated over and over for literally years. Your opinion is the same as all of those anal sphincters you stand over whiffing everyday, it stinks. My opinion is that you are a frustrated old closet queen doing his best to get as many men on your table as possible, just my opinion.
David

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James seems like your sincere . Im glad to here you havent had it happen again as thats not the situation or place it should . Concerning you saying I might be insecure Id say most guys with very attractive woman usually are thats the downside of being with one though of course its worth it . Also theres more to the story why I dislike My Cert MT wife massaging men before I became her steady now husband she had been going through a stressful expirence which I might contribute to some of her actions concerning her proffesion such as becomming too friendly with some male clients . One whom would come every week for sometimes 1.5 hrs and she told me he had told her in one session if he wasnt married he could see himself falling in Love with her . She started to confide in him and he then started to try and dessuade her from seeing me . I finally gave her a choise him or me she chose me insisting all along he was just a client and she had no feeling romantically for him . Then there was the guy she went out to drinks with after a massage which she admitted was a flirt and surprise surprise he hit on her . At the time I could not be totally available to her so she could not allways have me to lean on when she needed someone so that could have contributed to her bad decisions . MT must be very careful about a thing called tranference which I wont discuss here . Any ways the above and the fact to many guys are just plain perverts are why It for sure does not thrill me she massages men .
LMT

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Relaxed wrote:
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You sound like you speak from experience. If not how do you qualify that statement with anything other than your opinion? So far skimming through this topic your opinion has been repeated over and over for literally years. Your opinion is the same as all of those anal sphincters you stand over whiffing everyday, it stinks. My opinion is that you are a frustrated old closet queen doing his best to get as many men on your table as possible, just my opinion.
And a worthless opinion it is.. "Whiffing anal sphincters?" What were you doing when that fantasy popped into your head? Never mind, we don't want to know.
Bellrog

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Mar 21, 2009
 
hi everyone in this thread. Im going to post a few experiences i have had, no intention to offend anyone just want to say what has happened to me in the past. I have had a few injuries over the years playing a lot of sports! I have to admit when i have had therapy from female physio's who are attractive i have got full on 100% erections and i couldnt do anything about it. I was talking to a nurse who is a friend about this and she just laughed saying this is normal and dont be worried about it. But i started getting massages about 5 months ago. I prefer females as it doesnt feel natural being rubbed down by a guy, i tried it once and i couldnt relax in the massage. I have ejaculated 2 times during massages with 2 different massage therapists. I have had at least 10 massages with them each and have nearly ejaculated other times but i didnt, i wondered if they realised what happened other times and stopped earlier, they didnt say anything so i didnt know if they knew. I was really aroused with what happened and did enjoy it although i knew it was wrong, but even if i tried i wouldnt have been able to stop it. I have trouble when they do my hips, butt and upper hamstraing with ejaculation, but i get an erections when all of these places are done as well as my thighs. They didnt say anything at the end of the massages and were happy for me to come back thats why i think they didnt notice. Im going again soon and will post what happens if anyone is interested.
Bellrog

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Mar 21, 2009
 
Also i forgot to say with one of the massage therapists i found it strange when she did the butt massage she leaves it draped and does the massage mainly with her elbow thru the towel. Is this normal? the other massage therapist puts the towel in the middle while she does each side. Just wondering if this is common or not?
Manda

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Mar 22, 2009
 
It's possible. Massage can be very stimulating. When men become relaxed almost to the state of unconscious, erections may occur. As far as ejaculation, maybe it just spiked your sympathetic nervous system a little much.
Manda

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Mar 22, 2009
 
David wrote:
For you massage therapists out there IM married to a certified therapists who happens to be very attractive .Why do I feel its necessary to tell you shes attractive because guys prefer attactive therapists I wonder why ? It seems like you all ok maybe not all feel its totally natural for a guy to get a errection or actually ejaculate on your massage tables . I wonder how many of you therapists are married ? And honestly how would your husband feel if he knew this was occuring in your massage room of course with the door closed . Would you tell your husband ?? And I would find it incredible if you had and he didnt become upset . And for those therapists who will cliam patient confidentiality for not telling there husbands what a great way to maintain a trusting relationship . How would you feel if your husband was a threapists and a female on his table had a orgasam . I care very much for my wife but honestly I do have issues with her giving massages to men I find any guy in similiar circumstances wouldnt . For you guys who cant seem to control there bodily functions on the massage tables then you should not get massages as Im sure if your wife or girlfriend massaged a guy like you you would not be very understanding . A reminder to guys who get massages from woman theres usually a guy behind that weoman so be careful on what you do and say in the massage room because who you are may not allways be kept confidential especially if the therapists feels threatened or percieves your actions as sexual in nature .
As a Professional, I would know that many situations will be tossed my way, and the only thing to do is to handle them in a professional manner. Sometimes, people are just a little more sensitive in that area. Being me, I would have ended that massage if I noticed it, because I would feel like that would be the best, and safe thing to do for me.

Yes, the session may be in a closed room, but there are no locks on the doors for our and our client's safety.

Honestly, I would go home and tell my husband if that were to happen. And I would be upset myself. That is, if I even let it get that far. There are other things that you can do to avoid situations like this. You just have to do them.(Like if you notice an erection, stay away from the areas that might stimulate the nervous system more, and stay away from stimulating techniques that you use.) As far as after the situation, I have the right to deny that client again.

That type of situation rarely happens, but if it were to happen, it would not be because of anything inappropriately done. There are boundaries to attend to. As a MT, you can see the signs if something like that were to happen,... Inappropriate conversation/body language, something in that manner. It is the therapist who is delivering the therapeutic touch. THERAPEUTIC TOUCH... not a sexual touch, and when you are a client, receiving that touch, you can tell and feel that there is a point for well-being, and therapeutic goals as a LMT. This touch is in no way confused with sexual/sensual touch. You would know the difference. Counter-transference Plays a huge role here.

You have to know when to step away, and when the boundaries have been crossed. We have the right to end any session at anytime that we feel uncomfortable. As an LMT, You have to stay in control of the situation.
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Mar 22, 2009
 
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Also i forgot to say with one of the massage therapists i found it strange when she did the butt massage she leaves it draped and does the massage mainly with her elbow thru the towel. Is this normal? the other massage therapist puts the towel in the middle while she does each side. Just wondering if this is common or not?
This is normal. Especially if you have Low back pain. If you feel uncomfortable, tell them. She is working all the muscles in your buttocks. There is a lot of tension held there, and there can be a lot of trigger points there as well. The main thing is, if you feel uncomfortable in any way, TELL THE CLINICIAN. Don't be afraid to. They would rather know. They can adjust to what is comfortable for you. This also goes for applied pressure.
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#418
Mar 24, 2009
 
Going trolling, this looks like a good spot. What kind of bait are you all using?

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