Therapeutic Massage and Ejaculation
dexter

Scottsdale, AZ

#318 Dec 2, 2008
Another story about a guy getting a "surprise" hand job from a male hooker. Yawn.

LMT,

If you are so put off my all of the perverts on this thread, why do you continue to lurk around on it?? Stop arguing moral highground with everyone and be on your way! Go make the world a better place!!
peter

Newport, Australia

#319 Dec 3, 2008
phil wrote:
ive had alot of massages ,one girl came right up my thigh and massaging all around my crutch,i presumed it was normal for her to do this but i still had an erection which she noticed and she carried on,to my other thigh and did the same,i had the erection for the whole massage,there was a bulge in the towel,i was embarrased but she kept quiet. i did report it and she was sacked. i didnt see her again.
you must be one in a million male that hates females something is wrong somewhere
Most males like to be massaged by a female and most males get aroused by a female masseuse and would do anything to be allowed to have an erection with out the therapist getting offended
what you did to report her is very weird you must be sexually desfunctional
i wish i knew who she was most males would go to her anytime
I did not think that ther were any males on the plant that would report
peter

Newport, Australia

#320 Dec 3, 2008
ok oki can understand it this way
if a male did that to me and since i am a male then yes i would report him
so i guess if dexter is totally gay then he could be offended by a female and report her ???
who cares

United States

#321 Dec 3, 2008
peter wrote:
<quoted text>
you must be one in a million male that hates females something is wrong somewhere
Most males like to be massaged by a female and most males get aroused by a female masseuse and would do anything to be allowed to have an erection with out the therapist getting offended
what you did to report her is very weird you must be sexually desfunctional
i wish i knew who she was most males would go to her anytime
I did not think that ther were any males on the plant that would report
An erection is NOT offensive, it is what you are writing about the erection that is offensive. When you start humping the table or ask for a hand job, or tell us how intense your orgasm was, that is offensive. An erection, in and of itself is NOT offensive. Being likened to a prostitute IS offensive.
LMT

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#322 Dec 3, 2008
dexter wrote:
Another story about a guy getting a "surprise" hand job from a male hooker. Yawn.
LMT,
If you are so put off my all of the perverts on this thread, why do you continue to lurk around on it?? Stop arguing moral highground with everyone and be on your way! Go make the world a better place!!
Excuse me, but it's the perverts who want hand jobs who are the ones who are intruding on an otherwise medical/therapeutic massage forum. This is not your forum. Go find a masturbation forum and I'll leave you COMPLETELY alone!!!
Phil

Dunfermline, UK

#323 Dec 7, 2008
I am seriously considering having my first massage but with a Tantric masseur or masseuse. I suffer from what is known as premature ejaculation (sorry about the gory details) and I have read that a good tantric provider can teach some sort of control in this area but intimate touch is part of the treatment.
I don't really care too much about the sex or orientation of the giver as long as they are genuine. The best on my shortlist is a woman but unfortunately she is not taking bookings at the moment. A few I have seen on the internet promise much but when you read the small print they start talking about how 'mutual touching' is allowed. They are offering not much more than an expensive hand job.
No, thank you.
Has anybody on here ever had a Tantric massage and did the treatment work?
embarassed

Canada

#324 Dec 15, 2008
I found this thread after an embarassing incident during a non-sexual massage, and appreciate that my experience wasn't unique.

From reading other's posts, it seems like there are 3 types of experiences being described:
-sexual release as a part of a massage (consentual or non-consenting)
-erections in men - part of a physiologic response to being touched or thinking about the therapist. Sometimes going on to ejaculation
-ejaculation without erection.

This last one is what happened to me, and I found it very disturbing. I'm in my 40's, happily married, and have massages regularly. I have now had two occasions where quite suddenly, with very little warning, I ejaculate. No erection, no genital contact (although both times after having my inner thigh massaged). It is not actually a very good feeling/satisfying orgasm.

For the RMT's - is this common? Is it something the MT might have done on purpose?(she was massaging my inner thigh, but not touching my genitals). Suggestions?

The experience was quite embarassing, although the RMT didn't say anything - I explained my sudden movement to a muscle cramp.
Nobody

United States

#325 Dec 16, 2008
Just tell your MT not to massage your inner thigh. Verbal communication is vital, so is honesty. It might have been embarassing for you, but a your MT will appreciate knowing what has happened. If you have been going to this MT for awhile, she will understand you are not a pervert looking for a happy ending. Good luck with getting this sorted out, you sound like the kind of patient all MTs like to have.
jhipokpoih

Honolulu, HI

#326 Dec 19, 2008
hehe
Mike

AOL

#327 Dec 22, 2008
James wrote:
Ed and Sandy
Sounds to me that what is happening with your wife and yourself is very unethical by the massage therapist?? You both could file charges about that. Very sorry this has happened to you!!
James.. are you totally insane? File charges? Based on that information alone? Please!
Ejaculation Lawyer

West Brookfield, MA

#328 Dec 23, 2008
Mike,
Did I hear you requesting a lawyer, how can I assist.
One Who Cares

United States

#329 Dec 24, 2008
Merry Christmas to all the MTs and pervs.
Ejaculation Lawyer

West Brookfield, MA

#330 Dec 24, 2008
Merry Christmas
BTR

Greensboro, NC

#331 Jan 1, 2009
I am glad that James had the courage to mention this topic. I have had the same thing happen to me and I was terribly embarrassed and it took me a long time to work through it. I am glad to know it happens to other guys. I am happily married with a great sex life. I was having a massage from a 60-70 year old male MT and when he got to my right upper thigh (I was lying face down) I involuntarily ejaculated. No erection, no warning. I spent the rest of the massage wondering how in the heck that happened and how I was going to clean up the mess. The MT never mentioned anything and I quickly wadded up the sheets after the massage. I was mortified to say the least. After about seven months I tried a massage again and all was well, however the next time I went, it happened when my right upper thigh was being massaged. I had put a towel down over the sheets so the clean up was easy this time. I know some of the posts on this topic have been sexual in nature, I but I can assure you I was in no way turned on by either massage. I hope this post helps, I am glad I found some honest comments about this issue.
more clarification

Madison, WI

#332 Jan 1, 2009
BTR, I like you have often wondered of the physiology of this happening? Is there a trigger point in this area? Is it something the massage therapist know they can cause? Did you return to the same therapist after it happened the first time?
Tommy

West Brookfield, MA

#333 Jan 2, 2009
I have already told in this thread that yes there are true trigger points, and there is also energies that can take place called Reiki which can allow for ejaculation during a massage. I really think everyone just needs to take a chill pill.
Who Cares

United States

#334 Jan 2, 2009
I have taken an informal poll about ejaculation. Of the 25 MTs I polled, only 2 had anyone ejaculate on their sheets. Both stated that the male patient was busy humping the table, they both stopped the massage and demanded that the person leave.

I implore you guys to quit dragging the massage profession through the mud. There is NO magic word to get a happy ending, that is NOT what I agreed to do when I became a licensed and certified MT.

If you are truly worried about ejaculating during a massage, then you have deeper issues that need to be addressed. I have yet to meet any legitimate MT who has had anyone unvoluntarily ejaculated during a massage.

If you want a hooker to pretend to massage you, fine by me, just don't call it legitimate massage PLEASE.
more clarification

Madison, WI

#335 Jan 2, 2009
Tommy, if there are true trigger points that can an ejaculation and massage therapist know this. Then why would they massage those areas? You say this can also happen during Reiki?
Tommy

Worcester, MA

#336 Jan 3, 2009
more clarification wrote:
Tommy, if there are true trigger points that can an ejaculation and massage therapist know this. Then why would they massage those areas? You say this can also happen during Reiki?
You pay for a massage right, if your paying for a massage you most likely expect your legs and your back to be massaged right. How would you feel if you were getting a massage and the only thing they massaged was your hands. Even your feet can cause you to ejaculate. It really has nothing to do with sex or sexuality or anything like this, but it has everything to do with trigger points and the type of massage your getting. Read up on reiki and trigger point massage. Do you know that if someone is massaging your feet they can cause your arms or hands or another part of your body to move involuntarily as well.

You guys should read about it. There are real articles regarding this on the net if you search you should be able to find some.
viking dude new jersey

Centerville, IN

#337 Jan 3, 2009
I've read the threads, so sorry for just barging in, but I thought I had to share an experience I had some 3 years ago.
After a delightful massage, my mt (who was a medium-attractive lady in her mid fifties) asked if I wanted to finish with 'reiki' which was completely novel to me at the time.
I am usually a skeptic to such techniques, but I remember being transported to a very vibrant place of peace and serenity. I felt warmth (I was covered with a sheet) streaming through my midsection at some point (lying on my back) and a very weird feeling of warm water slushing back and forth through my body. Never did I realize what had actually happened, but I had discharged an amazing amount of precum - not ejaculate, but a whole lot of clear sticky fluid in the process, so my stomach and lower chest were literally covered in the stuff.
I wasn't really embarrassed, as I was under the feeling that my 'reiki master' knew exactly what she was doing. Hasn't happened since, but this was a delightful experience.

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