Anyone ever heard of this type of mas...

Anyone ever heard of this type of massage?

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Kevin

Mount Laurel, NJ

#1 Jan 21, 2007
I am looking into scheduling a massage and have to settle for a male since he is the only one that I could find to do in home massage, as I have never had a massage before, it would just be more comfortable getting undressed in my own home.

Anyway he was talking about "Lingam" massage, and I looked it up and read about it online, and it seems relaxing although maybe a little awkward with another male. I am thinking of doing it anyway. Anyone ever heard of this?
Glen

Abbotsford, Canada

#2 Jan 22, 2007
Calling this a "lingam" massage seems a little pretentious, but euphemisms aside, it is common as can be. He may give a great massage or he may give a lousy one. In my experience, whether or not he massages your lingam (I believe this is an Indian word for penis; if I'm wrong, I'm sure I'll be corrected here) is not a good indicator of the quality of the experience. If you decide to go ahead with that, it colors the whole massage as you anticipate the grand finale the entire time you are on the table.

My suggestion: try a regular massage, with someone whose ad emphasises "therapeutic" or "non-sexual." If you choose a woman practitioner she will not see you undress and will keep your genitals well covered the whole time. And if you feel awkward because you might get hard, wear a tight bathing suit so you know if you start to get an erection it will be well contained.

Then, if you're curious about a similar experience, except that you end up face up on a table, completely naked, while a man massages your genitals, complete with messy ejaculation, then sign up for the Lingam massage too.
Kevin

Bayonne, NJ

#3 Jan 22, 2007
Glen,

Thank you very much. I see your points very well. I thought it seems like it would feel very nice to have a massage on my "Lingam", but by another male touching and stroking it, it seems a bit odd. I still think it seems like an experience worth at least trying once. I don't think ejaculation is necessary in this massage as he was explaining it, but I would think it may be good after so much stimulation the whole time if it happened. Again it would be very different being it is a male therapist.
Thanks again for your great input.
Glen

Abbotsford, Canada

#4 Jan 26, 2007
It's great you're giving this such thought and communicating with your practitioner. I wanted to add two things; you can tell him that you want to try his massage but decide at the end whether you want the full genital massage. You might say, for example, "I'd rather have my genitals covered during the massage, but if I decide I want you to work on the lingam, I'll remove the towel." Alternatively, you could ask him to work around the penis but not on it directly. A massage in the groin, especially the space between your balls and anus, and on the pubic bone between the abdomen and penis, is relaxing, therapeutic, and sensual. You can also masturbate yourself during or after.

Either way, I hope you'll let us know how it turns out.
Kevin

Mount Laurel, NJ

#5 Jan 28, 2007
Hi Glen,

Thank you for your interest, support and advice in my matter.

I went to the therapist, and had the massage already. I felt kind of odd when he asked me to undress in front of him, and lay on the table without any kind of covering. I was just laying there nude. I couldn't stop an erection from happening while i was undressing, so I climbed on the table with an erection already really hard. It was very odd and embarrassing, yet exciting to say the least since this was a male, and so am I.

I was nervous waiting to see what would happen, and he started massaging my inner thigh area. Then he put oil on his hands and massaged my testicles one at a time with both his hands real gentle, and that was a really nice feeling, but when he first touched them, I felt all kinds of ways about it.

Well then he poured warm oil on my penis and started to do long pulling strokes on my erection. One hand at a time. He did it for a while andit was driving me crazy actually with the way it stimulated and excited me. I liked it though, then he did a pushing stroke back tord the base for a while.

Then he started to massage the area you mentioned, between the testicles and anus with one hand, and slipped his oiled finger into my anus several time the whole time, while he was massaging my penis with his other hand. It was pretty amazing the way it felt.

I orgasmed once and it was powerful and I never seen it squirt so far. He said to rest a minute while he prepared for the rest of the massage. I thought it was done, but he did the same thing and I orgasmed again, but a smaller ejaculation that time.

It was really great, and I will definitely be doing it again sometime.
Glen

Abbotsford, Canada

#6 Jan 28, 2007
Wow! You really got the full treatment. The powerful ejaculation effect is something I get too. One question: did he massage the prostate? I've been tempted to try this, but I've been a little nervous about actually being penetrated that far.
Kevin

Mount Laurel, NJ

#7 Jan 28, 2007
Glen,

I suppose he did, because sometimes his finger(s) seemed way inside me, and he would keep it inside for brief periods moving it around very briefly and gently at times.

It was an amazing experience, and it still feels strange that I enjoyed him doing it, but who cares? LOL
Danny

Bluefield, WV

#8 Jan 30, 2007
Kevin and Glen,
Where can you find somebody to do the massage? Do regular parlors offer the treatment? I've been very curious about the whole thing and might schedule an appointment. BTW, how many times did you com? What does it feel like?
Danny

Bluefield, WV

#9 Jan 30, 2007
Does the giver become excited, too? BTW, is the massage basically a hand job?
Kevin

Mount Laurel, NJ

#10 Jan 30, 2007
Danny,

I found this therapist while searching and emailing different ones who advertised online. I don't think a lot of the mainstream therapists offer it.
I orgasmed twice, and it was amazing, because itis basically a good teasing then great stimulation to orgasm. It s more than a handjob, it is a lot of foreplay, and a handjob with stimulation anally and elsewhere simultaneously with the other hand.

I don't know if was aroused too,I would imaginehe possibly was.
Glen

Abbotsford, Canada

#11 Jan 30, 2007
I was talking about this exchange with a massage provider I know who made an interesting point. He puts an ad in a gay newspaper and an alternative weekly paper. People that respond to the ad in the gay paper are looking for relaxing massage without the genital work. But most people that answer the ads in the regular paper make it clear that they are hoping for the 'full release' as he discretely put it. Straight guys, he says, find this whole thing more exciting than gays.

So where to find this type of massage? If you insist on a female practitioner, you go to a massage parlour. Any that has late night hours, advertises services like 'body shampoo' and generally looks a little seedy will do. Be prepared to pay up.

If you want a male, look for ads in the newspaper or craigslist. If you're not sure what type of massage it is, you can either ask or just go and find out. Just be respectful if he doesn't offer what you're looking for.

As far as your other questions: How many times? I've never come more than once per session. What does it feel like? Well, when I go I have 55 mins. of relaxation massage, from head to toe, and it feels great. For me, work on the back is relaxing, putting me in an almost sleeplike state. Work on the legs is invigorating. The chest and abdomen is more emotional to me. Any work close to the genitals excites me.

Which gets to the last 5 mins., the genital massage. Kevin offered up a great description of the one he got; I don't have much to ad. He mentioned the big 'squirt' and I do that too, right to the upper chest.
Glen

Abbotsford, Canada

#12 Jan 30, 2007
Oh yeah, was the provider excited? I agree with Kevin, probably somewhat. I've had this kind of massage from a new-agey type that worked in the nude and was not visibly excited. I've also had providers brush what felt like erection across my hand in an inviting way. The very old massage guy at a gym in South American told me that he's been doing this for 40 years and never gets tired of watching his clients get erections.

I try and communicate that I'm not looking for anything more than the massage. If it's important to you that he be hard, you should get an escort, not a massage.
Danny

Bluefield, WV

#13 Jan 31, 2007
Glen and Kevin,
Your com shot all the way to the chest? Wow!!! This must be some massage!!! I've never shot farther than my stomach! How far did you shoot, Kevin?

Don't get the wrong idea. I'm a straight man. If the giver has an erection, I don't mind at all, and it doesn't excite me in the least. Actually, I would prefer it that he be at least partially dressed while massaging me, but it's his call.

What kind of strokes does the giver do to the penis? Like, what is the procedure? Also, I heard that this massage is to enhance your sexuality, and you're supposed to keep from cumming until the 7th time. What if you can't hold out that long? I know I can't. Does it ruin the experience?

Also, Glen, you mentioned that you com only once per session. Do you hold back several times right before cumming? What about you, Kevin?

BTW, I meant to put this in my earlier post. When I am about to com, I can't help but make a decent amount of noise. Does this offend the masseur?
Danny

Bluefield, WV

#14 Jan 31, 2007
Glen and Kevin,
I found a local masseur who actually specializes in the Lingam Massage. I talked with him about the procedure, and his technique is a bit different.

He focuses more on the tip of the penis, where urined passes out of the body. He doesn't focus as much on the anus as he does the front of the body.

He first massages the entire body, first the back, legs, feet, arms, shoulders, hands, etc.

He then haves his client turn over and remove the towel (he drapes the client while on his stomach), exposing the genital area. He first massages the torso and front side of the legs. He doesn't massage the inner thighs, but immediately begins massaging the penis and testicles. While doing this with one hand, he massages the chest, stomach and especially nipples. He said this was very stimulating.

He boasted that he is skilled in making a man cum at least three times in one session. He didn't mention how long the session was, but I would imagine it would be very long, given that the receiver has to cum three times!

Glen, do you have a set schedule for your massages? Kevin, have you had more than one session? If so, what is the greatest amount of times you've cum during a session?
Danny

Bluefield, WV

#15 Jan 31, 2007
Kevin and Glen,
I went ahead and booked an appointment for this afternoon! He had an opening!!! I am very excited about it! I am so curious and nervous about what is going to happen, though.

Glen, you mentioned earlier that you can get an accustomed massage and that you added two things. What were they?
Danny

Bluefield, WV

#16 Jan 31, 2007
Kevin and Glen,
Kevin, you mentioned that he drove you crazy the way he was stroking you. What exactly did he do that was so arousing? What about you, Glen? What excited you the most in the massage?
Danny

Bluefield, WV

#17 Feb 1, 2007
Kevin and Glen,
The masseur had to cancel for yesterday afternoon, and he won't be free for a few days. Just keeping you updated!
Glen

Abbotsford, Canada

#18 Feb 1, 2007
Danny,

You've got so many questions it's hard to say where to start. But first off, I don't think there is any standard method. Most massage schools don't teach this stuff; I know of only one, in California, called Body Electric ( bodyelectric.org ) that does.

Personally, I've had this type of massage from probably 20 different practitioners, over more than 20 years. More than half have been male. I still remember the first time with a male practitioner. It was in the 80s, in San Francisco, and I signed up for a Lomi Lomi massage in a spa. I was quite properly draped, but at one point I was on my back he started moving my leg around supporting it with a hand on the inside of the thigh. As he made circular motions with the leg his hand brushed my balls, and I got an super erection that stayed that way for the rest of the massage. The sheet was becoming soaked through with precum. He never did uncover me. At the end of the massage, he massaged the center of my chest with one hand while applying rhthmic downward pressure, over the sheet, to the back of the penis. I came in about 4 seconds, and the orgasm was incredibly intense. He cleaned me up after (the first time I was uncovered) and made it clear that he really enjoyed doing it. And that's when I realized what type of massage I liked.

I kept going occasionally to massage parlors, but with females, I found I was get lousy massages and paying too much; it felt like prostitution. For some reason, I don't get that feeling with male practitioners, maybe because I do suspect they find it exciting. I've never paid a surcharge for "extra" with a male practitioner. My regular guy charges $45 an hour.

... to be contined
Glen

Abbotsford, Canada

#19 Feb 1, 2007
Danny,

It sounds like the guy you signed up with is into tantric teachings. These practitioners tend to focus on control over ejaculation. I had my first one of these last year, and I found it frankly weird. About half the massage was straight relaxation swedish massage. The therapist said he prefered to be nude because of "shared energies" blah blah blah. The second half of the massage was the tantric part, in which he urged me to focus on breathing exercises to stop the momentum toward ejaculating. This whole time, he was massaging the back of the scrotum and the perianal region while stroking the penis. This combination is very exciting, but I could generally keep from coming with breath control; a couple of times I had to signal him to stop. He asked if I wanted anal massage but I said no; I think because I felt weird that he was naked. He was never hard, but at times his penis was less than a foot from my face. Normally I find the combination of gently massaging the anus (but not entering it) and stroking the penis the most exciting possible experience.

The funny thing was after half an hour of learning to stop yourself from coming, it didn't build up to an awesome climax. By that time, I had to concentrate to be able to finish. The actual ejaculation was just a regular dribble, not the canon shot that can occur.

Good luck with your massage, and let us know how it turns out.

Danny, it sound
Danny

Bluefield, WV

#20 Feb 1, 2007
Glen,

Thank you so much for all the answers to my questions.

I feel the same about a woman performing the massage. I'm glad I scheduled for a man to do it.

By the way, I rescheduled the massage, and his appointment for today had to cancel, so in fact I'm heading out the door right now to get the massage! I'll let you know how it went when I get back.

Thanks for your encouragement!

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