Man, I know the feeling. Gotta say this. I've got one of our four feeders hanging about four feet in front of my "rest chair" on the wood shop porch. The other day the General flashed to the feeder, changed his mind and hovered right in front of my face for a spell and then went back to eat. I was probably gotch eyed looking at him, he was so close. I kept wondering what that was all about, then I remembered that I had a red sweat rag tied around my head. I'd sure like to catch one of them without hurting it.
The Birds and Blooms magazine has had articles about hummers landing on the fingers. Hmmm, it was the hummers, wasnt it? Obviously a person has to be very patient and spend a lot of time sitting around the feeders. Maybe if you tie a small red bandana around your finger...be sure to let us know if one does decide to sit a spell with you!