******** W KY Girl wrote: <quoted text> There are so many dead-beat dads, so many that were nothing but sperm doners. I have a couple nephews who have grown up without their dads in their lives and it is really heartbreaking. It would have meant the world to those boys if some man had of stepped up to the plate and just been a friend to them. You ought to think about it. I have wished a million times that men in the church would do that. No it's not your problem. Like a lot of men, you have already raised your own.********<quoted text>
I wonder which "saint" wrote this having no knowledge of my activities as a sperm donor or otherwise as a BIG BROTHER?.
"No it is not your problem. Like a lot of men, you have aready raised your own".
JUDGE NOT LEST YE BE JUDGED". and yes, I did write the above post.
@AW, Yes I remember writing that post but that is not the complete message. I don't see how you took that sentence wrong. It was just a statement. It was not in any way meant as disrespectful to you or as judging you in any way. You said you had been married 40 something years and had two sons. I assume you did raise your own kids. There are a lot of men who don't take any part in raising their own kids and I hate that because of what it does to the kids! But for those who have raised their own kids, SOME don't want to take any part in helping out other kids who don't have a dad (or mom) in their life. I was not saying that YOU don't or haven't. How could I when I don't even know you? And no a kid who has no dad is not really the problem of a man who did raise his own kids. But it is wonderful that SOME MEN will step up and help those fatherless kids. I wish more men would do that. As I said, I don't know how you took that sentence wrong and I'm sorry you did BUT I'm sure you will believe what you want to. If I am going to disrespect somebody I am a whole lot more straight to the point than that!
And, if you think that I come across or even TRY to come across as a "saint"... please clean your glasses. lol I do make "somewhat" of an effort to do/live right but I stink it up very badly very regularly. That is why I have a Savior.