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Florence, KY

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#21
Jan 11, 2013
 
was it drugs, or was she just in the wrong place at the wrong time?? I wonder what her "old ways" are...
she is doing well..I think...still trying to figure her out...She is a smart lady, not living up to her potential, though. I can see why she wants to hide from her past.
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Radcliff, KY

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#22
Jan 11, 2013
 
She was in Pee Wee because she was strung out on drugs and made decisions that affected a lot of people. She decided that it was ok for her to take advantage of an elderly woman and practically rob her blind. She then thought that it was her husband's place to bail her out. He ended up repaying all that she had taken from the old lady while he went to jail. I am like "old friend" I would like to find out where she is too. She can't hide out forever. She owes way to much to people. Hell her own family won't have nothing to do with her. Ha some lady! By the way, it don't have nothing to do with her being with a black man.....she was like this before she ever even met me. She is out for one person and one person only....that is her! She will take you for whatever you have so that she can get what SHE wants. Anyone who is friends with her be very leery of her and her motives.
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#23
Jan 11, 2013
 
Thank you, I know....I have been seeing it, and it makes me really sad for her and all involved, I have been kind to her, and I am broke, but my kindness has seemed to be taken advantage of, it seems she wants to do better, but wonder if she might be back to her old ways...please tell me what drugs you may think she is doing , or used to do?? I have a guess...and she is really skinny
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Florence, KY

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#24
Jan 11, 2013
 
I don't believe all Black men are bad, she must of Loved him, or thought she did...he probably is not so bad, if he wanted to make restitution to the old lady, he must not be so bad. She has made bad decisions, and she misses her family, for sure...the sadness may push her into bad habits. I wish she would get counseling, before she gets in trouble again...it seems she wants to try, to change things...but ...you know...
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#25
Jan 11, 2013
 
also, she let it slip, she had been in nursing, but changed it to working for a dentist...so I assume she did this while in nursing...still want to know what type of drugs she used to do..so i'll be able to tell, if this might be what she is either doing, or close to doing now.
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Lexington, KY

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#26
Jan 11, 2013
 
Im tellin ya.. ALL black men are bad. There's not 1 single good one.
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Florence, KY

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#27
Jan 11, 2013
 
I would not know. But she made her own bad decisions...evidently...on her own.
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Lexington, KY

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#28
Jan 11, 2013
 
They are. He's right. None of them are any good.
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#29
Jan 11, 2013
 

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I'm that way about dating latinos's..did it 2 times..and all bad...lol, now back to Kathy...lol
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Radcliff, KY

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#30
Jan 11, 2013
 
Ok I have a confession. I am "old friend" and "I know". Sorry to have made you believe differently. I have been looking for Kathy for some time now. I am married to her former husband. So I know for a fact that he couldn't have been anything but kind and respectful of her. If she says differently then she is a liar. I have heard so much of what she is and how she is. Not just from him but from others in the town we live in. I have read letters that she wrote to him while in prison talking about all the horrible things that she did while they were married. It all revolved around drugs and scheming for money. She caused her then husband to lose his job and lose respect from others. People that once trusted him no longer did once they found out about the things that she had done. My husband is a loving, caring person who would give you the last thing he had if he thought that you needed it more than he did. The reason I have been looking for her is because an attorney told us if we could locate her then we could sue her for what she has done to my husband. His credit is shot and to this day, creditors are harassing him for things that she has been delinquent on paying. When she was arrested in 2001 for stealing from the elderly lady, the way she had done it was to have the lady hold checks for her that were in his name, not hers. She is so sneaky and conniving that apparently she can convince anyone of anything. We feel like we must make her pay for what she is doing. She has taken away from our children in order to feed a drug habit and we have paid our last thing for her. We just received another letter in the mail the other day about a collection against him. We have never in the 11 years that we have been together had credit through these people and when I called they thought I was Kathy Cassady....his wife!
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Florence, KY

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#31
Jan 11, 2013
 
she mentioned he was abusive, so what kind of drugs did she do??
I know she has nothing....no money...no nothing, nothing to sue for...I can't imagine, what you all are going thru...it may have to be resolved w/ bankruptcy, you can't get blood from a turnip...for sure. She seems ok, like she has changed, but I have caught her in a few lies...and from what I am gathering she is in a downward spiral...right now...
what did he tell you was the drug of choice?? Was that what caused her to write those checks?? needing drugs?? Te plot thickens...
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Radcliff, KY

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#32
Jan 11, 2013
 
I assure he wasn't abusive. It may be more of a lesson than getting any money out of her. I want her to know how this feels.

She was into really into pain pills bad! There was also a lot of cocaine, marijuana and meth use.

And yes the checks were all about needing drugs. She was spending quite a bit of money on drugs.
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#33
Jan 11, 2013
 
Did you tell her that this was on here?
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Florence, KY

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#34
Jan 11, 2013
 
no, have not seen her around today...I was wondering about meth?? did she do it alot?? what symptoms did she show...when using?? Is she on parole or anything?? drug tested?? anything??
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Florence, KY

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#35
Jan 11, 2013
 
she seems to have alot of sinus trouble...I have noticed..
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Florence, KY

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#36
Jan 11, 2013
 
You both, if you plan on salvaging your names...if bankruptcy is not an option...or maybe chap. 13, where you can release most of the debt, you may think about lifelock, to protect yourself....it is nice you have each other and have moved on...or are trying to. Drugs are a terrible thing, and it happens so often to people...and they destroy their lives. I am kinda pulling back a bit, from her...since finding out some of these things, I am gullable...and niave sometimes, and I try to see good in people, and I can not afford to have any Drama in my life..right now. I have tried to give her the benefit, bet some things were not adding up...sad..drugs are evil !
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Florence, KY

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#37
Jan 11, 2013
 
it is me..I messed up my name..lol, going to bed, pls let me know what the signs of her meth use were...or coke..or pain pills..so I can see if I notice when I see her...
Sleep well, keep praying for peace..on all of it.
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#38
Jan 11, 2013
 
When I met my husband and we moved in together he still had most of her clothes since she had been sent off to prison. Her clothes were little girl clothing sizes. She was really down small. I saw her in court once and she looked really fragile. She also looked really old for her age at that time. I don't doubt that she has sinus trouble with all the stuff she snorted up her nose.

I am sorry to get you involved with this even though I do not know you. I am glad that you have seen some of this stuff for yourself before you get in over your head. Drugs are a horrible things and do many things to people that they may not expect to happen. Please don't allow her to use you and get you involved in her dealings of any sort.
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Florence, KY

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#39
Jan 11, 2013
 
I am so glad I lucked into this post, she owes me a small amount of money...very small....so if that is all it cost me, I am lucky...it told me something about her, when she did not pay me back...about who she really is.
she burnt her hands...that was a clue...
I'll be more careful for sure.
I'll keep an eye on this post, and if I can find anything out, i'll let you know.
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Florence, KY

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#40
Jan 12, 2013
 
You really sound like a kind, genuine person, i am sorry you two have to go thru this.
I feel like everyone can change...and people deserve 2nd chances, as we get older, we realize...what we have done to people, and how we hurt them...in the past. I believe she is learning that, I kind of feel she feels like she is a prisoner in life, and not just in a cell. Very sad, but I am glad you have met your husband, and given him a chance to have a good marriage, and to try to heal from that damage, she did, I will not let her get me, I have a soft heart...but I'm also paranoid and fearful of what people can do. It could end up..another one bites the dust...for her, we do not know, yet. You two..need to be happy, and keep positive, and try to keep your chins up :)

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