Being gay isn't a "lifestyle", of course, and no Christian can "obtain" from it is they were born as a gay person, they can only abstain from acting on their God-given desires...... Some peoples faith requires an abstinence of certain lifestyles homosexuality is the bacon of christianity. No need to call people ridiculous names who dont agree yet love to cry when called faggots and fruit cakes.
And that's fine.
The people who are called names are those that strive to harm gay people and their families, out of hate, ignorance, and yes, misplaced religious fervor.
Are you saying that gay people should just accept such harm as a matter of course, and stay silent?