true. thank you for correcting him before I did. he's always throwing sh!t out there to see what sticks so don't pay him no mind. I swear so many trolls come in here talking trash about Somali people when they don't know anything about us. And that's where they fail.<quoted text>
The not working out part is the only true thing I see. Cheating whores? I've never heard one single Somali woman who did this in my entire life. Greedy? Nope, I've seen men of little means with some (these were Somali men). The alimony scare doesn't apply to use since we don't do state marriages but Islamic marriages. My parents are divorced, nothing happened. Nothing was expected. We just lived our lives. In fact, I'm on bored to marry one when I grow up solely because I know I won't get screwed over in the end of the day.
As far as being westernized go. I think it's a big problem in our community. I know there is more westernized women than men but that's only because the western culture "benefits" women more. or at least that's what we are made to believe. It's a gender war in the west and i think men have to stand up for themselves and logical women have to talk to these crazy girls fall for the "feminism" movement. I believe in women rights and i will fight for them but i don't believe men and women should be "equal". That doesn't even make sense.
Anyways, I don't think most Somali women have a problem with Somali men going back. At least I don't. I live in MN now and I met plenty of good single Somali men. So it really doesn't matter if some of these men are going back home, there is still plenty of fish in the water.