I would argue we all live god filled lives; it just so happens, our gods are often times ourselves, our jobs, our money, our power etc...Face it, we ALL live godless lives, some folks just allow themselves to become deluded enough into pretending they have a god
To play devils adovcate, on what basis must I support equal rights for marriage? Your beliefs?.....How's this sound ? the day you can prove this god exists outside of the pages of a story book, will be the day you can say we will all give an account for how you lived your life. Until then, why not try and support equal rights equally for everyone because aside from your biblical arguments about homosexuality I have yet to hear a valid argument as to why two consenting adults who are in love , cannot be legally married.