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This is an old article but some in BV would support this 100%.What I want to know why the AP would have run this story? http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2007-08-05-interracial-dating_N.htm?loc=interstitialskip Whitney and Roslyn Holcomb say a prayer before dinner with their 3-year-old son, Luke, Thursday, July 26, 2007 at their home in ...

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Frank

Southfield, MI

#63 Apr 5, 2010
http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/serial_kil...

Gary Heidnik: To Hell and Back

Sick Trick

Excerpt: "For Josefina, November 26, 1986 was a night that she will never forget. Angry after a fight with her boyfriend, she left their apartment in a slum area in north Philadelphia to go to work.

Braving rain and bitter cold, she noticed a silver and white Cadillac Coupe De Ville drive slowly past her and stop. She moved closer as the driver's window slid down and a bearded man asked if she wanted a ride. He looked okay to her and she got into the car.

The man introduced himself as Gary and told her he had to make a stop; Josefina, agreed and shortly after they pulled into a nearby McDonald's. She followed him as he went inside and bought coffee and sat with him as he drank it. With a quick appraisal borne of experience, Josefina studied her new companion. He was white, his face framed by a neatly trimmed beard below cold, blue penetrating eyes. Although he wore an expensive watch and jewelry and drove a luxury car, she noticed that his clothes were cheap and soiled. Grasping for things to say, she again asked him his name. "Gary Heidnik," he said sullenly. Several minutes later, he finished his coffee and told her they were leaving. When she asked where they were going, he told her they were going to his house.

They drove to a dilapidated house in a seedy neighborhood. Josefina couldn't help but notice another car parked in front of them; it was a 1971 Rolls Royce. He clearly had some money.

They drove to a dilapidated house in a seedy neighborhood. Josefina couldn't help but notice another car parked in front of them; it was a 1971 Rolls Royce. He clearly had some money.

When they reached the door, Heidnik pulled out a strange key and pushed it into the lock. When Josefina remarked about it, he explained that he had cut the key into two pieces, half of which stayed in the lock preventing anyone but him from entering. The door opened into a kitchen, which was decorated by pennies that had been glued to half of its walls. Heidnik led her to a living room with sparse, aging furniture. He offered to show her around and led her up a narrow staircase. As she reached the door of his bedroom, she couldn't believe her eyes, the hallway directly in front of it had been partially covered with one and five dollar bills.

Suddenly, Heidnik stepped behind her and began choking her with his hands. He released his grip but instead of letting her go, he pulled her arms behind her and handcuffed her wrists. He then led to a cold, damp basement room.

Heidnik dragged her to a dirty mattress, attached metal clamps to her ankles and connected them to one end of a chain. He then applied glue to the clamps and dried them with a hair dryer. The other end he fastened around a large pipe that was attached to the ceiling. When he had finished, he told her to sit up and promptly laid his head in her lap and went to sleep. When Josefina awoke there was enough daylight to see the small room that was her prison.

In the center of the room, a small area of concrete had been removed and a shallow pit had been dug into the ground underneath. When Heidnik returned, he set to work to widen and deepen the hole.

As she watched him working, he told her that all he had ever wanted was a large family and to that end had already fathered four children to four separate women but had lost contact with them for various reasons. He told Josefina that his plan was to get ten women and make all of them pregnant so he could raise his family. Then, to demonstrate his intent, he raped her."
Frank

Southfield, MI

#64 Apr 5, 2010
Gary Heidnik conuinued:

"...Left alone a second time, Josefina loosened one of the ankle clamps and, after prying the covers from the window, stretched the chain to its full length and lifted herself halfway out of the window. Unable to escape fully, she screamed, hoping that a neighbor would come to her aid. Unfortunately, only Heidnik responded to her cries.

He pulled her back inside the basement and beat her with a stick until she quieted down. Then, pushing her down into the tiny hole in the floor, he forced her head onto her chest and covered her with a piece of plywood and stacked heavy weights on top of it. To make sure that her screams didn't attract any outside attention, he set up a radio and tuned it to a hard rock station at maximum volume and left. As she lay half naked and cramped up in the freezing earth, Josefina struggled to breathe and waited to die."
Salt

United States

#65 Apr 5, 2010
Axel Rodam wrote:
I do not care about race, i do not hire thinking about race, i do not vote based on race.
Race is an outdated (for me) concept and I am not going to be a prisoner of non-relevent to me attributes.
What we have done in life is the only thing that matters to me.. and sexual attraction too... LOL :-)
If you place this on your lawn. It will help your flowers grow.
gogo

Nigeria

#66 Apr 5, 2010
praise the white master wrote:
<quoted text>
Permanent separation? Birthright? You [email protected] off back to Africa then sugar?
You're a woman, you'll do as your told, now make muh breakfast......
What was stolen from you?
The African right to die at birth?
The African right to die of disease?
The African right to die of starvation?
The African right to live in a mudhut?
The African right to the absence of healthcare?
The African right to eat other Africans?
The African right to murder and kill neighboring villages for being different?
The African right to kidnap and enslave other Africans?
Need I go on?
Fact is, no matter how put down you feel, your life is BETTER for you there because your ancestors had the good sense to take a free boat ride to America for a new life...and here you are disrespecting their efforts.
Honey, there are people in this world with REAL problems....back in Africa people are still starving, unless white charities feed them because their own governments wont. Back in Africa blacks are still being enslaved by blacks just like 140 years ago in the US....by descendants of the black African slavers who sent your ancestors to the US.
Are you really saying your life is that shit you would rather be back in a country like Zimbabwe?
It's about time you blackies realized that your being moved to the US was a good move. Back in Africa you'd all be dead by now or infected with some nasty disease....a black created one like AIDS :)
Take care cupcake...
Initilly i meant to ignore your silly comments but now i wish to just reach out and strangle you for such gross and pathetic generalisations. Its unforgiveable. U do realise u sound as though Africa was just one country u visited. All Africans died of disease, starvation, have AIDS eh because you jumped off some plane and landed in some remote village and didnt know the name all you just saw was black people? and i suppose it was for charitable purpose. Sincerely your comments are stupendous! but what do i expect from a smelly dog-birdy faced paedophile cracker like your type. Pssss!
Jate

Peterborough, Canada

#69 Apr 6, 2010
Martyr Machine wrote:
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Asian women are the most unattractive to me. No body, strange sense of fashion, preoccupied with money. F*** that.
No body? no Booty period
praise the white mastah

Reston, VA

#72 Apr 6, 2010
dragonpat wrote:
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thats a damned lie.
Hey sugar, would you want to lick my man cheese from my pasty, albino d!ck? You look like you need some....

“Two stones with one bird”

Since: Oct 09

The Compound

#73 Apr 6, 2010
Jate wrote:
<quoted text>No body? no Booty period
It is ridiculous. I lived in Asia almost 3 years and never dated an Asian chick.
clarissa

Erie, IL

#74 Apr 6, 2010
who cares love is love

“Wake up and live”

Since: May 09

Location hidden

#77 Apr 8, 2010
AMEN-RA wrote:
Africa is a continent that is true lol.Most serial killers,mass murderes,pedophiles,cannibalis m is done by caucasian people.We know 90% of serial killers are caucasian males.
serial killers: the real life hannibal lecters
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =5Yv8MmsdNd8XX&playnext_fr om=TL&videos=BC5C-mxWQsc
I cam go on about caucasian and disease like aids herpes, and so on put you get the point.
Serial killers are a minority in the realm of murder and violence. Yes, their crimes fascinate and horrify due to the psychological abnormality that they posses. Yet overall, that kind of murder is rare in the grand aspect of all murders. Why try to associate that with people who are 'white' when clearly most people, including 'white' people, would never do such a thing? I have seen violence in Africa, in places like Sierra Leone, where mobs of killers would terrorize the masses by raiding their communities and chopping of every body's hands or murdering them. These serial killers were doing these atrocious acts collectively as a group of sickos. This type of barbarism has been performed by many non'white' people in recent times and in the distant past; yet, I would never go around saying that collectively, a certain race is barbaric and behaves like vicious animals.

My point is stop trying to make people look evil based on something as arbitrary as their skin color. Evil is evil and it can take every form, color, etc.; just as love and beauty can also take every form, color, etc.

There is good and bad everywhere.

“Wake up and live”

Since: May 09

Location hidden

#78 Apr 8, 2010
AMEN-RA wrote:
Most... pedophiles... is done by caucasian people.
Maybe it is just most caucasian people come out about it and that is why you are falsly associating this to a people? It seems culturally 'white' people tend to talk about their problems more openly and/or publicly. In my life, ALL of my close 'black' friends have confessed privately to me about an uncle, stepfather, pastor, etc.. who interfered with them. Could this be just the friends I have? I don't think so. This horrific act of abusing children sexually happens everywhere. It is not subject to one 'race' over another. When I was in Trinidad, a neighbor's daughter wad raped by the elderly man next door. He was a 'black' man.
'Race' is not a determining factor of pedophilia.

“Two stones with one bird”

Since: Oct 09

The Compound

#79 Apr 8, 2010
AMEN-RA wrote:
Africa is a continent that is true lol.Most serial killers,mass murderes,pedophiles,cannibalis m is done by caucasian people.We know 90% of serial killers are caucasian males.
serial killers: the real life hannibal lecters
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =5Yv8MmsdNd8XX&playnext_fr om=TL&videos=BC5C-mxWQsc
I cam go on about caucasian and disease like aids herpes, and so on put you get the point.
You want me to post crime statistics? How's about unemployment? How's about STD stats? How's about incarceration stats? How's about income levels> Since you want to talk numbers, let's talk numbers.

“Obsidian Princess”

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#80 Apr 8, 2010
Martyr Machine wrote:
<quoted text>
You want me to post crime statistics? How's about unemployment? How's about STD stats? How's about incarceration stats? How's about income levels> Since you want to talk numbers, let's talk numbers.
you people kill me using "statistics" that are based on ratios to undermine a black persons arguement. the ratio saved the day for white people.

“Two stones with one bird”

Since: Oct 09

The Compound

#81 Apr 9, 2010
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>
you people kill me using "statistics" that are based on ratios to undermine a black persons arguement. the ratio saved the day for white people.
You clearly have no idea what you are talking about. You should have taken a stats class. Furthermore, you are inferring that math rules were created to undermine blacks. That is ridiculously funny!
kisses

Mississauga, Canada

#82 Apr 26, 2010
yessum wrote:
<quoted text>
I would like you to prove the lie therein?
Every word is right.
You jigs still harp on about slavery like you are still in chains...the only thing you are slaves to is your inferiority and victim culture.
People are still slaves in Africa today...they REALLY have issues..not the likes of you.
I laugh how you coons get all uppity sitting there with your welfare checks in a civilized country going on about how hard done by you all are..when people are really suffering....if you don't like living where you are [email protected] off back to the mother country and its diseases, cannibalism and lack of healthcare......oh and no welfare checks either..
Funny! that you mention so much about the blks on walfare..sorry other way around, I'm a social worker and I see alot more whites in the walfare office than blks..do ur reserach..there's alot of successful blks out there..
kisses

Mississauga, Canada

#83 Apr 27, 2010
Regis wrote:
<quoted text>
Black men and women are more likely to be infected with the HIV-AIDS virus than all other races and groups, according to the Center for Disease Control. www.cdc.gov
So having sex with a black man or black woman might be the start of a diseased life with HIV-AIDS. It isn't worth it to me.
Funny!! Because, just looked up the pie chart on how many blks are infected with HIV, n u know what whites were as high as blks. white males 40% blks males 41%..1 % different..wow!! what a big different..whites in gerenal 31% more than any other race beside blks which was 49%. again not a big different..no stop with ur low trash talk..
Liby

London, UK

#84 Apr 27, 2010
Martyr Machine wrote:
<quoted text>
Africa is a continent, not a country. Africa is a horrible place. Everything that person said about Africa is true.
The Africa that media show is a horrible place. I hevan't been there but I know many of my brothers and sisters who told me that everything over there is not exactly what the media want you to think about it.
Altough I am African I don't blame for saying such things cause I probably don't know more than you apart from TV content. But I think we need to rethink our stereotypes,seriously
Liby

London, UK

#85 Apr 27, 2010
gogo wrote:
<quoted text>
Initilly i meant to ignore your silly comments but now i wish to just reach out and strangle you for such gross and pathetic generalisations. Its unforgiveable. U do realise u sound as though Africa was just one country u visited. All Africans died of disease, starvation, have AIDS eh because you jumped off some plane and landed in some remote village and didnt know the name all you just saw was black people? and i suppose it was for charitable purpose. Sincerely your comments are stupendous! but what do i expect from a smelly dog-birdy faced paedophile cracker like your type. Pssss!
I'm with you brother
I have never set foot in Africa, my original home continent but I don't believe in GENERALISATION
I know FOR SURE that the media is a strong manipulative weapon
the reality of Africa can be known but by whoever has seen it in all of its aspects
whatever they are I am proud of my roots anyway

“think out of the box”

Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#86 Apr 27, 2010
Martyr Machine wrote:
<quoted text>
What do you mean by "how we've gone through so much?" Unless you are over 146 years old you weren't born into nor have you experienced slavery. Further, unless you were in civil rights riots in the early 60's you haven't "gone through" anything that any other race, including whites, have gone though.
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>
thats a damned lie.
Perhaps in the US but maybe not in a global sense. In the US, it was very clear where the slavery lines were drawn so there is very little that is truly debatable.

However, the perception that whites have never be oppressed - even in the United States is inaccurate. Plenty of white people have been had their hard times in the US - the Irish, the Italians and the Poles - especially when they first come over here.

In addition, it's also an important historical fact that the British were the first to bring slaves to the US Colonies - not the Americans. They were brought here to beef up production in farming, starting with tobacco growth, so the British had more assets to trade on and which to tax the Colonies.

I think what might have happened, too, is that the first black people to come to the Colonies came from the Islands - THEY were the ones who taught about growing sugar cane, rum production, etc. And, they came voluntarily.

When the Brits saw the level of production value, they jumped on it and began rum production - some of the first boats of slaves to come to the US AGAINST their will were traded for rum.

It's a horrific story of greed and inhumanity.

But, there are many parts of the world where whites are fully enslaved as well - although, I think almost all slavery, now, is very "underground" - but, where whites are most vulnerable to slavery is with their children.

People pay a lot of money for a little white sex slave in other parts of the world and, sadly, in our own country.

In US History, ultimately, no one holds the title of overcoming hardship more than the black population....with women nipping at their heels. With that I do not disagree - I just am not sure that I would say that blacks have been the most disenfranchised globally.

BTW, I am a white woman and one of my most favorite and one of the best men that I know and that I have in my life is a black man. He and I have had issues in the past (with other people's ignorance) but not too many. I think it bothers me more than it does him when it happens, too.

I have NO issue with interracial dating at all - one of my best college friends, who's black, married a white guy and they have 2 gorgeous children. She has caught more flack from the black, female community than he ever has from the white community.

I think there are bigger social and emotional issues with white women dating black men. That has been my experience.

“think out of the box”

Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#87 Apr 27, 2010
Liby wrote:
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The Africa that media show is a horrible place. I hevan't been there but I know many of my brothers and sisters who told me that everything over there is not exactly what the media want you to think about it.
Altough I am African I don't blame for saying such things cause I probably don't know more than you apart from TV content. But I think we need to rethink our stereotypes,seriously
Part of the problem is that people don't always remember that Africa is a CONTINENT - NOT a "country".....and, it hold MANY countries...SO many different cultures, languages, tribes and heritages and so on. FAR too many to be described in a sweeping statement.

But, most ignorant people use sweeping generalizations - and often, too.

... generalizing "Africans" is like saying "all Europeans", "all South Americans", etc......just downright stupid.

“Obsidian Princess”

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#88 Apr 27, 2010
Martyr Machine wrote:
<quoted text>
You clearly have no idea what you are talking about. You should have taken a stats class. Furthermore, you are inferring that math rules were created to undermine blacks. That is ridiculously funny!
statistics and ratios can be and are always manipulated. thought you knew this genius.

it is misleading to make people think black americans commit most of the crimes in america which is what the ratio did. black people-40 million; white people-200-300 hundred million.

so who would be committing the majority of the crimes in america?

this man told me that 67% of americas crime is committed by black people; does this make since? maybe to you.

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