DID you marry a Black man now MACEO?<quoted text>
Now, what does your husband do Brenda?
When it comes to black women and marriage, there are some dire statistics: studies have shown, as many as 70 percent of them are unmarried.
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#54 Oct 29, 2011
#55 Oct 29, 2011
MACEO PLEASE ..........PLEASE LEAVE THOSE NASTY FAT WHITE TRASH OFFICE SLUTS ALONE! LMAO
As much as you run after lowly White women and married an UGLY White woman why do you harass Black women?
PPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPLLLL LLLLLLLLLLLEASSSSSSSSSSSSSEEEE !!!!
i'M BEGGING YOU..........PLEASE LEAVE NASTY WHITE WOMEN ALONE
HE SAID HE'S TIRED OF BLACK MEN ALWAYS WITH NASTY LOOKING WHITE WOMEN AND UGLY LOOKING NON BLACK WOMEN!
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Please Please Please stop taking ugly Fat Nasty looking White women! lMAO
AS MUCH AS YOU CALL BLACK WOMEN SHE-BOONS, BYTCHES AND SLUTS WHY WHY WHY DO YOU CHASE AFTER FAT WHITE LOWLY OFFICE SLUTS?
#57 Oct 29, 2011
People shouldn't seek to date people based on their race in general. I've met plenty educated, successful and humble black men and plenty of pothead, spoiled, delusionally entitled white men to know.
#58 Oct 30, 2011
I LOVE all kinds of business. If you're hot, you're hot...why would race have anything to do with it?
#59 Oct 30, 2011
To be honest MACEO, a fraction of it is "Attitude". Let's be honest MACEO, just like "Marriage is for White People: How African American marriage decline hurts everybody by Ralph Richard Banks he points to the "FACTS" on Black men which don't look pretty.
1) Black men disrespect and use Black women
2) Don't take care of your children
4) Chronically unemployed
5) In prison many Black males have felonies.
6) Don't get married or make any commitments
7) Constantly engaged in concurrent affairs with multiples partners never committed to one person
8) Act personally irresponsible.
9) Black men feel that marrying White skin entitles them to higher status and privilege when their with White women.
10) Poor health and frequently pass around STDS because Black males rates of engaging in "concurrent relationships" are 10 times higher than all other races.
Banks notes that MOST Black men over 65% engage in concurrent relationships with multiple partners and don't want the responsibilities of a committed relationship only "Friends with Benefits". He also said that Black men say they want polygamous relationships when polygamy involved marrying and taking care of their partners and black males are unwilling.
Based on the above information MACEO its just not in the best interest of a quality Black woman who is attractive and has her act together to engage in men who have "so little to offer".
Not only in terms of support, income, best interest to engage with men who offer so little in terms of support and assets as well as engage in "high risk" behaviors that effect all parties!
I see and hear it often, Black men laugh about their escapades and really don't care how they treat women, even the book said that too especially black males who make good incomes.
Ralph Richard Banks said the more income a Black male makes the more likely-hood that he won't commit to anybody and engages in having multiple partners prefers to be "Perpetual Players" deceiving and manipulating women.
He said for "Black men who are in demand" which are "higher income, educated, attractive males" they can have their pick.
What Black men don't realize is "Quietly" and not so quietly; many attractive high quality Black women are also making the choices to date/marry which seems to be White males who are their preference.
As the blogs are saying and according to what I see my GF's and other women doing; they don't "Lower their standards or make any adjustments for Black men" they simply dismiss them "LIKE I DID" when my BF/partner didn't measure up!
Who has the time for BS from Black males?
“I Love My Life!”
Since: Nov 08
#61 Oct 31, 2011
You don't know me! Naive...Not at all. I just know what it up. We have been married for 23 years and have two wonderful children. He knows how to treat me, and I know how to treat him. We know what respect is in a relationship. Your opinion means nothing. Actually, you are sort of funny.
#63 Oct 31, 2011
You're an intelligent woman.
Your husband is blessed!
“I Love My Life!”
Since: Nov 08
#64 Oct 31, 2011
He's not a cheater either. You still are funny!
“The sun also rises”
Since: Mar 11
#65 Oct 31, 2011
Wow you're a classy piece of sh!t.Making assumptions based on your
illiterate racist ramblings about somebody you don't even know.Your
worse than white trash.Boy
#66 Oct 31, 2011
Good for you! When MACEO refers to "Submissive" most Black men mean to "Control a woman" since they don't have any power. Controlling a woman most times can lead to abuse or physical punishment where is extremely high in the Black community.
I'm very leary of any Black males talking about "Submission" because the Bible talks of it as being equals but most "Low Self Esteemed Black males like MACEO it means "Do as I say" while he cheats, runs to adultery and looks out solely for himself.
I kinda feel bad for his former White wife as he was so selfish and self centered that he wouldn't even have children with her. He told her to give up that dream.
Women need to stop listen to "Dumb Males" that don't know how to "Lead" less you end up like MACEO"s former ex White wife -broke, he disrespected her and she was able to conceive any children!
The best asset a woman has is using her "Common sense". If the man doesn't show any "Leadership abilities" before the marriage; then you can't submit to a "FOOL".
Ive seen plenty of "controlling Black males" lead naive, dumb, Black women who are so desperate for a Black man; he takes that woman's life off a "cliff" because she was obedient!
Ive seen it too many times! If the man is a good leader and makes good decisions then you will naturally respect him; but when a man continues to make "Poor decisions" which affect you and him similar to a MACEO you need to cut your losses!
Many Black men lead Black women off the "Cliff" with the submissive BS because "Real Men" don't just look out for there interest alone. Most Black males like MACEO are selfish, self centered need to control a woman, which comes from his low self esteem!!
That type of Black man can "Kiss my Arse"!
I have absolutely "No respect" for him! Why would I turn over my life or submit to a Black man that "ran to adultery, cheated on his White wife with office sluts, habitual liar, deceitful, sneaky, runs to strife and contention"? Why would I submit to a Black man that doesn't have his own life together? That's simple "common sense"!
Some Black women need to "Wake up" and stop accept these fools "AS IS"! What's wrong with learning from a man's history, former actions.......you can learn a lot! MACEO not only disrespected his wife; but she doesn't have anything to show for her time with him other than his "Disrespect"
Why would you "Submit to a Fool of this calibre"?
Maybe if more black women began asking about a man's history; you wouldn't be getting these "No Good Black Men" who are plentiful in the Black race.
Just a man on his character, integrity and morals first, Check his background because if he ran to adultery, cheated his ex-wife; he' cheat you too in many areas!
Stop submitting to "Boys" who have no idea what being a man is!
#67 Oct 31, 2011
#71 Nov 1, 2011
Stop being a damn HYPOCRITE!
You've never made any commitments to anybody but yourself for the last 30 years, I don't see you looking out for anybody but YOU AND YOUR PHALLUS!
Your the "Predator Perpetual Player" that Ralph Richard Banks describes in "Marriage is for White People: how the the Decline in Black marriage effects everybody".
Your the Black male that he described as a predator that only wants "Friends with benefits relationships" you go from "Vagina to Vagina " decade after decade and maybe you'll fizzy out in your late 50's or 60's trying to secure someone! Your consumed with bragging to your "Hommies" on your Sexual conquests while watching sports and drinks. I personally don't know too many "Quality women" that want someone who's being going from "Vagina to Vagina" for almost 30 years of their lives.
I had one attractive BW up in Maryland that asked me about a man with a similar lifestyle as yourself. She was not only very attractive had couple of daughters ; one who runs track......She asked me about that man's character. I summed it up!!! "Nice person but most definitely a PLAYER" !!!
Before you come my way, go consult those Trifling Arse Black men around you who are so willing to date/marry White women and do for them while they put Black women down for their accomplishments. They even put down Black women who support Black males after those same men turn on Black women!
Some of you Black males are so "DUMB"your screaming about Attractive, quality, desirable Black women dating/marrying White males; when 85% of you haven't done a damn thing for a Black woman including family members.
If you want to whine, Please talk to those Black men like the "monks" around you who invested anywhere from 20-35 years chasing after the White man's daughters while they complain about why Black women can't handle raising Black children alone and don't have White skin!! You make yourselves look like fools in the media! You haven't done a damn thing for your communities but you lift up and elevate the White man's daughters and then cry "Racism"? LMAO You leave Black women to fend for themselves and your children and say their "ugly" when most of them raised you alone without a penny from your Fathers.
The blogs are taking about the "Mass Exodus of Quality Desirable Educated Black women" moving on to White males, I think its true because I'm seeing it. Attractive, quality, attractive, Non Ghetto Black women have "options" if they choose to exercise their options.
Everybody knows its hard to find a Quality Good Black man in the race there almost "Non existent" these days!
So why stick around when the investment doesn't pay off? Even the author, Ralph Richards Banks said he told his daughter to date/marry out and that she better not settle for any "Man" who can't offer her a future as it takes the "Entire race down" when you do!
The decline in marriage has been contributed to many factors. Black males IR dating/marriage, Prison, No education, chronic unemployment, poor heath(STDS) and collective disrespect for Black women.
Sorry, its simply time to "Bail out' on the Black males. You made those decisions without any thought or regards to the consequences, so "That's not my problem, its YOURS"!
Like many black women say these days; it doesn't pay to invest in Black males; they take what you put in them to "white woman/other races" and won't even do for their children.
It doesn't pay off being loyal to men that are not loyal to us! Its " Black Man Bail out" time for us to "move on" and look out for ourselves. Go find a foreign women or a White woman. Trust me it will get harder to find quality women to stick with Black males.
#74 Nov 1, 2011
Your a fool!
I don't have a problem with IR its just that you don't do anything for your own women, children and communities so your reaping what you've sown! LMAO
Are Black Women becoming like Asian Women??
#75 Nov 1, 2011
MACEO, that didn't stop you for chasing after White women or marrying one!
Again, I have no problem with IR marriage! Your trifling fool! You took your time and money investing it in White women while you put Black women down for raising you alone!
Your Father didn't give a damn about you or your welfare almost the entire duration of your life; which is why your a "Failure". Many of your Father stuck around and showed you have to be successful like "other races" of men; maybe I would have some respect for you!
I simply don't have any respect for you--YOUR a FOOL!
Why are you harassing my friends on Facebook? There send me messages talking about some weird acting Black guy who's trying to come off like a White male trying to be friend them!
Are you crazy?
As I said most of them have information on you in which I told them to report you! YOu have NO right harassing Black women when your preference has been white women for the last 35 years of your life!
Most of the Black women are Moving on because they don't want a Black man like you. You fit the stereotypes of the lowly Black male, No education, angry, bitter, chases and does for White women while putting Black women down and your a misogynistic, sexist and controlling like Jonathan on Dr. Drew!
Ashley is your type
“Stop being moronic. ”
Since: Oct 09
#76 Nov 21, 2011
Can you stop being an attention who-r-e? That's really immature of you.
#77 Nov 21, 2011
Your husband is the exception........most def not the rule.
Not many black women can say that. You better hang on to him as I'm sure he had better hang on to you as well.
#78 Nov 22, 2011
Not many WHITE women either!
#79 Nov 22, 2011
what the fk do YOU know about it, frank? you're "celibate", remembert?
#80 Nov 22, 2011
I've got a lot of white friends!
#81 Nov 22, 2011
Well any book based on controversial issues will sell like hot-cakes. We all know that black women are the dumbest of all women and will buy this book, just like they have been supplying the Asians their cash for weaves.
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