Why do black ppl not like bw/wm inter...

Since: Jan 11

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#21 Jan 20, 2013
ISW__REBORN wrote:
At the end of the night who cares what some bitter person thinks of their relationship. I dont have to lay next to the person they choose to be with. But on another note bm/ww couples get depreciated on the most by wm.. and bw/wm couples get hated on by asian women more so than ww. Which i find hilarious since sometimes asian women go out of their way to be with wm.
There is some truth to what you say about some Asian women hating on BF/WM couples, especially if the white guy is blond or has blue eyes. Indeed, many Asian women are territorial about white men.

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Since: Jan 12

alright alright.....

#22 Jan 20, 2013
Jan Kees wrote:
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There is some truth to what you say about some Asian women hating on BF/WM couples, especially if the white guy is blond or has blue eyes. Indeed, many Asian women are territorial about white men.
You ain't never lied my guy friend whose white dated an asian who hated the fact that he was with a black girl before her. She would get upset when i would call to converse with him. Chick was loco but our mutial white girlfriends didn't care about the fact he dated a black chick.. I ended up cursing that slant eyed bytch out one night. Im not racist but she pissed me off and i took it to that level.

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Since: Jan 12

alright alright.....

#23 Jan 20, 2013
If you'rr asian im not trying to offend you and i apologize in advance
mrs. miller

Jersey City, NJ

#24 Jan 28, 2013
this-ebony-chick wrote:
I find that black people think it's cute or simply don't acknowledge when black men date white women but when black women date white men they say she is insecure, a self-hating African American, or that she is a slut who has been with so many black guys she has to move on to white. I don't believe all black people think this way but many do. It gave me a bit of a stigma against dating outside of my race. I dealt with bad relationships from black men and forced myself to date within my race until I finally gained the confidence to not care what anyone thought. Now I date white men exclusively, I'm just attracted to them which is the sole reason anyone has a "type" it's mere attraction. I don't hate black men. My two closest male friends are black. And I don't hate myself or black culture. Proudly fluent in ebonics and I love hip hop and r&b lol. I also am not very promiscuous. I am not a virgin but far from a slut. And I do attract black men. Many tell me I am attractive. Though we usually just become friends because white men are my taste. And even though my black male friends always date white women they come down on me extra hard for dating white men even though I see no issue in them dating out. I think interracial relationships are hot as well as progressive :). Well anyway was just wondering.
I don't care if a black man date or marry a white man
mrs. miller

Jersey City, NJ

#25 Jan 28, 2013
Caucasion-Zimbabwean wrote:
My wife's African and I often to get nasty looks from African men when we we're shopping, in a restaraunt etc.

They're probably pissed off because she's so hot and she's with a rich, attractive, succesful white man. It's called jealousy. The reaction we get from white women is even worse.
I think that black man are jealous of white man I'm married to a white man and love him very much
mrs. miller

Jersey City, NJ

#26 Jan 28, 2013
Justine wrote:
It's the opposite, bw always get mad when they see a white woman with a black man
I have to respond on that one I don't care if a black man date or marry a white woman I'm married to a white man.
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#27 Jan 30, 2013
I'm married to a white man and find that others embrace us. We've been married for 10 years and have 3 kids.
FcukWHITEY

Dallas, TX

#29 Feb 19, 2013
[QUOTE who="mrs. miller"]<quoted text>
I have to respond on that one I don't care if a black man date or marry a white woman I'm married to a white man.[/QUOTE]Would you be ok if your white man divorced you to marry a white blonde, college cheerleader? I see it happen. The white dudes refer to my black sisters as sheboons, coons or niggorilla. God Bless you. Now that you married a white man does that make you white? What will you do when the US dollar plunges. Will you still be attracted to white men when there is no more BMW, Audi or Starbucks?

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Since: Jan 12

alright alright.....

#30 Feb 19, 2013
FcukWHITEY wrote:
<quoted text>Would you be ok if your white man divorced you to marry a white blonde, college cheerleader? I see it happen. The white dudes refer to my black sisters as sheboons, coons or niggorilla. God Bless you. Now that you married a white man does that make you white? What will you do when the US dollar plunges. Will you still be attracted to white men when there is no more BMW, Audi or Starbucks?
For some attraction works that way but some of us love light eyes, nice V shapes, and wavey hair you can play in...
mrs. miller

Vienna, WV

#31 Mar 30, 2013
this-ebony-chick wrote:
I find that black people think it's cute or simply don't acknowledge when black men date white women but when black women date white men they say she is insecure, a self-hating African American, or that she is a slut who has been with so many black guys she has to move on to white. I don't believe all black people think this way but many do. It gave me a bit of a stigma against dating outside of my race. I dealt with bad relationships from black men and forced myself to date within my race until I finally gained the confidence to not care what anyone thought. Now I date white men exclusively, I'm just attracted to them which is the sole reason anyone has a "type" it's mere attraction. I don't hate black men. My two closest male friends are black. And I don't hate myself or black culture. Proudly fluent in ebonics and I love hip hop and r&b lol. I also am not very promiscuous. I am not a virgin but far from a slut. And I do attract black men. Many tell me I am attractive. Though we usually just become friends because white men are my taste. And even though my black male friends always date white women they come down on me extra hard for dating white men even though I see no issue in them dating out. I think interracial relationships are hot as well as progressive :). Well anyway was just wondering.
Well I do agree with u I'm with a white man I feel u can't help u fall in love with. I'm attraction to white man they is hottt!!! I'm glad I'm married to one, I don't hate black man my best friend is black I just love white man.

Since: Apr 13

Sterling, VA

#32 Apr 6, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
As a BW I must say that this is false because BM with WW receive way more hate. In fact BM get hated for dating any none BW.
I like white men. But dating them is a lot of drama on both sides--white mothers are crazy. Anyway they are no crazier than black mom would be about their son's choice to date out of his race. older black men can get crazy. But for the most part, guys my age don't care.

Overall though, I think bm/ww interracial daters are drama kings and queens. They really think the world is against them. Thats not true. We are so used to it that we don't look twice anymore. Yet they still talk like they are hated on. Most bw/wm couples don't pretend to be dating each other because of some pseudo-interpersonal issues between bm and bw. Most wm/bw couples will admit--we just like to bang each other end of story. Its not that complicated. There is noting wrong with bm. Its just hotter to have some contrast.
Ray

London, UK

#33 Apr 14, 2013
Angel Ronnie wrote:
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Yeah, definitely pissed off because they probably want her too. I received a lot of unwanted negative attention when I dated a guy from France. I'm Zimbabwean too. African men make you feel like there is something wrong with you if you date a white man, like you are a traitor. I dont care anymore!
Your lost my dear while racism is so prevalent you should be mindful of who you associate with, nothing wrong with seeking new cultures and people, but try to understand your own first. Your replying in agreement with someone that has laid down a stereotype at your race, which includes you and your family. Wakes waked.

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#34 Aug 4, 2013
Jennifer wrote:
white people in particular white men seem more accepting of BW/WM than BM/WW relationships. Look at comments on daily mail of white women black man relationship:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-21867...
comment's such as 'no suprise her parents weren't proud' are common.
Compare this to black woman with a white man comments:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-...
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-...
I think for the white community black male/white female relationship still has more of a stigma
I think that's because the man is seen as the "leader" of the relationship, so if he chose to bring whoever it's ok, but if it's the woman who went out of ther race they see it in a different way.
xbi2210

Belgium

#35 Aug 8, 2013
[QUOTE who="mrs. miller"]<quoted text>
I think that black man are jealous of white man I'm married to a white man and love him very much[/QUOTE]

lmao .. this is the funniest shit I've read in a while
we're jealous of the most insecure male on the planet ..*dead*

thanks for the laugh 'sister'

“Repent and worship God”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#36 Aug 11, 2013
IR is simply wonderful!
Suspended Disbelief

Petal, MS

#37 Dec 11, 2013
I'm a bw married to a wm. We might get an occasional glance but for the most part nobody black or white as ever had the nerve to say something out of line directly to our face. We each field questions from various people separately occasionally, and I can't speak for him but the miniscule amount of shade I get thrown my way is from black men or white women. The latter more so than the former. White women don't say so much blatantly inappropriate as they do ask questions...at first. Eventually the questions get more offensive and hostile as I continue to answer them. You can tell they are fishing, but I just smile and politely give it to them straight. I think most of them really are just curious, but SOME of them you can tell they take it personally. They ask polite questions trying to understand it, but you can see the anger underneath. I have to let those particular ones know that, No, this was not some weird experimental sex thing that "went too far". No he didn't do it to be a rebel or piss off his parent. No he didn't do it because he hates white women, or couldn't get a decent woman. My husband could probably have any woman he wanted in fact. He is my husband in heart, mind, body and soul, not to mention legally. We met, we fell in love, we got married. The end. Just like any other marriage that comes about. It's not some ploy or scam to be different or make a statement. It's not some fetish. They just cannot seem to grasp it. It doesn't help matters that my husband is extremely attractive, so I think it irks some of them that he went and married himself a black girl. Like I stole something that should have been theirs. People are so ridiculous. Love and let love. Skin color is only as big of an issue as you make it. When black men find out I'm married to a white guy I get the interesting response of them trying extra hard to get me to admit he's bad in bed, or to cheat on him with them or something. They feel it necessary to insist I take their number should I ever get tired of him "not hittin' it right". WTF? It's very bizarre.(For the record: He hits "it" exceptional well and very often, so...)I have been with my husband out to dinner and had a white female waitress walk up and openly flirt with my husband while I am sitting there holding his hand. He has had to send more than a few of them packing. I just watch and laugh. I never have to say anything because he handles them just the way they need to be handled. He tells them that clearly we are holding hands and kissing, we are both wearing rings so therefore we must be married...to each other. Using that logic, it would stand to reason that he is not interested in her phone number or her blatant disregard and disrespect for his wife. I never say a word. I don't have to. He never fails to make me proud.

“Repent and worship God”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#38 Dec 14, 2013
Suspended Disbelief wrote:
I'm a bw married to a wm. We might get an occasional glance but for the most part nobody black or white as ever had the nerve to say something out of line directly to our face. We each field questions from various people separately occasionally, and I can't speak for him but the miniscule amount of shade I get thrown my way is from black men or white women. The latter more so than the former. White women don't say so much blatantly inappropriate as they do ask questions...at first. Eventually the questions get more offensive and hostile as I continue to answer them. You can tell they are fishing, but I just smile and politely give it to them straight. I think most of them really are just curious, but SOME of them you can tell they take it personally. They ask polite questions trying to understand it, but you can see the anger underneath. I have to let those particular ones know that, No, this was not some weird experimental sex thing that "went too far". No he didn't do it to be a rebel or piss off his parent. No he didn't do it because he hates white women, or couldn't get a decent woman. My husband could probably have any woman he wanted in fact. He is my husband in heart, mind, body and soul, not to mention legally. We met, we fell in love, we got married. The end. Just like any other marriage that comes about. It's not some ploy or scam to be different or make a statement. It's not some fetish. They just cannot seem to grasp it. It doesn't help matters that my husband is extremely attractive, so I think it irks some of them that he went and married himself a black girl. Like I stole something that should have been theirs. People are so ridiculous. Love and let love. Skin color is only as big of an issue as you make it. When black men find out I'm married to a white guy I get the interesting response of them trying extra hard to get me to admit he's bad in bed, or to cheat on him with them or something. They feel it necessary to insist I take their number should I ever get tired of him "not hittin' it right". WTF? It's very bizarre.(For the record: He hits "it" exceptional well and very often, so...)I have been with my husband out to dinner and had a white female waitress walk up and openly flirt with my husband while I am sitting there holding his hand. He has had to send more than a few of them packing. I just watch and laugh. I never have to say anything because he handles them just the way they need to be handled. He tells them that clearly we are holding hands and kissing, we are both wearing rings so therefore we must be married...to each other. Using that logic, it would stand to reason that he is not interested in her phone number or her blatant disregard and disrespect for his wife. I never say a word. I don't have to. He never fails to make me proud.
May God continue to bless you, your family, and your marriage!!!
Blah

Toronto, Canada

#39 Dec 15, 2013
Actually, I support interracial relationships of any combination. Personally I think more black women should be open to IR's. Because I'm generally not attracted to them. I'm more attracted to women of other races. Plus I don't want to put up with the black girls who have extra baggage: aggression and anger towards black men who date interracially. People don't want to deal with that.

“Repent and worship God”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#40 Jan 4, 2014
Blah wrote:
Actually, I support interracial relationships of any combination. Personally I think more black women should be open to IR's. Because I'm generally not attracted to them. I'm more attracted to women of other races. Plus I don't want to put up with the black girls who have extra baggage: aggression and anger towards black men who date interracially. People don't want to deal with that.
Just live your life and don't worry what others do!
mrs miller

Richmond, VA

#42 Mar 31, 2014
First I want to say this I love white men and I love seeing interracial couple and it's nothing wrong with finding someone to love in a duffle rent race !!!

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