Why do black ppl not like bw/wm inter...

Why do black ppl not like bw/wm interracial relationships?

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Since: Aug 12

#1 Aug 17, 2012
I find that black people think it's cute or simply don't acknowledge when black men date white women but when black women date white men they say she is insecure, a self-hating African American, or that she is a slut who has been with so many black guys she has to move on to white. I don't believe all black people think this way but many do. It gave me a bit of a stigma against dating outside of my race. I dealt with bad relationships from black men and forced myself to date within my race until I finally gained the confidence to not care what anyone thought. Now I date white men exclusively, I'm just attracted to them which is the sole reason anyone has a "type" it's mere attraction. I don't hate black men. My two closest male friends are black. And I don't hate myself or black culture. Proudly fluent in ebonics and I love hip hop and r&b lol. I also am not very promiscuous. I am not a virgin but far from a slut. And I do attract black men. Many tell me I am attractive. Though we usually just become friends because white men are my taste. And even though my black male friends always date white women they come down on me extra hard for dating white men even though I see no issue in them dating out. I think interracial relationships are hot as well as progressive :). Well anyway was just wondering.
Caucasion-Zimbab wean

Zimbabwe

#2 Aug 23, 2012
My wife's African and I often to get nasty looks from African men when we we're shopping, in a restaraunt etc.

They're probably pissed off because she's so hot and she's with a rich, attractive, succesful white man. It's called jealousy. The reaction we get from white women is even worse.

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#3 Oct 1, 2012
LOL Idgaf, date whoever you want
Human Revolution

Loveland, OH

#4 Oct 1, 2012
Your're kidding right? The BF/WM relationship is way far more accepted than the WF/BM coupling.
Justine

Saint-genis-laval, France

#5 Oct 4, 2012
It's the opposite, bw always get mad when they see a white woman with a black man
Human Revolution

Loveland, OH

#6 Oct 4, 2012
ChadFromLA wrote:
LOL Idgaf, date whoever you want
Anyone ever tell you that you look like a feminine little girl?
Justine

Saint-genis-laval, France

#7 Oct 6, 2012
lol he looks really handsome to me. I love mixed people they have a gorgeous complexionlol

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#8 Oct 6, 2012
Justine wrote:
lol he looks really handsome to me. I love mixed people they have a gorgeous complexionlol
Thank you :) but I'm AA though.
Human Revolution

Loveland, OH

#9 Oct 6, 2012
Justine wrote:
lol he looks really handsome to me. I love mixed people they have a gorgeous complexionlol
He's an annoying troll who has a jilted perception of race.

“YOUPI”

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#10 Oct 7, 2012
He's definitely not a troll he's often on the AA and religious forums, never bashing anyone and I have to agree he is a cutie
Human Revolution

Loveland, OH

#11 Oct 7, 2012
Sorry for the name calling Chad.

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#12 Oct 7, 2012
lol it's all good,
marhaba Melissa :)
Did I spell it right? lol

“YOUPI”

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#13 Oct 7, 2012
LOL you did!
I don't see you much on Topix anymore? Where have you been?

Since: Oct 10

Atlanta, GA

#14 Oct 28, 2012
I could care less who "accepts" my dating preferences. Lol. You ask why and I cannot help but to ask WHO CARES? Although this subject pops up pretty often. Lol.

Here's a forum which may have some answers for you.

http://www.milkandmocha.com/web/879-nyes-way-...

BWWM relationships are becoming pretty common.

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#15 Nov 20, 2012
More common indeed.

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#16 Nov 21, 2012
As a BW I must say that this is false because BM with WW receive way more hate. In fact BM get hated for dating any none BW.

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#17 Nov 27, 2012
sassyntrashy wrote:
As a BW I must say that this is false because BM with WW receive way more hate. In fact BM get hated for dating any none BW.
Why would anyone date a non BW?

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#18 Nov 29, 2012
Caucasion-Zimbabwean wrote:
My wife's African and I often to get nasty looks from African men when we we're shopping, in a restaraunt etc.
They're probably pissed off because she's so hot and she's with a rich, attractive, succesful white man. It's called jealousy. The reaction we get from white women is even worse.
Yeah, definitely pissed off because they probably want her too. I received a lot of unwanted negative attention when I dated a guy from France. I'm Zimbabwean too. African men make you feel like there is something wrong with you if you date a white man, like you are a traitor. I dont care anymore!

“New year New you”

Since: Jan 12

alright alright.....

#19 Dec 22, 2012
At the end of the night who cares what some bitter person thinks of their relationship. I dont have to lay next to the person they choose to be with. But on another note bm/ww couples get depreciated on the most by wm.. and bw/wm couples get hated on by asian women more so than ww. Which i find hilarious since sometimes asian women go out of their way to be with wm.
Jennifer

Wembley, UK

#20 Jan 15, 2013
white people in particular white men seem more accepting of BW/WM than BM/WW relationships. Look at comments on daily mail of white women black man relationship:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-21867...

comment's such as 'no suprise her parents weren't proud' are common.

Compare this to black woman with a white man comments:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-...

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-...

I think for the white community black male/white female relationship still has more of a stigma

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