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Peter

Newark, NJ

#1 Sep 20, 2011
My ex was black. No big deal. I have dated different races before.
I'm no supermodel but women seem to like me.

Anyway what I have noticed with black women. They seem to lie a lot. Particularly with sex. They will say they don't give bjs. But go down like a champ. Then they will say that they only like doing it with white guys. Then they will tell me. That I'm the best lover she has ever had and I'm bigger than any black guy she has been with. Then when we break up. She states that black men screwed her harder and better. That she cheated on me with black guys. I hope she gets aids.

Why do black women lie so much? Do you even like white men or just want money. I would be better off marrying an Asian and having a black mistress.

Since: Sep 11

United States

#2 Oct 23, 2011
Peter wrote:
My ex was black. No big deal. I have dated different races before.
I'm no supermodel but women seem to like me.
Anyway what I have noticed with black women. They seem to lie a lot. Particularly with sex. They will say they don't give bjs. But go down like a champ. Then they will say that they only like doing it with white guys. Then they will tell me. That I'm the best lover she has ever had and I'm bigger than any black guy she has been with. Then when we break up. She states that black men screwed her harder and better. That she cheated on me with black guys. I hope she gets aids.
Why do black women lie so much? Do you even like white men or just want money. I would be better off marrying an Asian and having a black mistress.
Oddly you're not the first person who's had that complaint. That, among other things, is why none of the men I know will mess with a black woman.

Since: Apr 11

Stockbridge, UK

#3 Oct 24, 2011
Peter wrote:
My ex was black. No big deal. I have dated different races before.
I'm no supermodel but women seem to like me.
Anyway what I have noticed with black women. They seem to lie a lot. Particularly with sex. They will say they don't give bjs. But go down like a champ. Then they will say that they only like doing it with white guys. Then they will tell me. That I'm the best lover she has ever had and I'm bigger than any black guy she has been with. Then when we break up. She states that black men screwed her harder and better. That she cheated on me with black guys. I hope she gets aids.
Why do black women lie so much? Do you even like white men or just want money. I would be better off marrying an Asian and having a black mistress.
So you're Peter the white man over here,I see!!!

Since: Apr 11

Stockbridge, UK

#4 Oct 24, 2011
SweetVanilla wrote:
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Oddly you're not the first person who's had that complaint. That, among other things, is why none of the men I know will mess with a black woman.
You know what I find the IR black and white people on topix very strange and bitter.You all feel you need to attack the women/men of the race of the people you date.I'm mixed race myself and think its a shame that black/white people come to this site to do this.
Peter

Baltimore, MD

#5 Oct 25, 2011
Kim xxx wrote:
<quoted text>You know what I find the IR black and white people on topix very strange and bitter.You all feel you need to attack the women/men of the race of the people you date.I'm mixed race myself and think its a shame that black/white people come to this site to do this.
Just trying to vent and get an explanation. I'm in my late 30's. I tried of the games.

Since: Apr 11

Stockbridge, UK

#6 Oct 25, 2011
Peter wrote:
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Just trying to vent and get an explanation. I'm in my late 30's. I tried of the games.
Okay,sorry I was venting too.Apparently this is the only forum where I'm allowed to actually comment on anything since Im biracial.If you're in your late 30's and you're having problems with black or white women you really need to try another race like Asian.Don't waste your life trying to get answers from people.Most people are selfish and thats pretty much the reason why they do any of the stupid things they do.

Since: Sep 11

United States

#7 Oct 25, 2011
Kim xxx wrote:
<quoted text>You know what I find the IR black and white people on topix very strange and bitter.You all feel you need to attack the women/men of the race of the people you date.I'm mixed race myself and think its a shame that black/white people come to this site to do this.
I honestly have not problem with black women until they wanna start talkin' sh*t. And oddly, it's never the biracial women or the black women who date interracially; it's always the black women who date black men only.

Since: Apr 11

Stockbridge, UK

#8 Oct 25, 2011
SweetVanilla wrote:
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I honestly have not problem with black women until they wanna start talkin' sh*t. And oddly, it's never the biracial women or the black women who date interracially; it's always the black women who date black men only.
I'm already married to a black man,Ive been married for 3 years[Im 26]but I would guess its because in a way you are in competition with each other.White women and black women who date white men probably have the same issues.

Since: Sep 11

United States

#9 Oct 25, 2011
Kim xxx wrote:
<quoted text>I'm already married to a black man,Ive been married for 3 years[Im 26]but I would guess its because in a way you are in competition with each other.White women and black women who date white men probably have the same issues.
I'm married as well, just recently actually. And even when some black women know this they still give me attitude and things. I think it's because they think no respectable black man would want anything other than a black woman.

Since: Apr 11

Nuneaton, UK

#10 Oct 26, 2011
SweetVanilla wrote:
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I'm married as well, just recently actually. And even when some black women know this they still give me attitude and things. I think it's because they think no respectable black man would want anything other than a black woman.
Congratulations on your marriage.Are most of your friends black women or white women?
I'm asking because there seems to be so much animosity between black and white women these days.When I was growing up it wasnt like that,my mother had a lot of black female friends as did the mothers of my biracial friends.Maybe its just different in the UK.
You know topix is the first time that I have ever been called a half breed or mutt by a black person.I live in London and this is not something that I have ever experienced.Yesterday on the African American forum a black man,strangely enough from the UK too, called me a half breed and said all biracial people should be stoned to death.I asked him why he was complaing about IR relationships since most of the biracial people in the UK have black fathers like I do!!!

Since: Sep 11

United States

#11 Oct 26, 2011
Kim xxx wrote:
<quoted text>Congratulations on your marriage.Are most of your friends black women or white women?
I'm asking because there seems to be so much animosity between black and white women these days.When I was growing up it wasnt like that,my mother had a lot of black female friends as did the mothers of my biracial friends.Maybe its just different in the UK.
You know topix is the first time that I have ever been called a half breed or mutt by a black person.I live in London and this is not something that I have ever experienced.Yesterday on the African American forum a black man,strangely enough from the UK too, called me a half breed and said all biracial people should be stoned to death.I asked him why he was complaing about IR relationships since most of the biracial people in the UK have black fathers like I do!!!
That's so mean! But I have 2 female friends, both white. The city I live in is one where you can't trust the women. Most of my friends are black men actually.
Peter

Baltimore, MD

#12 Oct 26, 2011
SweetVanilla wrote:
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That's so mean! But I have 2 female friends, both white. The city I live in is one where you can't trust the women. Most of my friends are black men actually.
Do you trust them to be alone with your wife?

Since: Apr 11

Nuneaton, UK

#13 Oct 26, 2011
Peter wrote:
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Do you trust them to be alone with your wife?
Sweet Vanilla is a white woman!!!

Since: Apr 11

Nuneaton, UK

#14 Oct 26, 2011
SweetVanilla wrote:
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That's so mean! But I have 2 female friends, both white. The city I live in is one where you can't trust the women. Most of my friends are black men actually.
I know what you mean,when me and my husband were boyfriend/girlfriend we worked in the same place[I had a part time job when I was a student]I used to fight with him all time because the black women in the workplace used to flirt with him etc even though we were together.Sometimes they would do it on purpose if they saw me because even though we worked together he had his friends and I had mine so we didn't always sit together at Lunch.I could tell which ones were just flirting and which ones had 'ideas'.He came round to my way of thinking in the end.

Since: Sep 11

United States

#15 Oct 26, 2011
Kim xxx wrote:
<quoted text>I know what you mean,when me and my husband were boyfriend/girlfriend we worked in the same place[I had a part time job when I was a student]I used to fight with him all time because the black women in the workplace used to flirt with him etc even though we were together.Sometimes they would do it on purpose if they saw me because even though we worked together he had his friends and I had mine so we didn't always sit together at Lunch.I could tell which ones were just flirting and which ones had 'ideas'.He came round to my way of thinking in the end.
Well that's a good thing! My husband won't even look at black women. None of my black male friends will either. And they all know better than to let any woman flirt with them while in a relationship lol. But I don't get what the big issue is for these black women. I hardly ever see BM/BW couples that much anymore. They just need to accept people are going to continue dating interracially.

Since: Apr 11

Haslemere, UK

#16 Oct 27, 2011
SweetVanilla wrote:
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Well that's a good thing! My husband won't even look at black women. None of my black male friends will either. And they all know better than to let any woman flirt with them while in a relationship lol. But I don't get what the big issue is for these black women. I hardly ever see BM/BW couples that much anymore. They just need to accept people are going to continue dating interracially.
Maybe its because there are more Black men dating white women than vice versa.It's not like that in the UK,there are enough Black women dating white men so they won't have anything to say to you or bother you.The black couples are mostly Africans though,they tend to stick together.
Peter

Baltimore, MD

#17 Nov 9, 2011
Kim xxx wrote:
<quoted text>Maybe its because there are more Black men dating white women than vice versa.It's not like that in the UK,there are enough Black women dating white men so they won't have anything to say to you or bother you.The black couples are mostly Africans though,they tend to stick together.
If there was a race fight. Would Black women that are with White men. Will they support their white men against Black men?
Kim

Pinner, UK

#18 Nov 12, 2011
Peter wrote:
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If there was a race fight. Would Black women that are with White men. Will they support their white men against Black men?
Maybe if they were married and have children with them possibly but otherwise no,same for white women who are with black men.People stay with their same race in crisis.What would we mixed race/biracials do ?thats what you should be asking.You blacks/whites are all creating us,so its up to you to decide what you want your future to be like.

Since: Nov 11

kansas city ,mo

#19 Nov 12, 2011
Must black girl dont do oral sex and if i do it be with a man i truely love and want to be with for the rest of my life. And race is not the issuse cause he can be black or white. And the first time i do i might be real good dont mean i didnt oral sex before.
Word of Advice

Tulsa, OK

#21 Mar 16, 2012
SweetVanilla wrote:
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I honestly have not problem with black women until they wanna start talkin' sh*t. And oddly, it's never the biracial women or the black women who date interracially; it's always the black women who date black men only.
I find your statement rather odd. It's a known fact that there are many black women and white women friendships in which their favorite pass time is going black male hunting. I think some white women in relationships with black men like to play up the black females are jealous route a bit too often in order to uplift themselves. Using what we know in reality as a logic checker, there is nearly zero room for jealousy on the part of black women towards white women when over 90% of black males are with black females. Reasoning would have us to believe it would be the white women who are interested in black men who would be doing the envying mostly.

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