I just need an opinion about my girlf...

I just need an opinion about my girlfriend

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Broken hearted

Saint Louis, MO

#1 Sep 6, 2012
Tonight, I sit here with tears in my eyes. I just got home from my girlfriend that she could no longer be with me. We have been dating for almost four years and we are going through a rough patch. I have messed up and she has messed up but every time that we fight, we have always worked it out. Im afraid that this is not one of those times. I have never loved a woman like I love her.

Just a little history, I am a college educated professional and I work one full time job and one part time job in my professional field using my degree and licence from my state. I have one son from another relationship. She is a highschool dropout with four kids (8-13yo) from three different fathers. Everything that she is involved in is drama, 24/7 drama. I dont know why I love her and want to be with her but I just do. I was a very confident person but she is controlling and demeaning and she makes me feel weak. She has a very low self worth, as do I and she is overweight and not a happy person.

My question, what should I do? Leave her alone and see if she just wants me to come running or should I try to get back with her bu buying her roses and that other stuff. Her birthday is next week and I bought her a nice gift, should I give it to her or just let go and move on?

I have done some pretty sh*ttty things to her over this relationship, some sort of psycho things like looking through her stuff to see if she was cheating.(which she did) but I never cheated on her, not even once.

She said that she would call me tomorrow and we could hang out but Im not holding my breath.

Anyway, what direction should I go? Im very serious and I need som advice preferably from a woman. Thanks!!


Since: Jan 12


#2 Sep 7, 2012
My dear, perhaps it is time to move on. It is difficult to be caught in a demeaning relationship, and for some reason, to finally release oneself from the abusive hold of the other. You must respect yourself enough to know that you are worth more than to be treated with a lack of respect and loyalty.

There are many women out there who will remain faithful and compassionate with the man they love. This girl does not seem as though she is one of them.

Give yourself some time to think about what you really want out of a relationship.

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