The idea is to face reality. Would you leave your children with someone who has no means of support, lives with abusive men? etc. Just reality, if people don't look at their own lives and make changes, victim or not, the court will not usually give you your kids back. Kids should ALWAYS come before "needing a man" in your life. None of that may be true, but reality is reality.funny how its the womans fault when a psychotic man abuses her...and this y our nation is so f-ed up. Had her kids taken away from this monster and u deem urself apt to make her feel more like shit! Because why? u have think u have God by his balls? disgusted!
If you think you are a victim no one can help (even if you are one)Poor, poor me I need a man instead of taking care of my kids "I will expose my children to abuse so I can fill my needs". Yes that would make me feel like crap