<quoted text>Well honey, moving in with your boyfriend and living with him when you're only 14 doesn't exactly say that much about you except that you were a victim of statutory rape. And it doesn't say much for your life if you thought so little of yourself that you had to move in with someone at such an early age. Not what I'd call a very mature decision. Sorry toots. Maybe the "my parents were never there for me" BS is an excuse to act out and get away with it. I have a niece who used to tell her counselor the same BS and that is exactly what it was - BS. Her parents were there every step of the way but her little teen attitude never saw it. Perhaps this is true of you too??
I left a home where I was abused by my father and completely ignored by my mother as she was too busy with any man she could get her hands on.
I was 14 and so was my bf. I wasn't a victim of statutory rape. I was a teenager who needed out of my home and was taken in by people who actually gave a damn about me, His mom wasn't perfect, but she at least cared.
I'm 34 years old now and really don't have a reason to spew teenage BS. You don't know me, so I don't see where you think you have the right to basically call me a liar.
Maybe it wasn't the most mature decision, but what the hell do you expect from a 14 year old girl who had parents who could have cared less about her?
I could keep going and tell you how awful my parents really were and my father still is, but your opinion of me really means nothing to me so why bother.
I have a great life. I'm married and have been with the same man for 10 years. We both have full time jobs, own our own house, and have a very happy life together. I chose to make a life for myself, no one helped me or forced me to do anything.