Stepfather held in death of 3-year-ol...

Stepfather held in death of 3-year-old Cabazon boy

There are 117 comments on the Inland Valley Daily Bulletin story from Jan 25, 2010, titled Stepfather held in death of 3-year-old Cabazon boy. In it, Inland Valley Daily Bulletin reports that:

Sheriff's deputies arrested a Cabazon man Sunday on suspicion of killing his 3-year-old stepson.

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Attorney

Chino, CA

#1 Jan 25, 2010
Women, when will you learn to not date while your children are young. Now look, you'll be paying back with guilt for the rest of your life.

Men, I don't understand how you allow your child to live with another man. If your child lives with another man, you are no longer the dad. Your child is 90% more likely to be killed, hurt or molested when your children live with your ex because of men in your ex's life.

What a shame.
Antoinette - OC

Mission Viejo, CA

#2 Jan 25, 2010
I know it is most common to accuse the step parent, but - let me set this one straight for you all. I know the step faher, and there is NO way in hell he could every commit such an act, NEVER. I had to set it straight, the young man in custody is innocent, and with help we will prove this!

The story does not add up as I have heard it first hand, believe me
Maybe look to others for this horrible act on that beautiful baby Roman - I just say him during Christmas too - Sleep with the angels baby boy!
read this

Bellflower, CA

#3 Jan 25, 2010
Attorney wrote:
Women, when will you learn to not date while your children are young. Now look, you'll be paying back with guilt for the rest of your life.
Men, I don't understand how you allow your child to live with another man. If your child lives with another man, you are no longer the dad. Your child is 90% more likely to be killed, hurt or molested when your children live with your ex because of men in your ex's life.
What a shame.
Men date single moms because they are easy. Single moms put out because their low self-esteem feeds off the attention. Too often the mom's kids get in the way of a step-dad's expectation of a "honeymoon." So the kids suffer. Yeah I know, I sound judgemental.
JOE

Yermo, CA

#4 Jan 25, 2010
Antoinette it is common to accuse whoever was home at the time of the death. If it is the stepfather, mother, etc. then one of them must have done it. Shame on the mother for letting this happen. I bet there were other incidents and this was not the first but the stupid mother did nothing while her child suffered. Do not have children if you are not willing to protect them or please give them up to a loving family.
Attorney I bet the real father is not even in this child's life. I bet he is off fathering other kids he will not take care of.
Commonsense

Pomona, CA

#5 Jan 25, 2010
Good riddanc to the low-life gang banger - he will be prison for many years and won't be able to breed either. As for the so called mother who put her child in harm's way, she should also be prosecuted and jailed so she can't breed either.

To all you stupid, desperate broads who choose poorly, then have kids, then break up - your next choice in a man will also likely be wrong and your kids will suffer and in this case die because of your choices - the new man rarely wants the kids you drag along.
rich

Ontario, CA

#6 Jan 25, 2010
when I heard about this I new it was the father or boyfriend that did it just from past cases that I have read about who else could it have been
freebone

Cathedral City, CA

#7 Jan 25, 2010
low-life gang banger !! WTF first of all none of you guys knew him sooo stop writing these dumb ass comments !!!!
Brad Butler

Ontario, CA

#8 Jan 25, 2010
freebone wrote:
low-life gang banger !!**** first of all none of you guys knew him sooo stop writing these dumb **** comments !!!!
Wow, one of Jesse's former hoochies comes to defend him? How many kids did you pop out with him?
jdvm

Cathedral City, CA

#9 Jan 25, 2010
forget all of you people that talking shit about him you guys dont know him hes not a gang banger hes been around my kids for more than ten years and lived with them too never has he put a finger on them and he dose'nt have that in him to do a thing like that he is a very loveable kid caring person who comes from a family who loves him and no matter what we well always be here for him our prayers go out to his wife and family we love you guys your in our prayers lets all pray for Jesse so he can keep his head up.
AntoinetteinOC

Mission Viejo, CA

#10 Jan 25, 2010
jdvm wrote:
forget all of you people that talking **** about him you guys dont know him hes not a gang banger hes been around my kids for more than ten years and lived with them too never has he put a finger on them and he dose'nt have that in him to do a thing like that he is a very loveable kid caring person who comes from a family who loves him and no matter what we well always be here for him our prayers go out to his wife and family we love you guys your in our prayers lets all pray for Jesse so he can keep his head up.
I am with you both on this, I have seen Jesse with my grandkids, and NEVER did I EVER see anything that was allerting! You all can pass your judgements as you will, the bottom line - innocence will prevail! This man is innocent and I stronly belive that the DA needs to take a look at ALL parties involved! God Bless you Jesse, you keep the faith honey!
AntoinetteinOC

Mission Viejo, CA

#11 Jan 25, 2010
freebone wrote:
low-life gang banger !!**** first of all none of you guys knew him sooo stop writing these dumb **** comments !!!!
Well, I KNOW HIM! and I know he is innocent!
he wasnt innocent

Sherman Oaks, CA

#12 Jan 25, 2010
i knew he needed help for drug abuse the family should have seen this too. now a child is dead.
JOSH

Cathedral City, CA

#13 Jan 25, 2010
ALL OF YOU PEOPLE THAT LEAVE COMMENTS ABOUT HIM THAT DONT KNOW HIM ARE FULL OF SHIT AND CAN GO TO HELL HE DIDNT DO IT...........
DirtDestroyer

Fresno, CA

#16 Jan 25, 2010
Another subhuman that lives among us.hopefully he will face the death penalty for killing an innocent 3 year old.
DirtDestroyer

Fresno, CA

#17 Jan 25, 2010
Attorney wrote:
Women, when will you learn to not date while your children are young. Now look, you'll be paying back with guilt for the rest of your life.
Men, I don't understand how you allow your child to live with another man. If your child lives with another man, you are no longer the dad. Your child is 90% more likely to be killed, hurt or molested when your children live with your ex because of men in your ex's life.
What a shame.
Your comments are 100% correct.
AntoinetteinOC

Mission Viejo, CA

#18 Jan 25, 2010
Jesse Martinez Jr - is innocent - and I want those of you who feel compelled to go off on your tangents to stop and think before you shout out your thoughts on this! It is so easy to blame the only person that is being questioned, but in this case, it is wrong! Jesse, is a teddy bear, just because he may look "hardened" trust me, he anything but that.......

Maybe what we can learn from this, is don't judge people just by what ink they have on them or if they have hair or not - becasue if you think hard, you wiill see that anybody can take a life...... A guy that looks like Jesse and a guy that looks like a dam ken doll - don't pass judgment on others because thier choice to have ink of a shaved head!
AntoinetteinOC

Mission Viejo, CA

#19 Jan 25, 2010
Brad Butler wrote:
<quoted text>Wow, one of Jesse's former hoochies comes to defend him? How many kids did you pop out with him?
LOOK HERE YOU LITTLE SHIT - if you are referring to me being one of Jesses hoochies, you are sadly mistaken - I am a very close friend and have known this young man for many years...... So Brad, what your F mouth!
AntoinetteinOC

Mission Viejo, CA

#20 Jan 25, 2010
he wasnt innocent wrote:
i knew he needed help for drug abuse the family should have seen this too. now a child is dead.
Are you joking? YOU know squat about him or his family - if you did, you would never post such lies and BS - let me guess, you are one of the ignorant people trying to get involved in something YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT!

PISS OFF
AntoinetteinOC

Mission Viejo, CA

#21 Jan 25, 2010
DirtDestroyer wrote:
Another subhuman that lives among us.hopefully he will face the death penalty for killing an innocent 3 year old.
Lets pray the REAL KILLER gets what is deserved! Not the innocent man they have now
Paduki

Riverside, CA

#23 Jan 25, 2010
Attorney wrote:
Women, when will you learn to not date while your children are young. Now look, you'll be paying back with guilt for the rest of your life.
Men, I don't understand how you allow your child to live with another man. If your child lives with another man, you are no longer the dad. Your child is 90% more likely to be killed, hurt or molested when your children live with your ex because of men in your ex's life.
What a shame.
This is dead on correct. Take heed ladies. As a CPS worker I can tell you that stepfathers aren't all bad, but enough to make you beware.

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