Mike

Cedar Rapids, IA

#43 Aug 9, 2012
Married a Korean woman after many failed relationships with american womaen. Probably one of the best eperiences I've ever had. Her family is great, Her father and mother are great, I have a wonderful sister in law and three brother in laws. My wife gave up her family life traditions and pretty much everything to live with me in the United States. Her family is still in Korea.

She works out 4 to five hours a day at the gym and runs about three to foru miles every other day with our dogs. We have three children all of whom are exceptionally smart and are going to college.

I find no fault with American women except that I found a fantastic realtionship with a korean woman. We have been married for over 25 years and it like we got married yesterday. I repspect her entirely. I would expect that if people spent the time and effort to learn alittle bit about Korea history and culture, they might not have such harsh opinions.

I am guite happy with my life and I see it as successsful and quite the adventure. I learned a different language and my wife learned more that one.

I hope my opinion doesn't offend anyone as I find that being harsh to someone over who makes them happy.

I wonder about the tolerance level for the people that wrote some of these comments. I would hope that one day they realize that people should be allowed the opportunity to pursue happiness in any fashion they choose and with anyone they choose. I do not impose my beliefs on others but I do give people the benefit of the doubt.

I believe that Korean woman do not seek relationships with American men with alterior motives. I do no that not too many americvan women have had the misfortune of growing up like some Korean women. If they have I do apoloigize. We are all put on this earth to exist together. How we treat other people is how we can reflect on our life. If it's positive great, if it's negative, I image that would be one wasted life.

I enjoy the life I have with my wife and family. I would give my life for any and all of them. I only hope that when I die, I go after her as I cannot imagine the remorse and sadness she will have to endure if I leave her. I promised to be with her forever and if I have the opportunity to be reborn not that I am very religious, I would like to be reborn closer to her so I don't have to waite 24 years to meet her.

As I said, I do hope I have not offended anyone.

Thank you

Mike
Mike

Cedar Rapids, IA

#44 Aug 9, 2012
racheal wrote:
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Hmmm. Something about this post tells me you havent been married long. Report back to us after a couple of years when the sexual buzz has worn off. Ive lived in Asia for 10 years, long enough to have seen the sad results of these AM/AF couplings, once the rings have been exchanged and especially after a child (or 2) has come along. An unhappy marriage with an Asian-born man/woman is uniquely hellish- open your eyes, ask around and be enlightened if you want to spare yourself (and your children)future misery.
Living in an Asian country nullifies your response. Most Asian countries frown on interracial marraiges and as such are not conducive to a quality relationship. If you lived ther for 10 years I wonder if you or your spouse is in the military? I also wonder why your in asia for so long? COme back to the United States, we have allot going on here. We habe Obama, Hope and change, 8% unemployment and 25 Million American out of work.
Mike

Cedar Rapids, IA

#45 Aug 9, 2012
Anglosaxonette wrote:
From an English point of view....all the korean, philopinos, thai women who end up in England generally fit a stereotype...one always sees them out and about with much older, wealthy, fairly unattractive Englishmen....in fact the sort of man a refined English lady,of any age, wouldn't go for. What us anglophiles call ' dirty old men'. Men who visit these countries because they can't seduce an English girl/woman. He then gets his sexual kicks, a homemaker and his every whim dealt with. I know of one 'thai bride' who puts on her lazy hubbies socks and lights his cigs. Pathetic. Female emancipation has happened. In return these oriental brides get to infiltrate our already overpopulated shores, more third world people we don't need...and before you call me a racist...no...I'm a protectionist...and about protecting my own culture. England isn't like the USA, we are an ancient indigenous culture who have had immigration thrust in our faces disrespectfully in the last fifty years...and then these various groups come here and act arrogantly with a massive chip on their shoulders. The USA is fundamentally based on the melting pot of many cultures uniting. So please American males keep marrying these asian brides...we don't want them here...am fed up with seeing them in the supermarkets...and yeah, eventually they develop the chip on their shoulders...one can tell by their annoying screaching voices as they boss their sad old men around.
Well you need to talk to your parliment of prime minister, It seems you have Asians in supermarkets, and Muslims burning down towns, I guess you do have problems. As a matter of fact, Brits do have one thing Americans and Asians don't have. Soap in the supermarket, and an abundance of shampoo.
Mike

Cedar Rapids, IA

#46 Aug 9, 2012
Raven wrote:
American men who marry Korean women are fools. Race mixing is disgusting and these women are only using them to get to this country. I'd never consider a man whose been with an Asian. I'd much rather have a real man who could handle a real American woman.
A real man who can handle a real American Woman. I married an Asian because I couldn't find a real American Woman. All I found was a gameplayer, A liar, A cheater, A neverending eater, A drinker, A selfish career minded individual, A person that got bored easy, A person that needed complete control, A person that had no ambition, A person that was not very exciting, Didn't brush the teeth, A person that wore industrial strength makeup, Spent quite allot of time on the phone and in chat rooms, A person that ran up credit card bills and bounced numerous checks, etc, etc, etc.

Yeah I never actually met a real American WOman.
marie

Daejeon, Korea

#49 Aug 28, 2012
I've heard that it isn't unusual for Korean Women in their 30's to look for American men in their 40's who are high in financial status and try to attrack them and sometimes trick them into marriage by getting pregnant so they can come to the U.S... Is this true?

Yes this true...in korea, women are courtshiping men.. So they attrack men with they fake emotion just to get what they want. Korean women are luxurious in everything..specially they like more money. Money on their face!!! they are so obess in learning english..they will used you to earn it. what i can say is dont be fool to them
Eww

Las Vegas, NV

#50 Sep 2, 2012
Raven wrote:
American men who marry Korean women are fools. Race mixing is disgusting and these women are only using them to get to this country. I'd never consider a man whose been with an Asian. I'd much rather have a real man who could handle a real American woman.
Your ignorance is disgusting!
marie

Fort Bragg, NC

#51 Sep 4, 2012
Lucious wrote:
Because Korean women are good at taking care of her man needs. In return,the man appreciates and is more in tune with her.
will i have had three hispanic men in the last 6 months try to get ith me. all have korean wifes. they say they are cold now that they are here. only wqnt them to hurry up and no affection after sex??????????
Globetrekker

Lansdale, PA

#52 Sep 9, 2012
Laura wrote:
I don't really understand why these european and American chose to marry an asian... HOnestly, I am sorry but I feel disgusted...
Haha..don't be jealous. Latinas and American white women get too FAT.
Globetrekker

Lansdale, PA

#53 Sep 9, 2012
marie wrote:
<quoted text> will i have had three hispanic men in the last 6 months try to get ith me. all have korean wifes. they say they are cold now that they are here. only wqnt them to hurry up and no affection after sex??????????
Hispanic??? Korean women don't marry Hispanics. Look at the stats.
Korean women rarely marry people from the third world. South Korea is a wealthy country. Besides please speak proper English.
It's embarrassing.
carebear

Fort Riley, KS

#54 Dec 11, 2012
How can an american soldier that is married bring home a korean/american woman from korea. She is coming home with him after his tour in Korea. My understanding is that they must be engaged and/or pregnant. I know they can come on their own money but the soldier does not have the money to do this.
Please help or let me know where i can get some information.
Jim Beamis

Anseong, Korea

#55 Dec 30, 2012
I cant speak for women, but aren't most women instinctively looking for a good provider to eventually raise their children with? How does this classify Korean women as different than women from any other country?

If you're stupid enough to marry a shallow, materialistic bitch, you will eventually suffer no matter what her race is.

Most men are looking for a hot looking piece of ass who is loyal and has a desirable personality. Smart men prioritize the 2nd 2 of those traits and see the 1st as a bonus.
Irwin

Honolulu, HI

#56 Jan 19, 2013
Raven wrote:
American men who marry Korean women are fools. Race mixing is disgusting and these women are only using them to get to this country. I'd never consider a man whose been with an Asian. I'd much rather have a real man who could handle a real American woman.
----You are a fool to think that mixing race is not good? You come to Hawaii and then you will see the people have all the different races got mixed at least from
4 to 15 different bloods got mixed.*** The Korean women are highly educated and they are not FAT like American women and they do look pretty and they do not all have the disease like many fat people in America!
American Woman here

United States

#57 Mar 7, 2013
It is sad to say that all American women are judged to be less than Asian women. I can tell you now that i know how to treat a man with respect. I am not dating a Korean/American man that is married to an Asian woman. He and i have a date set and he is leaving with me. I have old fashioned values and he appreciates me. I respect him. He tells me his Asian wife does not carw about him or appreciate him. I know what your thinking. Your thinking he is just lieing to me to get what he wants. Wrong! He gives me a lot of many weekly to put in our saving account to leave together. We see eachother three times a week or more. Yes I feel I am better than his wife. Guess what. I am beautiful too. Small boned, brown eyes, american indian lightly colored skin, and most of all a lady. Asian women are not all that. His wife is demanding. I heard her on the phone yelling at him. Is this respect?
kiki drew

Aurora, CO

#58 Apr 7, 2013
This is a stupid post it really is. There are asian women who are loving and there are asian women who are hateful as hell too. And there are asian women who are nice to look at and there are asian women who look like trolls. don't be stupid.
b4ucmego

Wilmington, NC

#59 Apr 30, 2013
I have been married to my Korean wife for 14 years and she is better than any american chick in every way. Hard working, smarter,better in bed and don't have endocrine sweat glands that produce bad odors as is the case with other chicks.
Buddy Meistermann

Wayne, PA

#60 May 8, 2013
as a Korean missionary, working in the states with a very "specialized" outreach, having been exposed intimately to this wonderful culture, the Koreans, when they see you are truly interested in them, are wonderful friends and brothers and sisters in Christ / every foreign culture has those, who "want Green Card" / prove your selfless intent to the Koreans and they will selflessly give themselves to you / The.Bud.Meister@Hotmail.com
American Overseas

Tel Aviv, Israel

#61 May 26, 2013
I've been abroad for almost 40 years. If you are willing to be fair and look beyond your Americanism then marrying an Asian girl can be very satisfying. You can have a rewarding family life, but you do have to use common sense, good judgement, take time to be acceptable to her family and receive their approval. With the girl next door, you would do the same so just use your head and act with respect.
Pete

Fort Lee, NJ

#62 May 30, 2013
pete98146 wrote:
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That might be the silliest post I've ever read in my life. Almost feel off my chair laughing.
Handle a real American woman....lol. What happens if you don't want to handle a real American woman? What happens when you don't want a real American divorce in 7 years? Bwa ha ha...real American woman. Give me a break.
American men have many options. We are not pigeon-holed to only chose a real American woman anymore. I'm married to a lovely asian lady and it has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with my ability to handle a real American woman. What a joke.
Well said. I totally agree.
Michele

Destin, FL

#63 Jul 5, 2013
Angie wrote:
I have been told that when a woman from South Korea marries an American man , the first thing she does os turn him away from his American family, is this true?
That is so true! I ex husband was the most wonderful father to our son, but once he started dating this South Korean, he only sees his son every other weekend and on Wednesdays. He can not see what he is doing wrong. My son is only 10 and he has got to where he doesnt want to spend time with his father because he doesn't get any attention from him. His dad only gives it to her. I have tried to tell him that he is losing his son and he does not listen.
jakeusa

Mesquite, NV

#64 Aug 5, 2013
Laura wrote:
I don't really understand why these european and American chose to marry an asian... HOnestly, I am sorry but I feel disgusted...
its simple, we american men are all "roared" out! you are woman, and I have had crammed down my soul since I was 12, anything is better than you!

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