Korean Women marrying American men

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espods

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Jan 13, 2012
 

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Married to a Korean woman for 8 years and it's not true in my case.
married to a korean woman for over 35 years and we are still in love have two grand kids now and daughter married lawyer. So it is not true in my case.
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American men who marry Korean women are fools. Race mixing is disgusting and these women are only using them to get to this country. I'd never consider a man whose been with an Asian. I'd much rather have a real man who could handle a real American woman.
real men, you have no clue, you jet like to judge people,
do you have a real man? you sure he's a real man. how do yo know?
disgusting to who? you, get a life
I'm married to a Korean for 36 years and I'm very happy. how long have you been married? are you happy? from the words you wrote, I think you're not happy. Did so good looking Korean woman take away your man?
I'm writing this so when other people read this, they can see there are other people who don't agree with you.
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Yobo wrote:
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Married to a Korean woman for 8 years and it's not true in my case.
not true, ask her this question. I've been married to a Korean for 36 years. marriage is a two way street.

some people do odd things, so don,t think if one person has does what you said, it does not mean all people of that race are going to do the same thing.
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That might be the silliest post I've ever read in my life. Almost feel off my chair laughing.
Handle a real American woman....lol. What happens if you don't want to handle a real American woman? What happens when you don't want a real American divorce in 7 years? Bwa ha ha...real American woman. Give me a break.
American men have many options. We are not pigeon-holed to only chose a real American woman anymore. I'm married to a lovely asian lady and it has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with my ability to handle a real American woman. What a joke.
Hmmm. Something about this post tells me you havent been married long. Report back to us after a couple of years when the sexual buzz has worn off. Ive lived in Asia for 10 years, long enough to have seen the sad results of these AM/AF couplings, once the rings have been exchanged and especially after a child (or 2) has come along. An unhappy marriage with an Asian-born man/woman is uniquely hellish- open your eyes, ask around and be enlightened if you want to spare yourself (and your children)future misery.

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Hmmm. Something about this post tells me you havent been married long. Report back to us after a couple of years when the sexual buzz has worn off. Ive lived in Asia for 10 years, long enough to have seen the sad results of these AM/AF couplings, once the rings have been exchanged and especially after a child (or 2) has come along. An unhappy marriage with an Asian-born man/woman is uniquely hellish- open your eyes, ask around and be enlightened if you want to spare yourself (and your children)future misery.
I've been with her for 9 years now. Each day is better then the last day :) Don't see any reason at all why the marriage would fall apart. Also don't agree that marrying an asian is "uniquely hellish."

I married my wife for all the right reasons and not shallow lust. Sorry, don't see any future misery in the forecast.
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Enjoy each other. Work your marrage. Talk share listen. The rest will work out. If you work any marrage and you split up. Then it was not to be a long marrage. So go find someone else and try again. White black yellow brown if you are happy and she is happy and you get that lets get married. feeling.get married do your part and time will tell
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yea, for clarity, I think they were referring to the real american woman that looks good until she is about 25 years old...then she hooks a guy and gets married...and has a sense of entitlement that runs so deep that you can NEVER meet her "needs" which are really just wants. Along the way she'll put on 50 lbs, age 3 years for every calendar year, and begin picking apart her man's every move. Then, it's ineveitable, she'll leave and try to take the kids, and money with her...hey she's entitled to it..ALL.
Asian women are exactly the opposite of this....they stick by their man, take care of them in every way (especially in the bedroom, and the kitchen), and they only age 1 year for every 3 calendar years. But be warned, American women know this and will hate on you and your beautiful Asian woman....they rightly see them as everything they should be but aren't, and they are threatened by this truth.
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That might be the silliest post I've ever read in my life. Almost feel off my chair laughing.
Handle a real American woman....lol. What happens if you don't want to handle a real American woman? What happens when you don't want a real American divorce in 7 years? Bwa ha ha...real American woman. Give me a break.
American men have many options. We are not pigeon-holed to only chose a real American woman anymore. I'm married to a lovely asian lady and it has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with my ability to handle a real American woman. What a joke.
Curt

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Raven wrote:
American men who marry Korean women are fools. Race mixing is disgusting and these women are only using them to get to this country. I'd never consider a man whose been with an Asian. I'd much rather have a real man who could handle a real American woman.
Haha funny as hell. So obviously are you saying that American women are real and authentic. "ABOVE ALL" while Asian women are not?
First of all, I hope you're gonna be kept in shape after 30.
Second of all, I wish you are willing to sacrifice your life for family value
Third and most importantly, I wish you have as much humility.

Everything else was your opinion, but "a real man" part was dumb.
WFT is real man got to do with marrying an asian women.. obviously somebody is "less educated"
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From an English point of view....all the korean, philopinos, thai women who end up in England generally fit a stereotype...one always sees them out and about with much older, wealthy, fairly unattractive Englishmen....in fact the sort of man a refined English lady,of any age, wouldn't go for. What us anglophiles call ' dirty old men'. Men who visit these countries because they can't seduce an English girl/woman. He then gets his sexual kicks, a homemaker and his every whim dealt with. I know of one 'thai bride' who puts on her lazy hubbies socks and lights his cigs. Pathetic. Female emancipation has happened. In return these oriental brides get to infiltrate our already overpopulated shores, more third world people we don't need...and before you call me a racist...no...I'm a protectionist...and about protecting my own culture. England isn't like the USA, we are an ancient indigenous culture who have had immigration thrust in our faces disrespectfully in the last fifty years...and then these various groups come here and act arrogantly with a massive chip on their shoulders. The USA is fundamentally based on the melting pot of many cultures uniting. So please American males keep marrying these asian brides...we don't want them here...am fed up with seeing them in the supermarkets...and yeah, eventually they develop the chip on their shoulders...one can tell by their annoying screaching voices as they boss their sad old men around.
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Mar 14, 2012
 
And...forgot to add, I have never seen an attractive young English man with one of these brides....the lure of their homegrown roses is still too strong. And whoever it was who mass insulted western women...I somehow don't think orientals could ever emulate Monroe, Bardot, Vivien Leigh, Charlize Theron, Scarlett etc etc....there is something unique and beautiful in the western visage that the rather austere face and sometimes cruel looking eyes of the oriental face could never embody....afterall if they were deemed more attractive by the masses then the western world would have made them our 'FILMSTARS'. Stop bashing western women, just because you can't get a quality one.
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Mar 15, 2012
 
I agree sister....but you forgot Grace Kelly. The sad American men who come on here bigging up Asian women and slagging, actually stereotyping US girls, are probably gross specimens themselves. Bet they wouldn't have as much luck with European girls??? Seen some beautiful girls in Europe who far supersede Asian women, who let's face it are just using the American jerks on here for a better life, even if they gotta whore themselves. But hey I'm a hypocrit, so I'll slag American men, they are just loudmouth thick lard asses themselves who could never compare to some of the gorgeous,mannerly sexy accented British guys I've met. And yeah, I'm dating one. For the record I run 8km a day, weigh 120ibs, and have a bust unlike flat chested Koreans. American girls rise up and be counted!
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Mar 25, 2012
 
Very bitter comments from some who seem to have deep psychological issues.
Maybe Dragon Ladies aren't exclusively Asian?

Racism can be a two way street, there are Asians who resent the fact that Westerners hold to stereotypes about them; and maybe they also become over-sensitive while looking for signs of this racism.

Just additional hurdles for anyone who chooses to cross a line.

Asian women age all at once, overnight when they get old enough. Western women age little by little, looking older every year so it might seem less sudden, and less obvious. But old is old.

It's middle age (35-50) where typical Asian beauties still seem young and sexy while middle age Western women appear matronly and aged.
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Mar 26, 2012
 
Pc nonsense....from someone who has been psychologically manipulated, we all have a right to our opinion. Difference in culture will cause racism always. Get real. Other ethnicities are racist, asian men hate to see their women with white men. Is this not racist? Ermmm yes. Stick to your own culture, much simpler and less tension, different cultures will eventually clash. Look at history to discover this.
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Mar 28, 2012
 
I guess you could say I started this post in 2008, ow almost 4 years later, I am still trying to understand what is going on. My brother was very close to my parents, now he hasn't had contact with them for 9 years, since he he married his Korean bride. Yes , there are family problems, but they do not surround my parents. They are truely grieving for their only son, and their two grandson's, that he took with him when they "disappeared". I just need to know how to speak with them, I do have an email address, to make them understand how much they are breaking my parents hearts. My parents are elderly, and truely do not know why they are being treated this way. Please, any advise at all?????
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Raven wrote:
American men who marry Korean women are fools. Race mixing is disgusting and these women are only using them to get to this country. I'd never consider a man whose been with an Asian. I'd much rather have a real man who could handle a real American woman.
Raven, Why so hostile? Some american men prefer Asian women because they don't try to change a man into someone there not. American women want their careers (not a bad thing) however they believe what is his is yours and what is yours is, "YOURS". At least there is (not in all cases) equality. Trying to change a man is american womans goal. I'm who I am....don't change that!

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Apr 11, 2012
 
PaBountyMan wrote:
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Raven, Why so hostile? Some american men prefer Asian women because they don't try to change a man into someone there not. American women want their careers (not a bad thing) however they believe what is his is yours and what is yours is, "YOURS". At least there is (not in all cases) equality. Trying to change a man is american womans goal. I'm who I am....don't change that!
White men and asian women. Wow, I've never seen such a heated topic before in my life. There are probably a dozen threads on Topix that talk about this issue.

But you are right, many posters such as Raven are just dripping with hostility.

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Apr 11, 2012
 
Nick wrote:
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100% agree. I am happily married to a Korean.
I agree, married to a beautiful Korean woman, I mean WOMAN for 38 years and we are best friends as well. Sure there were some bumps in the road but her values regarding family and wonderful. We have 2 beautifuls daughters who are both successful and college educated. I see so many of my friends married to american women talking nothing but "trash" about their wives while I can only say wonderful things about my best friend and soul mate.
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Apr 15, 2012
 
I was married to a Korean woman for 28 years. My family loved her and I loved her family. The only reason that we're not married anymore is because she passed away in 2010.
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Jul 10, 2012
 
PaBountyMan wrote:
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Raven, Why so hostile? Some american men prefer Asian women because they don't try to change a man into someone there not. American women want their careers (not a bad thing) however they believe what is his is yours and what is yours is, "YOURS". At least there is (not in all cases) equality. Trying to change a man is american womans goal. I'm who I am....don't change that!
I feel bad when a guy offers to buy something expensive because he worked hard for that money. If he says something "I want for the both of us to be happy so I got you this", then my respond will be different (yet I would still feel bad). I'm definitely not into expensive things or want an expensive ring (under 1,000 would be great). I may be an "American" woman but I still have my culture in me (bi-cultural that is).
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Jul 14, 2012
 
Wow. They have some seriously pissed off white women in here. It's really impressive. Maybe one day they'll figure out how to act like women and we'll take them back. Until that day, it's asian women for me.

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