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feeling guilty

Greeneville, TN

#1 Feb 5, 2013
I have a guilty conscience but I just can't help myself. There has been an innocent flirtation going on between me and a married man I know for some time. Now his wife is sick and he is sex starved. Our flirting crossed the line and I am feeling guilty. I know we should stop but the feelings are very strong. I thought he really loved her and just enjoyed our flirting but I am not so sure any more. There are no children involved. They don't have any children together but he does by another marriage. I don't know where this will end up but it just gets better each time except for the guilt at times. Please don't lecture. If his marriage was a strong one he certainly wouldn't stray when she needs him most.
BMC

Knoxville, TN

#2 Feb 5, 2013
You are only looking for someone to tell you, what UR doing is ok. Other wise you would not say " DONT LECTURE" you already know what the right thing is little physical pleasure is NOT worth sacrificing morals. If you were the wife you would not feel the same way. If he is straying on her he will do the same to you!
BMC

Knoxville, TN

#3 Feb 5, 2013
Flirting is a healthly thing between 2 people, but once you cross the line you gone to far. If hes does love hes wife and does want to be with her then he needs to tell her . It will hurt her more to find out thur someone else. More likely hes stroking hes on echo and is not going no where, but home.
feeling guilty

Greeneville, TN

#4 Feb 8, 2013
At least for now I have convinced him he needs to stay with her but I don't think we can stop seeing each other once in awhile. He needs me to. I think what I can give him right now will help him stay with her. They hadn't been married that long before she started having problems. Sickness is awful on everybody in a family.
feeling guilty

Greeneville, TN

#5 Feb 12, 2013
Don't you just hate it when your baby goes out of town. Baby thank goodness you called. Just know I love you and know what a hard time you are having of it. I'll leave you another message soon. Hang in there.
LOGIC PLEASE

Kodak, TN

#6 Feb 23, 2013
No lecture,just facts.
YOU ARE A TRAMP!
Man or woman,messing around with married people is TRAMPY!!!!!
just saying

United States

#7 Feb 23, 2013
feeling guilty wrote:
At least for now I have convinced him he needs to stay with her but I don't think we can stop seeing each other once in awhile. He needs me to. I think what I can give him right now will help him stay with her. They hadn't been married that long before she started having problems. Sickness is awful on everybody in a family.
I think both of u are just wrong heck she is sick he should be there for her no matter what couldn't u find a man that isn't married
The Answer

Glen Allen, VA

#8 Feb 23, 2013
Just enjoy the sex and remind yourselves he needs to stay with her. Y'all aren't hurting anything. I could use a little extra sex too. Are you getting enough?
Thinking

La Follette, TN

#9 Feb 23, 2013
I'm still thinking on which one of you are the biggest piece oh chit! So I'll have to get back to you unless you both get an STD and pass so your not using the good air the sick lady could use. One can hope anyhow.
feeling guilty wrote:
I have a guilty conscience but I just can't help myself. There has been an innocent flirtation going on between me and a married man I know for some time. Now his wife is sick and he is sex starved. Our flirting crossed the line and I am feeling guilty. I know we should stop but the feelings are very strong. I thought he really loved her and just enjoyed our flirting but I am not so sure any more. There are no children involved. They don't have any children together but he does by another marriage. I don't know where this will end up but it just gets better each time except for the guilt at times. Please don't lecture. If his marriage was a strong one he certainly wouldn't stray when she needs him most.
sparky

Powell, TN

#10 Feb 23, 2013
I won't judge you, hell if you want to play some more let me know. I come to Bristol regularly.

Since: Mar 12

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#11 Feb 23, 2013
feeling guilty wrote:
If his marriage was a strong one he certainly wouldn't stray when she needs him most.
You've already shown, with that statement, that you have got the self-justification thing down pat.

You have that God-given thing called a conscience to guide you. You have already chosen to ignore it. You just want to be rid of the guilt feelings.

You know better. That's why they aren't going away.

Since: Feb 13

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#12 Feb 27, 2013
Let me comment to you as a wife of 17 years to a man who was married before and had children. I raised his son through elementary and middle school and took care of him as a Mother should and love him just like my own child; while cooking dinner everyday after work, waiting on my husband hand and foot, bathing him, being intimate up to 6 times a day at times for 14 years, keeping up with laundry and all the wife duties. Our children were very active in athletics so constant games practice and cheerleading. We made it thru all of those years to include my husband being out of work for 3 years having 5 surgeries and I cared for him. I have worked full time and accomplished college. There was an incidence of infidelity but as a Christian I forgave and stayed with him because of loving him more than anything and knowing marriage is very sacred. I love him with my whole heart and have now been married 17 years and let me tell you I got sick this year and find out that he met a girl probably like you (and our marriage was strong) and he ended up being unfaithful to me with the girl he met. She should have never been with a married man! You don't know the sacrifices his wife has made and the love she has for him as I do mine but we have been apart now for 2 weeks over someone like you because even though he is who told me....it hurts and lets face it if he lies to her he will lie to you. Now that mine is gone because of infidelity with a harlot I hear I love you and dont want a divorce and even though I am sick I will get better. When you marry it is in sickness and health and this type of thing should never happen. People should have morals about themselves and put theirself in the other persons position before making stupid decisions. So my advice is get out leave him alone because YES HE CAN LOVE HIS WIFE and screw you there is a difference the question is WHAT WILL IT COST HIM AND YOU....YOU REAP WHAT YOU SO AND KARMA IS REAL!!
Anonymous

Knoxville, TN

#13 Feb 28, 2013
Good, you SHOULD feel guilty. You are sleeping with a married man, and there is no way you can justify that. How can you be so stupid to make yourself believe that "what you give him now will help him stay with her"? That makes absolutely no sense at all. If you legitimately care about him staying with his wife, then stop sleeping with him. And even if their marriage isn't strong, that still does not excuse your actions. You are just as guilty as he is, and there is not a single valid excuse for either of you. The fact that his wife is sick only makes it worse, too. I'm not going to sit here and tell you that you are going to hell or anything (im not even a christian), but I will tell you that you are a bad person, and by trying to get someone to justify what you are doing to you only makes you that much more despicable. You should be ashamed of yourself not only for being a wh*re, but for being retarded enough to think for a second that what you are doing is ok in any way at all. I hope there truly is a Hell for people like you.
may i ask

Monroe, NC

#15 Feb 28, 2013
This mansion first name? Because if it is my husband you can have him.no fight. No contest. He's yours.
may i ask

Monroe, NC

#16 Feb 28, 2013
Just his first name or his. First letter of first and last name.pleas
e.if its the one.you will have him tonight.
i say

Boiling Springs, SC

#17 Mar 1, 2013
may i ask wrote:
Just his first name or his. First letter of first and last name.pleas
e.if its the one.you will have him tonight.
Guess a cat got your younger and bit your fingers off so you can't type. You gonna sleep with a married man at least give a way that only his wife would know him.and give her the choice if she wants to stay with this man or walk. Kinda car he drives? First letter where he works? Street he lives? Something. You started this so give the unknowing wife her own choice.
webbelwobble

Lilburn, GA

#18 Mar 2, 2013
Have fun in bell in the std patch. Again a lot of people cheat...with preachers. Drs. Judges. Bums. Druggies.
trashbag

United States

#19 Mar 3, 2013
It's alright girl be a trashbag slutbag like your mom and greasy greasy granny.
still say

Indian Trail, NC

#20 Mar 4, 2013
The wife should know sick or not. So she can make her own choice. Does anybody know who this man is? Its pretty shitty that most people seem to know but her.and she is one getting hurt when all said and done. So if you know his name post it.
Muhammad

Loudon, TN

#22 Mar 4, 2013
Stone the infidel

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