I wish I could help more. I know how overwhelming it can be. You try to hang on as long as you can but it gets to the point where you just can't do anymore.Thank you Ca-lo for your reply. I do check him for bruises and skin breaks. They are really good about notifying us if something does occur on him and an explanation. I took care of my dad at home under hospice for a year with no cna help, just nurses, to keep him out of a home. Then my husband, and now I am taking care of mom to keep her out of one. I took care of my relative at home too until I became overwhelmed and had no choice in the matter. I talk to some of the other families that are visiting their loved ones from time to time. I don't ask though about being treated different though. Thank you again.
Your a wonderful person to give so much of yourself for your loved ones. Take care.