searching for birth mother

searching for birth mother

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Brandon Oaks Adoption

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#1 Sep 12, 2012
I am a male in desperate search of my biological mother. I don't know a whole lot about my adoption but I do know a little. My birth name was Brandon Oaks I was born Christmas Day in the year 1990 in Knoxville Tennessee. I was adopted along with my older half brother William Willis Jr., and my younger half brother Travis Oaks. My birth mother was working as a hotel maid somewhere in Knoxville around the time I was adopted. My birth mother was born May 1st 1969 somewhere in Indiana and moved to knoxville when she turned 14 years old where she was later placed in foster care until the age 18. She was supposibly blind inn one eye anf has brown hair and brown eyes. She weighed 120 pounds and was 5 foot 2 inches. She did not graduate highschool. I was told she used to live somewhere on University Avenue but I don't know that for sure. If my birth mother is'nt looking for me then that's fine she don't have to but that does'nt mean I'm gonna stop looking for her. The adoption papers said she wished for us to visit her if we wished to when we got older. I wonder if she thinks about me every Christmas? Nobody can forget having a baby on Christmas. If you have any information that you know or think could help me please leave me a comment and tell me what you know, I will read this topix as much as possible so I can see what people are gonna say. If you are a childish immature idiot who has nothing else to do bit get on here nd make up stupid ass jokes about people thinking this is somehow funny then please do I like reading what stupid people have to say.
Drunken Indian

Lenoir City, TN

#3 Sep 12, 2012
Are we supposed to really believe this drivel?
You palefaces are an odd bunch.
user

Knoxville, TN

#4 Sep 13, 2012
Brandon Oaks Adoption wrote:
I am a male in desperate search of my biological mother. I don't know a whole lot about my adoption but I do know a little. My birth name was Brandon Oaks I was born Christmas Day in the year 1990 in Knoxville Tennessee. I was adopted along with my older half brother William Willis Jr., and my younger half brother Travis Oaks. My birth mother was working as a hotel maid somewhere in Knoxville around the time I was adopted. My birth mother was born May 1st 1969 somewhere in Indiana and moved to knoxville when she turned 14 years old where she was later placed in foster care until the age 18. She was supposibly blind inn one eye anf has brown hair and brown eyes. She weighed 120 pounds and was 5 foot 2 inches. She did not graduate highschool. I was told she used to live somewhere on University Avenue but I don't know that for sure. If my birth mother is'nt looking for me then that's fine she don't have to but that does'nt mean I'm gonna stop looking for her. The adoption papers said she wished for us to visit her if we wished to when we got older. I wonder if she thinks about me every Christmas? Nobody can forget having a baby on Christmas. If you have any information that you know or think could help me please leave me a comment and tell me what you know, I will read this topix as much as possible so I can see what people are gonna say. If you are a childish immature idiot who has nothing else to do bit get on here nd make up stupid ass jokes about people thinking this is somehow funny then please do I like reading what stupid people have to say.
if you were adopted by Tennessee, you can ask for your adoption records.
Brandon Oaks Adoption

United States

#5 Sep 14, 2012
I was adopted by Tennessee, but wouldn't I have to pay to find out? And thanks for not being a childish prick about this unlike some people, who do know their birth parents maybe if they didn't they would know how I feel but they don't.
Jason

Knoxville, TN

#6 Sep 14, 2012
Yeah, don't you know that Topix is meant to be used for REALLY important things like who is sleeping with who and who is taking what kind of pills?

Seriously, don't pay attention to the trolls. I hope you find what you are looking for. I wish you nothing but luck.
user

United States

#7 Sep 14, 2012
Brandon Oaks Adoption wrote:
I was adopted by Tennessee, but wouldn't I have to pay to find out? And thanks for not being a childish prick about this unlike some people, who do know their birth parents maybe if they didn't they would know how I feel but they don't.
I really don't know the specifics but try the Dcs office. Ask for someone in adoptions maybe they can help

“I'M ME”

Since: Mar 09

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#8 Sep 14, 2012
Thank you and the Doctor's Office want really give me the information I am needing/wanting.
hope

Knoxville, TN

#9 Sep 14, 2012
Yes start, with dhs. I wish you the best of luck and hope you find your real mom., good luck and gods speed. Just believe and don't ever give up. You will find your mother. Check dhs or county building under, adoption, wish you the best.

“I'M ME”

Since: Mar 09

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#10 Sep 14, 2012
I have to pay to find out there.
Cards 32 Mildcats 14

Knoxville, TN

#11 Sep 15, 2012
Yeah, I can see why it sin't worth paying to find you mother. Good call.

“I'M ME”

Since: Mar 09

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#12 Sep 15, 2012
No I called and they saidt would cost 700 dollars to find out, that's alot of money to find out who brought me to this earth, I think I shouldn't hace to pay a penny to find my mom
real bigT

Knoxville, TN

#13 Sep 15, 2012
As clueless and wimpy as you sound it's not a wonder your mommy left you behind.
Man up, Grow a set and get on with your life.
SoulMan

Wartburg, TN

#15 Sep 15, 2012
Try these: Have you talked with your adoptive parents?
Check your birth certificate for a name.
Check with legal aid and DHS.
Put an ad in the newspaper.
Check with the courts in the state you were adopted on your case.

These are just ideas, you might of already tried them. Best of luck!

“I'M ME”

Since: Mar 09

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#16 Sep 16, 2012
tried

“I'M ME”

Since: Mar 09

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#17 Sep 16, 2012
Nothing I have tried seems to work, and nobody I know or that knows me seems to know anything about it either.
Otis

Knoxville, TN

#18 Sep 16, 2012
Cheapskate. You must not want to know very badly if money stops you that easy. No wonder she dumped you. She saw what a loser you were and cut her loses. Either get a job and make the damn money or STFU about it and quit whining that people won't just GIVE you shit.

“I'M ME”

Since: Mar 09

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#19 Sep 16, 2012
hahahaha
rude

Charlotte, NC

#20 Sep 17, 2012
Don't listen to these jerks. Do you have any idea why her name could have been? I know from experience its hard to find a parent. Luckily for me I knew a name so I did find the parent. Your mother didn't leave you for any of the reasons posted above im sure. Keep your head up!
Otis

Knoxville, TN

#21 Sep 17, 2012
rude wrote:
Don't listen to these jerks. Do you have any idea why her name could have been? I know from experience its hard to find a parent. Luckily for me I knew a name so I did find the parent. Your mother didn't leave you for any of the reasons posted above im sure. Keep your head up!
Really? Why don't you just loan him the money, then? This way this loser will quit whining about it costing him something to find his mother who dumped him at birth. Oh, and you don't have any clue about why his mother dumped him off on taxpayer's to raise. We'll also get stuck with hos welfare and eventually his prison stays. So you pay for it you ya damn bleeding heart.

“I'M ME”

Since: Mar 09

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#23 Sep 17, 2012
she left me because she had 3 boys from 3 different sorry ass dads and couldnt take care of her and us 3 alone

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