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Going out of my mind

Blaine, TN

#23 Dec 5, 2012
Some of u all r crazy. A person sometimes can not help the way they r. I love this man with all my heart and yes we have kids together. I think more people would come out and tell they r gay bi etc. But people in this world make it hard to. I love him to death, even if he is bi. I would love to marry his man, bc he is a great man and a great dad. I put this on here to hear what people would say little did i know people would act like kids. When I said dont be shy, I did not mean to act like 2 year olds.
Secret Society

Knoxville, TN

#24 Dec 5, 2012
Going out of my mind wrote:
Some of u all r crazy. A person sometimes can not help the way they r. I love this man with all my heart and yes we have kids together. I think more people would come out and tell they r gay bi etc. But people in this world make it hard to. I love him to death, even if he is bi. I would love to marry his man, bc he is a great man and a great dad. I put this on here to hear what people would say little did i know people would act like kids. When I said dont be shy, I did not mean to act like 2 year olds.
Well there you go,you answered your own question.Go ahead and marry the half a homo.And when the wedding bells ring make sure the tinkerbells sing.
Amber 1976

Kingston, TN

#25 Dec 5, 2012
Going out of my mind wrote:
I have always thought something was up with my bf. So for a year now I have asked him and asked and asked him, no say no everytime. But me being me I make a fb of a girl, he wont be her friend, so i try another girl same thing, so again i try another girl samething, so that is 3 girls he says no to. So again me being me, I make one of a really hot guy he friends him. With 2 hours he is talking about sex having sex that he is bi everything. Here I am on the other end going crazy, and he is e-mailing me at the same time saying he loves me. I e-mail myself from one of the girls i made and said it was the guys ex gf the stuff from him and this guy and say look what someone sent me, he says it was ok bc he dont know him. So on the 3 night, he is getting really into with his guy about having sex so I let the cat out of the bag and show him it is me. He says he is so sorry and he should have told me. He tells me he has had sex with one guy only and it was way before me. He says he loves me and would never cheat on me, but I just have the feeling he is still going to want a guy, bc I sure dont have a d*ck. He stays on fb alot so i got on his fb and all he is looking at all day is bi guys gay guys...etc. He says he loves me but says he will never marry me bc his last 2 ex wifes walked out on him. We have kids together I dont know what to do. I love this man and it is killing me. Tell me what you think and dont be shy.But try to keep in mind I do love him so much and we do have kids together
Girl you better get over him kids or not or love him or not cause u said he told u that he wouldnt cheat. Well he did with a guy and thats alot worse then another girl. Get help raising your kids and get out before your kids find out cause u dont want your kids to think its ok to bne bi. Thats what is wrong with this world people dont have God in their lives and dont feel guilty about nothing so if your bf likes packing that shit then get the hell away from him. He is NASTY.
Cain

Lenoir City, TN

#27 Dec 6, 2012
You really do a disservice to Jerry Springer. This place is much more ridiculous. It kind of reminds me of air travel. When the price got so low that even idiots could afford to fly, it was down the chute from there. This place is more like a circus sideshow in a small west Texas town. Plenty of freaks, but only a few come out to see them.
Well

Knoxville, TN

#29 Dec 6, 2012
Going out of my mind wrote:
Some of u all r crazy. A person sometimes can not help the way they r. I love this man with all my heart and yes we have kids together. I think more people would come out and tell they r gay bi etc. But people in this world make it hard to. I love him to death, even if he is bi. I would love to marry his man, bc he is a great man and a great dad. I put this on here to hear what people would say little did i know people would act like kids. When I said dont be shy, I did not mean to act like 2 year olds.
I would leave him. Just think, he was about to cheat on you with a man! A friend told me Craig's List " men 4 men" was discusting! Just take a look. There is all kids of married men soliticing other men. I told my husband he ever did that and he would have nothing to use!! I would kick his butt out and find someone who will be a good role model for your children!!
Karma

Clarksville, TN

#30 Dec 6, 2012
Going out of my mind wrote:
Some of u all r crazy. A person sometimes can not help the way they r. I love this man with all my heart and yes we have kids together. I think more people would come out and tell they r gay bi etc. But people in this world make it hard to. I love him to death, even if he is bi. I would love to marry his man, bc he is a great man and a great dad. I put this on here to hear what people would say little did i know people would act like kids. When I said dont be shy, I did not mean to act like 2 year olds.
It sounds as if you will only take the advice of people that agree with your desire to stay with this man. You will never be able to trust him now that you have proof he lied, if that is really how you want to live your life go for it. I just hope your children don't have to suffer for your (and his) selfish decisions. Best of luck to you.
Going out of my mind

Blaine, TN

#31 Dec 6, 2012
I do want the advice of everyone. Its just hard bc I do love this man with all my heart. Idk what to do. I am worried that he will cheat on my, but at the same time I dont think he would cheat.
Karma

Clarksville, TN

#32 Dec 6, 2012
Look, you obviously already KNOW he will cheat, why else would you setup all those fb pages to "catch" him? And by your own words it didn't take him long at all to take the bait. What do you think would have happened if you hadn't told him you set up the pages??? You will never have peace if you stay with him. I'm sorry but that's just how it is.
privatalia

Knoxville, TN

#33 Dec 6, 2012
Don't follow heart. Don't make a huge mistake based on what you wish were true. He's on FB all the time & according to you ignoring women and embracing men. You're setting yourself & your children for heartbreak. I'm about sure he's having sex with men more often than he's having sex with YOU. HIV,AIDS,HERPES,SYPH & the clap in all forms, he'll pollute your privatalia, your mind, your self esteem and your children's lives. I think I've spoken the truth to you, now abandon your quest for advice on Topix and go to a therapist. If you continue with thread I'll have to go with my first instinct. That's the feeling you're a troll who's playing a game with the simple minded and mean spirited who frequent these Topix boards.
You KNOW what you have to do, now do it.
Going out of my mind

Blaine, TN

#34 Dec 6, 2012
privatalia
We work together side by side everyday in a very small place, we live together, everything just about together,he dont go anywhere without me. So bc he did something one time before we got together and ya he did talk about it to a guy but at the same time he did not do a thing with him. When I was talking for the guy on fb and asked him to meet me, he told the guy no bc he loved me, and he told the guy he would not cheat on me. He said he did not want to tell me bc he was worried i would walk away. So really who am i to hold his past over his head, bc EVERYONE has a past.
EEEEEECH

Knoxville, TN

#35 Dec 7, 2012
Going out of my mind wrote:
.....So really who am i to hold his past over his head......
Same one to tie up with a queer it seems.
Just Me

Livingston, TN

#36 Dec 7, 2012
Going out of my mind wrote:
privatalia
We work together side by side everyday in a very small place, we live together, everything just about together,he dont go anywhere without me. So bc he did something one time before we got together and ya he did talk about it to a guy but at the same time he did not do a thing with him. When I was talking for the guy on fb and asked him to meet me, he told the guy no bc he loved me, and he told the guy he would not cheat on me. He said he did not want to tell me bc he was worried i would walk away. So really who am i to hold his past over his head, bc EVERYONE has a past.
You are in such denial - an important part of any relationship is trust and each day will be a struggle for you to trust him. Many homosexuals try to live a straight life - marry, have kids - and eventually come out. Like Jessica Simpson's dad.
Now, you state he is with you all the time and cannot get out and cheat but are you going to keep an eye on him 24/7? What kind of life is that for any of you?
I personally know of a gay co-worker who was married for 20 years (had 2 kids) and came out of the closest. His family has disowned him - even his kids. The sad thing is he is HIV positive and meets up with many men on-line. Some are married and although he claims they safe sex, there is a great risk. I am telling you this because if he does cheat, he may give you something that you may not be aware of for years. And I do no mean only homosexuals but heterosexual sex has risks too. I knew one woman who was having martial problems and while her husband was gone a business trip, she found out he had been arrested for picking up a prostitute. Turned out he had been doing this for years and she divorced him but she was scared she might have been exposed to all kinds of STDs (not to mention the emotional pain).

The best thing for both of you to do is go to therapy. Both of you stay off the internet and figure out if your relationship can survive. No matter how much you love someone, you can't change them and you may not think you kids know what is going on but they prob do (unless they are infants). I sincerely hope the best for all of you.
Anna

Knoxville, TN

#37 Dec 7, 2012
I'm sure you do love him. But do you want to raise your kids letting them think that its ok? People can say there born like that are whatever but god didnt make any of us like that its just yourself and the deviel getting his way...well when you go out is he paying attention to you are the guy at the next table? never put your self second he need to fix hisself before i would go any further in a relationship. rember always put your childern first there depending on you they will be there when a man ant. i hope you the best and hope you make the right decion but you will have to make it your self.
how crazy

Kingston, TN

#38 Dec 7, 2012
Going out of my mind wrote:
privatalia
We work together side by side everyday in a very small place, we live together, everything just about together,he dont go anywhere without me. So bc he did something one time before we got together and ya he did talk about it to a guy but at the same time he did not do a thing with him. When I was talking for the guy on fb and asked him to meet me, he told the guy no bc he loved me, and he told the guy he would not cheat on me. He said he did not want to tell me bc he was worried i would walk away. So really who am i to hold his past over his head, bc EVERYONE has a past.
well move out and get out on your own without a man. Dam Im a 36 year old woman and dont need a stupid ass man around. You already had a idea that he wasnt going top be the one. Why would you want to have kids outside of marriage? Thats a unstable for your kids
Going out of my mind

Blaine, TN

#39 Dec 7, 2012
My kids r babies and i love this man to death. Do you think this is not killing me, my heart is broke. Do you really think I wanted to hear the father of my kids is bi gay or whatever. Like my name says I am GOING OUT OF MY MIND. I dont have family Ihave noone but this man and my kids.
real bigT

Knoxville, TN

#40 Dec 7, 2012
Just STFU already.
Maxine

Knoxville, TN

#41 Dec 7, 2012
Blah, blah, blah. Enough out of you.
U are out of your mind

Knoxville, TN

#42 Dec 8, 2012
Going out of my mind wrote:
My kids r babies and i love this man to death. Do you think this is not killing me, my heart is broke. Do you really think I wanted to hear the father of my kids is bi gay or whatever. Like my name says I am GOING OUT OF MY MIND. I dont have family Ihave noone but this man and my kids.
I have always heard if your faily has disowned u and wont help then theres something wrong with you. Get a job find you a babysitter and prove to yourself and him that you dont need his sorry ass. Too many women give these pity stories about how they cant do it on their own and they need a man. A man will only hold you back in life but it soundsa like your to young and dumb to listen to whats right. You only think you love this boy toy cause you didnt have good role models growing up so you mistake his actions for love. Trust me honey theres alot better men out there. Women seem to get hung up over one guy and then when and if they move on, they think back to all the years that they wasted thinking they loved the boy
The Stud

Irving, TX

#45 Dec 12, 2012
Going out of my mind wrote:
I have always thought something was up with my bf. So for a year now I have asked him and asked and asked him, no say no everytime. But me being me I make a fb of a girl, he wont be her friend, so i try another girl same thing, so again i try another girl samething, so that is 3 girls he says no to. So again me being me, I make one of a really hot guy he friends him. With 2 hours he is talking about sex having sex that he is bi everything. Here I am on the other end going crazy, and he is e-mailing me at the same time saying he loves me. I e-mail myself from one of the girls i made and said it was the guys ex gf the stuff from him and this guy and say look what someone sent me, he says it was ok bc he dont know him. So on the 3 night, he is getting really into with his guy about having sex so I let the cat out of the bag and show him it is me. He says he is so sorry and he should have told me. He tells me he has had sex with one guy only and it was way before me. He says he loves me and would never cheat on me, but I just have the feeling he is still going to want a guy, bc I sure dont have a d*ck. He stays on fb alot so i got on his fb and all he is looking at all day is bi guys gay guys...etc. He says he loves me but says he will never marry me bc his last 2 ex wifes walked out on him. We have kids together I dont know what to do. I love this man and it is killing me. Tell me what you think and dont be shy.But try to keep in mind I do love him so much and we do have kids together
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