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Hardworker

Houston, TX

#1 Apr 4, 2013
I'm in my early 40's.maried and have a son,home,etc.......well when I was in high school a had a girlfriend and it was amazing love.. Young love.we were off and then on through our sr year .i got a scholarship and I went for it... When I came home for the holidays I stopper by her house and her mom told me she had changed . We had grown apart . Long story short -she got pregnant that same year and got maried .. She called me to tell me she was getting maried and I responded by telling her how many months was she? She started to cry and I told her congratulations and that she was a strong smart beautiful woman that can do what ever she puts her mind on doing ..........and that's the last time I talked to her....it's has bin 22 years or so .... I've done the collage partying thing. I'm doing the good husband thing,and I'm definitely doing the good dad thing... The only thing is that part in my heart still thinks about her all the time and I feel guilty because I love my wife and son... This is the first time I let anyone know my secret and it feels good ..
Hardworker

Houston, TX

#2 Apr 5, 2013
Dang not one comment ... Anyone

Since: Mar 13

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#3 Apr 5, 2013
Hardworker wrote:
I'm in my early 40's.maried and have a son,home,etc.......well when I was in high school a had a girlfriend and it was amazing love.. Young love.we were off and then on through our sr year .i got a scholarship and I went for it... When I came home for the holidays I stopper by her house and her mom told me she had changed . We had grown apart . Long story short -she got pregnant that same year and got maried .. She called me to tell me she was getting maried and I responded by telling her how many months was she? She started to cry and I told her congratulations and that she was a strong smart beautiful woman that can do what ever she puts her mind on doing ..........and that's the last time I talked to her....it's has bin 22 years or so .... I've done the collage partying thing. I'm doing the good husband thing,and I'm definitely doing the good dad thing... The only thing is that part in my heart still thinks about her all the time and I feel guilty because I love my wife and son... This is the first time I let anyone know my secret and it feels good ..
Young love is great and it always holds a special part in our hearts. It's good for you to remember her and think of her fondly. In fact it's healthy and normal. But if you are thinking about her all the time you are hanging on way too tight. It could be that you've got something going on in your life is making you uncomfortable for some reason and you want your mindset to take you back to something "pure". It's great that you are being a good husband and dad. It shows you have your priorities in order.
Hardworker

Houston, TX

#4 Apr 5, 2013
Way to go -the master- you went all dr. Phill on me .. Thank you so much for your comment,I really appreciated it .
Hii

Carrizo Springs, TX

#5 Apr 6, 2013
I'm married and every happy that i married him and have kids my life is great what more can i ask for but their is sometime i dream of my x bbydaddy don't know or what for cause it been more then 5 years that we be separate'ed? Any ideas?
Hardworker

Houston, TX

#6 Apr 6, 2013
Hello Hii.i don't know what to tell you except what the master commented to me about something pure and innocent ..I don't know I guess they just rule that certain part of your heart no mater what , and we just have to let it be or risk ruining what we gave
Hardworker

Houston, TX

#7 Apr 6, 2013
Have
blue collar guy

Pasadena, TX

#8 Apr 7, 2013
It's the feelings that you miss that cannot be recaptured. Also, sometimes we remember things from our past as better than they were and forget the problems that came with it. She is not with you today for a reason. It wouldn't work out between you two now so let it go bro and be grateful for what you have.
Hardworker

Houston, TX

#9 Apr 7, 2013
Thanks blue collar guy .. So true .. Good reality check also...I'm not saying I would drop what I have for her ,I love what I got and wouldn't triad it for the world..maybe it was just that special time , place,age,music that made it special.....we learned a lot from each other . I'm an A&M grad and have my own construction company.. And I heard from a friend of a friend around 7 years ago that she was a R N at texas children's .I guess I was right when I told her she was smart and could do what ever she wanted . That was 21-22years ago..
Hardworker

Houston, TX

#10 Apr 7, 2013
Thank you guys for your comments and looking forward to reading many more.. Thanks again
K9-0ne

United States

#11 Apr 8, 2013
Whatever
And-0ne

Houston, TX

#12 Apr 15, 2013
Move on
Hard worker

Houston, TX

#13 Apr 15, 2013
???? You must be a youngster . I won't even bother...I would really like to read some adult comments that may have some real life experiences ,not just a random dumb comment.
Truedat

Houston, TX

#14 Apr 15, 2013
Dang homeboy.. I two am in my early 40's and also took off to collage and had an on and off again relationship with my girl through high school.. Like you wrote long story short we broke up right before I took off to texas tech.. During the thanksgiving break we hooked up and worked every thing out and planned on getting married as soon as I finished up school ......... She was killed in a car accident before my Christmas break.. During finals.. I don't think I will ever get over her .i live my life like you , with my wife and my son . And also this guilt and also stumbled across this web sight and also this is the first time I ever have let anyone know this . Once again like you wrote hard worker "it feels good to vent". I to would like someone to comment Thanks
Bolukeduke

Houston, TX

#15 Apr 16, 2013
I feel for you .. But it sounds like you Guys are living a pretty good life... And you guys sound like pretty good providers for your families ..
Lazonaroja

Houston, TX

#16 Apr 22, 2013
The good old days...
Lazonaroja

Houston, TX

#17 May 2, 2013
I just wanted to see if anyone had anymore comments ..all and all life's a dance you you learn as you go ..... Like the song
Lazonaroja

Houston, TX

#18 May 13, 2013
Cool
Lazonaroja

Houston, TX

#19 Jun 19, 2013
Todo joto

Since: Jun 13

Anywhere

#20 Jun 22, 2013
Young love, never forgotten. Sometimes i am crying with smile on. Last one dissapeared after three days, i tried search engines, no help.
Now i am cold as a stone. Not cold, but you know that feeling when something is missing and you are not same person anymore.

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