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My Best Friend has talked about sleeping with my mom since our days in high school. I ignored it for awhile but he kept talking about it over and over again and it was really frustrating to hear your best friend talk about Boning your mom, especially when she thinks he's really cute. Anyways, about a month or so ago we were having a party at my house to celebrate my friends 19th birthday and we all got really wasted. He came over and asked if it was cool to have sex with my mom that night. So after many years of hearing the same question, I jokingly said,"yeah sure why not?" But I didn't intend for it to actually happen. So a few weeks after that night, My mom comes over with my friend and calmy explains what happened that night. I freaked out when she told me she was two weeks pregnant with his child. I asked why he didn't wear a condom and he replied,"They're uncomfortable." I began to examine the situation I was in, having a 41 year old mom who's carrying your 19 year old friends child. And the bad part isn't that they're gonna keep it, but they're also getting married. My mom claims he's a good financial supporter, but the thought of them actually living together, sleeping together, doing god knows what kind of sexual activites that got them here in the first place is really bothering me. How should I deal with this? P.S. This is not a troll post, it is 100% real and I wouldn't joke about my mom's life like that.
M-Angel

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Apr 30, 2011
 
I know that has to be hard for you. Honestly, if I was you I would distance myself. Its obvious that they are going to stay together despite your feelings about it. It seems as though it was leading up to that because they (your mom and friend) were attracted to each other and wanted to act on it. If it is just a lust thing then it wont last, but you never know they could have real feelings for each other. I know, when I was younger my mom dated a guy around the same age I was and it humiliated me. I was actually younger than you are now so it was bad. Anytime we would go out to the mall, or out to ea,t or out in general he had to come with us. I hated it, but they were together for years. They did not have kids. Anyways, you can either stay close to them and live your life with extreme negativity or you can focus on your own life and what you want. You have a right to what your feeling, and I would feel the same way. It isn't fair for you to miss out on your life by focusing on theirs. I know its hard, but they have a baby on the way and theres no turning back from that. In the long run its their life, but if you don't approve you don't have to put up with it. You can live your life how you want it, and tell your mom exactly how you feel. Stay honest with everyone and yourself! I hope this helps, sorry if it was harsh. I didn't mean to be.

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Apr 30, 2011
 
I'm very sorry to hear this as well. Scarier implications are whether it just started that night. I think that M-Angel has a good outlook on this and I would say the same, generally. It doesn't sound like your mom is a "toxic person", and if she were my answer might be different. But she is your mom, and I wouldn't let her get too out of touch from you. Whatever happens, I wish you the best. Hold your good family close, because they won't be around forever.
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Drunk mom eh? I would've taken advantage of that and boned your mom like your friend did, but that's just me.
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Jun 30, 2011
 
Its bad to hear bt its their pretend...
Juanita

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Jul 1, 2011
 
You weren't supposed to tell!
Juan

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Jul 1, 2011
 
Juanita wrote:
You weren't supposed to tell!
Sorry!
Jose

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Jul 1, 2011
 
Can I try for twins?
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Jul 1, 2011
 
Dude, he anin't the only one boning your mom ;)
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Jul 2, 2011
 
Can I have her too?

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Jul 2, 2011
 
If I were you I'd whip that boys azz and get it out of your system..feel for you but your mom's ridiculous
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Jul 2, 2011
 
I'll do her for you...
BobbyJoe

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#14
Jul 2, 2011
 
I'm in!
BobbyJane

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Jul 2, 2011
 
Can I play!
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Jul 3, 2011
 
I did it!
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Oct 24, 2011
 
Hey I live it too. My X-boy friend is married to my mom. They are pregnant with their second baby. She is 44 and my X is 23. I am 21 and started dating him when I was 17 and ended when I was almost 19. It just took him just a couple of months to knock my mom up and they married after the first was born and my mom told him he could get her pregnant again. The guy is a pig. When we were dating and having sex. He would always take the condoms off and forget to pull out. I am just glad that I never got pregnant by him. When we are out of hearing distant of others he tells me that he is still going to get me pregnant and that mom know about us having sex when she was pregnant and is O.K. with it. I really liked this guy and wanted to have his baby but now i think that it would be a little weird getting pregnant with mom's husband.

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Oct 24, 2011
 
Messed Up wrote:
Hey I live it too. My X-boy friend is married to my mom. They are pregnant with their second baby. She is 44 and my X is 23. I am 21 and started dating him when I was 17 and ended when I was almost 19. It just took him just a couple of months to knock my mom up and they married after the first was born and my mom told him he could get her pregnant again. The guy is a pig. When we were dating and having sex. He would always take the condoms off and forget to pull out. I am just glad that I never got pregnant by him. When we are out of hearing distant of others he tells me that he is still going to get me pregnant and that mom know about us having sex when she was pregnant and is O.K. with it. I really liked this guy and wanted to have his baby but now i think that it would be a little weird getting pregnant with mom's husband.
count yourself lucky girl to not have that azzhole for a boyfriend or husband..luckily you didn't get pregnant by this jerk but if I were you I'd move the hell out of there and don't look back. there's alot good guys out there for you..take care
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Hey everything is already in motion. You can either make peace with it or not.

And, you even told your friend it was alright, giving your blessing. So, you have your own part in how it all played out.

Not to mention you kept hanging out with a person as a friend that kept saying he wanted to knock boots with your mother. It was not like you were not warned. You could have stopped being friend a long time ago and that would have been the end of it. But, no you kept hanging out.

So, you had many chances to keep this from happening, and you never took them. And, when it came to the wire when your friend asked, last call, you said go for it.
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Jan 29, 2012
 
Messed Up wrote:
Hey I live it too. My X-boy friend is married to my mom. They are pregnant with their second baby. She is 44 and my X is 23. I am 21 and started dating him when I was 17 and ended when I was almost 19. It just took him just a couple of months to knock my mom up and they married after the first was born and my mom told him he could get her pregnant again. The guy is a pig. When we were dating and having sex. He would always take the condoms off and forget to pull out. I am just glad that I never got pregnant by him. When we are out of hearing distant of others he tells me that he is still going to get me pregnant and that mom know about us having sex when she was pregnant and is O.K. with it. I really liked this guy and wanted to have his baby but now i think that it would be a little weird getting pregnant with mom's husband.
Hey, if everyone is all right with it, there should be nothing wrong with it. You mother did not have any problem he was your exbf, and so soon. So, it's not like she has many morals to stand on if you do the same. The only moral may be that she is still in a relationship with him, were you dumped him when she got with him.

Though keep in mind, if people find out he has gotten both you and your mother pregnant, and how it all played out, they will talk about it. So, you just have to decide if you want to deal with the drama that will come along with it all.

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