Why don't Middle Eastern men like Black women

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Monique

Houston, TX

#1 Jul 23, 2012
I find it disturbing that Middle Eastern men don't like Black women. What is it about Black women they don't like, I have found plenty of White, Asian, Pacific Islander and Indian men would date a Black women but not Middle Eastern men.

Since: Jul 12

Spring, TX

#2 Jul 23, 2012
I worked in the Middle East, I'm black and I had to damn near fight them off. Your statement is not true.

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#3 Aug 9, 2012
I am a black muslim woman from France, when I was 19, a Tunisian/Egyptian man wanted to marry me. OMG thanks God, my parents are not dumb and said NO. I like nothing about them. My parents are from a small muslim country called Comoros, it's an African island part of the Arab world so many of us look black but speak Arabic and marriages between Comorians and Middle easterns or north africans are very very common. Two of my sisters are happily married to an arab and a berber man.One of my uncle (married to my aunties) is Qatari and another one is Yemeni, my best friend is from Mali, her fiancÚ is Lebanese . If you're muslim, if should not be that difficult to find a M.E man but I personally couldn't deal with their culture and I'm not attracted to them at all
Shonti

Shoreham-by-sea, UK

#4 Oct 21, 2012
AM loooove black women, I am black and I've dated a few Arab men. HOWEVER, I don't date them anymore, as they don't want marriage as a 28year old educated black woman I have no time to waste in my search for a husband and I'm not about to become anyone's concubine. I think there is still a long standing stigma attached to dating or having a black woman for Arab men, which is similar to other cultures and until that changes black women will be seen as the lowest of the low, even when they have sex with you! Fact
Answer

United States

#5 Oct 23, 2012
Because their feet stink
Aliya

Houston, TX

#6 Oct 23, 2012
I am Arab and it is true Middle Eastern men don't like Black women only to have sex, and they want take you to meet the family.
Aliya

Houston, TX

#7 Oct 23, 2012
txbrnbeauty wrote:
I worked in the Middle East, I'm black and I had to damn near fight them off. Your statement is not true.
Arab men don't like Black women were do you get an idea about that?
Shamboofarts

United States

#8 Oct 24, 2012
Because they dont shave their kankles
Abed

Israel

#9 Oct 26, 2012
Who the heck told you middle eastern guys don't like black women!? personally, I am an middle eastern and I don't care for the race or the colors, I just been attracted to many black women more than any color women, I tend to feel more warm when I see a black woman.
I like Cynthia McWilliams
Warmth

United States

#10 Oct 29, 2012
Because they take perfume baths and stink
WhiteTerminator

Houston, TX

#11 Nov 27, 2012
txbrnbeauty wrote:
I worked in the Middle East, I'm black and I had to damn near fight them off. Your statement is not true.
I am a White man who loves Black women but I am sorry to tell you that these so called Arab men who you claim to like Black women sees you as a BOOTY-CALL! Arabs generally don't care for Blacks and therefore would ever date or marry a Black.
Mddile eastern

Springdale, PA

#12 Dec 19, 2012
Im from Iran and have a typical middle eastern family with culture and tradition
and I love black women, almost prefer them over all
prettyone

Cleveland, OH

#13 Jan 19, 2013
Middle eastern men do like black women. Black women like them too! I have dated two arab guys, and had multiple guys ask me out. They all were from different cultures too. And as far as them wanting to only get in ur pants, hey thats all guys. I enjoy Arab men because there family oriented and they pay for everything!
ihateracists

London, UK

#14 Jan 24, 2013
Jamila1988 wrote:
I am a black muslim woman from France, when I was 19, a Tunisian/Egyptian man wanted to marry me. OMG thanks God, my parents are not dumb and said NO. I like nothing about them. My parents are from a small muslim country called Comoros, it's an African island part of the Arab world so many of us look black but speak Arabic and marriages between Comorians and Middle easterns or north africans are very very common. Two of my sisters are happily married to an arab and a berber man.One of my uncle (married to my aunties) is Qatari and another one is Yemeni, my best friend is from Mali, her fiancÚ is Lebanese . If you're muslim, if should not be that difficult to find a M.E man but I personally couldn't deal with their culture and I'm not attracted to them at all
AAw i know this is late but my little sister is comorian and half somali. I am somali and she is such a cutie a little naughty sometimes. Not a lot of comorians in London but i think theres a lot in france nice to hear about the experiences of one though much love xx
Peach

Los Angeles, CA

#16 Feb 2, 2013
Black American woman here..... MARRIED (yep, married) to Iranian guy. He was born and raised in Iran. And just in people watching with him, he thinks black women are gorgeous. In fact, the darker, the more attractive she is to him. Some of his family asked him a LOT of questions because of how black americans are portrayed, but after 5 minutes of seeing us together they see how we were meant to be.

I can't speak for Arabs, but I know there is a stigma attached to dating a black woman in some ME families. Like everything else, its based on ignorance generally. And especially in very family- and country-centered cultures, doing something as different as being with a black woman from another country I think is more a fear of the unknown. But I will say that I have met a lot of MEs that like curvy women that want to feed them and take pride in their homes. Thats an American South thing in my book, so I think that may play into the attraction ;-).

Another thing, we met in grad school. So whoever thinks middle eastern men don't like educated black women, you are completely wrong.

Hope this helps!
Peach

Los Angeles, CA

#17 Feb 2, 2013
Oh! And another thing. Iranians have taroff. Its like an extreme exaggeration of everything good and hospitable. Don't fall for it in dating. They can be EXTREMELY charming. But don't be easy. Like have some serious standards. Like some "lock-it-down-until-the-w edding-night" standards and nothing less. They love feminine women who can stand their ground. If he lied to get you into bed, YOU had the upper hand if you had not slept with him. Of course they will TRY, they are men, but they will only respect the ones who they can look at like wives in a pure sense (and this is ESPECIALLY true of middle eastern men, in my opinion).
Peachfarts

United States

#18 Feb 5, 2013
"Like have some serious standards"...you mean like dating Iranians that lie to bang you...Peach is a ho...
Peach

Chicago, IL

#19 Feb 10, 2013
Thats cute. But I was referring to the seriously warped standards that most American women have today. My husband didnt "lie to bang me." And if he did, like many other men try women, then he would not have gotten anywhere because he had to wait until after the wedding. Not understanding how you could try to misconstrue that into calling me a whore. Oh well.
Irunians

United States

#20 Feb 11, 2013
Warped standards...like hidding a nuclear program in your clam....
i dont have problems

North Charleston, SC

#21 Mar 5, 2013
Monique wrote:
I find it disturbing that Middle Eastern men don't like Black women. What is it about Black women they don't like, I have found plenty of White, Asian, Pacific Islander and Indian men would date a Black women but not Middle Eastern men.
maybe its your attitude? You seem insecure. They adore me, especially Egyptians..... You're on your own

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