I'm dedicating this discussion to you beautiful women out there, you, nymphomaniacs:). By: firstname.lastname@example.org
Let's go ahead and throw the definition of Erotomania or Popularly known as Nymphomania, here:(Thanks to Levine, Stephen B.
Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, Vol 8(4), Win 1982, 316-324.,for the citation):
Nymphomania can be defined in terms of 3 distinct elements: marked increase in sexual drive, extremely frequent partner sexual behavior, and promiscuity. The essence of the problem, however, is the disruptive increase in desire. Causes often involve one or more of the following: acting out, atypical psychoses, alcohol and/or drug abuse, temporal lobe disorders, involvement with an inappropriate partner, and response to another sexual dysfunction. Many of these women are unable to derive emotional satisfaction from sex.
I'm not a psychologist, but just your average 31 year old dude, who breathes your O2 and leeches from all the flora and fauna of this beautiful planet, like a parasite..but here is the twist, I've an above average take on life.
My Experience with Nymphomaniacs:
I've come across some women, who shared the definitive characteristics of a Nymphomaniac, well, two, to be exact...so far. It was a mind-blowing experience on both occasions.
The first woman I met, who knew what she was dealing with, was a 43 year old UPS employee. I befriended her after she did a couple of deliveries to my place,(I shop online a lot). We met for coffee..and I wouldn't hear from her for two weeks, before she calls me back and explained, why she has trouble seeing me again. She told me, I was her first date after a dry period of two years..since she discovered her situation. Apparently, She was afraid, that her potential mate would be disgusted by her constant need for relief . So she would keep any interaction with the opposite sex to a minimum. We are still good friends.
My next Nymphomaniac came to me in the form of an Apartment land lady. I had barely seen her before, until I was late for one month's payment. That was first time I saw her, for more than 5 minutes. She was in her 40's. A beautiful woman with a solemn face and matter of fact attitude. I explained to her my situation, and how my small business venture was not picking up enough customers that month. She was very understanding..and would allow me to make a late payment. I wanted to show her my gratitude by doing something nice.
We ended up going to a dinner and a comedy show one weekend. That was the most fun weekend I ever had...we had sex in all imaginable places and positions. But I noticed something different about her right away...she was not modest in bed and she could go on, as long as you could stay on your feet...also, I would find her masturbating, 5 minutes after she had her multiple squirting orgasms...every single time. Later she explained to me how she has the urge to have orgasms all the time..and no matter how many times she has satisfied herself..she was never fully satisfied. She drifted off from my life after our first week of encounter.
I wasn't very educated about this subject until I had my encounter with my land lady. And she send me on a quest, to search for others who had similar experiences with this phenomenon..to seek out...to better understand..to share...to make sense of this incredible experience.
So, please, if you think you might be a nymphomaniac, I would love to know your story and share my experience with you. Feel free to share your thoughts. I would love to meet ya, or talk to ya. You can reach me at :