York City shooting victim called a ca...

York City shooting victim called a caring mom

There are 39 comments on the York Dispatch story from Dec 22, 2009, titled York City shooting victim called a caring mom. In it, York Dispatch reports that:

Jahieda Minier, shown on Thanksgiving with her daughter, Jahzoni, was killed Saturday in York City.

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live ya life

Philadelphia, PA

#1 Dec 22, 2009
This is so unreal to me. i knew both idder from growing up out west and jahieda from my brother. it is soo sad to see nasty people to put mean things on here about them. dont even care that they have a famliy that love and care about them deeply. regardles of what they might of did on the streets. they are humans and the last i knew all humans make mistakes. this is not the time to get on them and throw dirt on their names. this is the time to show some respect to both famlies and let them grieve peacefully.
Been there Done that

Monroe Township, NJ

#2 Dec 22, 2009
As long as we continue to glamorize the irresponsible behaviors of our youth this tragic violence will never stop. Jaheida should have been home WITH her daughter, not running the streets, especially since she herself was a product of a lack of parenting by her own mother. Someone has to break the cycle. Remember NOTHING good happens after midnight, especially on the streets of York.
Dave

York, PA

#3 Dec 22, 2009
Been there Done that wrote:
As long as we continue to glamorize the irresponsible behaviors of our youth this tragic violence will never stop. Jaheida should have been home WITH her daughter, not running the streets, especially since she herself was a product of a lack of parenting by her own mother. Someone has to break the cycle. Remember NOTHING good happens after midnight, especially on the streets of York.
She should not have been a mother in the first place. I see no mention of a husband, or even the kid's father, unless I missed something in the article.
Grateful

Wayne, PA

#4 Dec 22, 2009
R.I.P jaheida. U WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED BY FAMILY AND FRIENDS. YOURS DAUGHTER WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES YA'LL SHARED TOGETHER. MAY U R.I.P AND CONTINUE TO WATCH OVER YA FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
SEXY D

York, PA

#6 Dec 22, 2009
I FEEL SO BAD FOR HER BABY GIRL. KNOWING EVERY YEAR ONE DAY BEFORE HER BIRTHDAY YOUR MOTHER GOT TOOKEN AWAY FROM YOU FOR EVER. JUST BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYE AND MAKES MY STOMACH HAVE THE WORST PAIN EVER. MY SON AND HER DAUGHTER ARE FIRST COUSIN AND I CAN'T EVEN THINK HOW HE WOULD FEEL TO LOSE THE ONE HE SEE EVERYDAY AND IS USE TO SLEEPING WITH AT NIGHT OR JUST USE TO MAKING HIM LAUGH. I AM HURTING FOR HER LITTLE ONE AT THIS TIME. GOD BLESS HER BABY GIRL JAHZONI AND WATCH OVER HER FAMILY. R.I.P JAHEIDA
ruth reyes-vega

Lebanon, PA

#7 Dec 22, 2009
I WAS A COUNSELOR AT A PROGRAM THAT JAHEIDA SUCCESSFULLY COMPLETED. AFTER KNOWING HER FOR A YEAR I GREW TO LOVE JAHEIDA, THE LITTLE GIRL THAT WAS FORCED TO GROW UP YEARS BEFORE HER TIME. MY HEART IS BROKEN WITH THE NEWS OF HER DEATH. GENERATIONAL CURSES CAN BE BROKEN, WHO WILL MAKE THE CHOICE. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY.
KansasGirl

Lenexa, KS

#8 Dec 22, 2009
Wow, this is shocking.
God Bless this Mess

York, PA

#9 Dec 22, 2009
this is just sad all around, i knew Idder and I know his family is hurting right now, especially his mother and sister. I can say to the families of the dead be strong and don't pay any attention to all these negative bastards on here because while they hiding behind these post they know their shit dont stink and they was the ones fighting an endless battle angaist a shitty blog when they loved ones were senselessly taken away. God bless your family and all those too ignorant to shut their mouths and allow you all the time to grieve. Yorkers really are assholes!!!
u aweful people

Kennett Square, PA

#10 Dec 22, 2009
He with out sin Cast the first stone. Who gives any of you the right to judge her or her family
queen

Kearny, NJ

#11 Dec 22, 2009
we will miss u like crazy. you did not know me personally but i 'm a good friend of her dad and when i found out it broke my heart. Like i told her dad i am here what ever i can do. May god bless you and keep you safe up in heaven. It was too soon for you to go, but he needed you up there. Now you may watch over your daughter and family at all time. RIP JAHIEDA****
York Resident 2

Jersey Shore, PA

#12 Dec 22, 2009
Yes, the abusive and cruel remarks will follow, because most times that is the response, as to throw salt in the family's wounds. Yep, sounds like there was a history of crime that ran deep. Whether it be for easy money, a desparate situation, or lack of better judgement; there was probably drugs involved. However, we did not walk in her shoes and feel as if the choices were limited. It is tough for a young adult to break the cycle of crime and keep the goals she apparently strived to achieve. No matter what you may think of the situation, keep in mind, she was loved, and these people are grieving. Remember there by the grace of God, because it could be your child that makes a bad choice, or perhaps is in the wrong place at the wrong time. The thing is, how do we break the never ending cycle of this? Didn't know her, but can only empathize with the grief.
Just reading comments

Shippensburg, PA

#13 Dec 22, 2009
May she rest in peace!!! GOD bless all families that are suffering this this horrible trajedy. I know her mothers family, and they are human just like everyone else, and also the nicest people you would want to know.. Who are we to judge ?. She is facing the only man that can judge her know & I am sure the gates have opened.
who

Spring Hill, FL

#14 Dec 22, 2009
is that dawn generette's daughter?
RIP

Atlanta, GA

#15 Dec 22, 2009
who wrote:
is that dawn generette's daughter?
yes, this is Dawn Generette daughter. RIP Jahieda...
who

Spring Hill, FL

#16 Dec 22, 2009
Dammit, I was hoping it wasn't Dawn's kid but it turns out 2 be . Prayers 4 all of the fam. RIP HomeGrl. 1

Since: Mar 08

AOL

#17 Dec 22, 2009
Dave wrote:
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She should not have been a mother in the first place. I see no mention of a husband, or even the kid's father, unless I missed something in the article.
You did miss something Dave...... The common sense to know that YDR didn't write this article to you, so if you missed something, that's the reason they didn't mention her baby's father, because the name Dave wasn't posted on the story..... I know of Jahieda's mother.... This 20 year old lived through obstacles you or I never endured. You are nobody to say who should or should not have a child. God gave her daughter life. You should worry about yourself and your family and hope nothing like this happens to you or someone you loved dearly because it could be reality for YOU one day, believe that. Doesn't matter where you are, what time of the day or night. Death is everywhere. I know because it happened to my family... A family member who worked two jobs to support his family was gunned down right in front of his home coming from his second job. Robbed and shot to death leaving his wife and children behind, not in the city, but in the suburbs.... Have some respect for her family, stop acting like an insensitive jackass. Sounds like your mother should've stayed a virgin. She infact raised an ignorant child.
Dave

York, PA

#18 Dec 23, 2009
blacktop wrote:
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You did miss something Dave...... The common sense to know that YDR didn't write this article to you, so if you missed something, that's the reason they didn't mention her baby's father, because the name Dave wasn't posted on the story..... I know of Jahieda's mother.... This 20 year old lived through obstacles you or I never endured. You are nobody to say who should or should not have a child. God gave her daughter life. You should worry about yourself and your family and hope nothing like this happens to you or someone you loved dearly because it could be reality for YOU one day, believe that. Doesn't matter where you are, what time of the day or night. Death is everywhere. I know because it happened to my family... A family member who worked two jobs to support his family was gunned down right in front of his home coming from his second job. Robbed and shot to death leaving his wife and children behind, not in the city, but in the suburbs.... Have some respect for her family, stop acting like an insensitive jackass. Sounds like your mother should've stayed a virgin. She infact raised an ignorant child.
This is a sad sign of how far out culture has sunk. She had this baby, did not marry the father, kept the kid in that neighborhood, and you trash me. It's lucky the kid wasn't also killed, like Siera Savage was. I've heard it said that there are no illigitimate children, and I believe that. Children are a gift from G-d. But there are a lot of illigitimate parents.
BHO

Mount Laurel, NJ

#19 Dec 23, 2009
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Philadelphia, PA

#20 Dec 23, 2009
ycp wrote:
well lets see Jaheida's mom (jail) Jaheida's sister (jail) Jaheida's baby dad (jail ) wow Jaheida just recently got out of jail Wow what a shame when is this cycle going to break.Jaheida does she even have her baby ?
JAHEIDA BROTHER(JAIL)
Tayana Williams-Ms T

Wallingford, PA

#21 Dec 23, 2009
This is a very sad situation that we all must learn from. Jahieda was a very beautiful, loving, and caring young lady. I always knew we would hook up again to laugh and reminice. I feel so empty because I have to come to York for her funeral and I will not be greeted by her beautiful smile and grace. I keep reminding myself that she is with me in spirit. My prayers and thoughts go out to the family members of Hiedi. I am truly blessed that I was able to get to meet, know, and love her.

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