I am pregnant and I practically hate ...

I am pregnant and I practically hate the baby's fathers right now.

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“Out of chaos will come order”

Since: Jun 11

Henrico

#1 Aug 13, 2011
Perhaps it was ridiculous of me to assume. But I thought for some reason that when I told my fiance that I was pregnant, that he would change for the better. We had been trying for 3 months to get pregnant, and when I told him that I was pregnant, he was happy. But now, maybe it's just my hormones, he doesn't treat me like I'm pregnant. By that I mean he doesn't show me any kind of special attention or compassion. Also, I'm waiting for him to set a date for us to get married, as neither of us wants to have a child out of wed-lock, but he hasn't even mentioned it. It's possible that maybe I should't have expected him to change, it's also possible that it is my hormones making me act like this. But even before I was pregnant, it still got on my nerves the fact that he didn't show me much attention. I know physicians for the most part are emotionally detached, but this is really getting under my skin now. What should I do? I really feel like putting my foot down, but at the same time I feel like I shouldn't have to tell him how to behave, it should be common sense. I feel like I'm alone in this pregnancy.

Since: Aug 11

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#2 Aug 23, 2011
V_Gebreyes wrote:
Perhaps it was ridiculous of me to assume. But I thought for some reason that when I told my fiance that I was pregnant, that he would change for the better. We had been trying for 3 months to get pregnant, and when I told him that I was pregnant, he was happy. But now, maybe it's just my hormones, he doesn't treat me like I'm pregnant. By that I mean he doesn't show me any kind of special attention or compassion. Also, I'm waiting for him to set a date for us to get married, as neither of us wants to have a child out of wed-lock, but he hasn't even mentioned it. It's possible that maybe I should't have expected him to change, it's also possible that it is my hormones making me act like this. But even before I was pregnant, it still got on my nerves the fact that he didn't show me much attention. I know physicians for the most part are emotionally detached, but this is really getting under my skin now. What should I do? I really feel like putting my foot down, but at the same time I feel like I shouldn't have to tell him how to behave, it should be common sense. I feel like I'm alone in this pregnancy.
Hi. I kind of went through the same thing with my first pregnancy. I actually ended up dumping the guy and ended up marrying my best guy friend. I'm now 36 wks with my second child, and he takes care of my 2 and 1/2 year old daughter as if she's her own. If you need a good friend to talk topix please feel free to email me and ill share my story of the first pregnancy. [email protected]

Hang in there hun.
katriana

United States

#3 May 2, 2012
I think it would be only right to not be with him he may love you as much as he wants but he has to understand that your pregnant and that he has to make an dramatic change in the way he treats you

Since: Apr 08

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#4 May 25, 2012
V_Gebreyes wrote:
Perhaps it was ridiculous of me to assume. But I thought for some reason that when I told my fiance that I was pregnant, that he would change for the better. We had been trying for 3 months to get pregnant, and when I told him that I was pregnant, he was happy. But now, maybe it's just my hormones, he doesn't treat me like I'm pregnant. By that I mean he doesn't show me any kind of special attention or compassion. Also, I'm waiting for him to set a date for us to get married, as neither of us wants to have a child out of wed-lock, but he hasn't even mentioned it. It's possible that maybe I should't have expected him to change, it's also possible that it is my hormones making me act like this. But even before I was pregnant, it still got on my nerves the fact that he didn't show me much attention. I know physicians for the most part are emotionally detached, but this is really getting under my skin now. What should I do? I really feel like putting my foot down, but at the same time I feel like I shouldn't have to tell him how to behave, it should be common sense. I feel like I'm alone in this pregnancy.
I he ask you to marry him before you became pregnant? Being pregnant out of wed-lock isn't such a big deal today. You must be about as far along as I am....I'm 31 weeks pregnant and single. How did things work out between you two? Are you married or still together?
abcdefghijK

Aransas Pass, TX

#5 May 30, 2012
I had a day like that yesterday
Gee

Wayne, PA

#6 Jun 4, 2012
Just cheat on him. Find yourself a nice good looking decent guy and let him come inside you. Since you are prego, it won't matter. That's what I did.

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