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why is it so hard to find muslims with hiv/aids?

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hidayah nyc

Corona, NY

#1 Dec 16, 2012
Salaam alaikum wa Rahmatullah
im was raped by a stranger when i was 18 years old who had broke into my apartment.
that was 16 years ago, and Alhamdullilah im alive and doing very well.
others without hiv dont understand me and cannot understand me. i am not able to find also a suitable husband.
it seems like muslims who know they are infected are in denial and therefore not wanting to come to terms with this disease.
insha Allah i hope to find other muslim men and women no matter we are in the world to be friends and of support for each other insha Allah. and if in that time i can find a husband then thats a blessing and mercy from Allah as well.
We can help you

Milpitas, CA

#2 Dec 18, 2012
Habibi Matrimonials is seeking Muslims with HIV and other STD to join our growing database. We would love to have you join us. We have also three Relationship (Muslim) Coaches, Counselors on board.
You can find us by Googling our name:
Habibi Matrimonials
Reaching All HIV Muslims

Sterling, VA

#6 Apr 8, 2013
Salaam Alaikum,
We are an organization dedicated to supporting HIV+ Muslims as well as educating the Muslim community. Please visit www.haverahma.org . You can also find us on fb at www.facebook.com/haverahma and twitter @haverahma. We are here for you and would love to hear from you.
Sincerely,
Reaching All HIV+ Muslims In America (RAHMA)

Since: May 13

Hackensack, NJ

#8 May 10, 2013
hidayah nyc wrote:
Salaam alaikum wa Rahmatullah
im was raped by a stranger when i was 18 years old who had broke into my apartment.
that was 16 years ago, and Alhamdullilah im alive and doing very well.
others without hiv dont understand me and cannot understand me. i am not able to find also a suitable husband.
it seems like muslims who know they are infected are in denial and therefore not wanting to come to terms with this disease.
insha Allah i hope to find other muslim men and women no matter we are in the world to be friends and of support for each other insha Allah. and if in that time i can find a husband then thats a blessing and mercy from Allah as well.
Having HIV has opened my eyes 2 Many Things & I see Things Clearly Now. Please Be Patient,Allah is Grooming A Muslim Man That Will Be Perfect for U.
Rahim

Toledo, OH

#12 Jun 22, 2013
hidayah nyc wrote:
Salaam alaikum wa Rahmatullah
im was raped by a stranger when i was 18 years old who had broke into my apartment.
that was 16 years ago, and Alhamdullilah im alive and doing very well.
others without hiv dont understand me and cannot understand me. i am not able to find also a suitable husband.
it seems like muslims who know they are infected are in denial and therefore not wanting to come to terms with this disease.
insha Allah i hope to find other muslim men and women no matter we are in the world to be friends and of support for each other insha Allah. and if in that time i can find a husband then thats a blessing and mercy from Allah as well.
Do you have children?
Rahim

Toledo, OH

#13 Jun 22, 2013
Do you have children? What stat do you live in now?
hidayah_nyc

Staten Island, NY

#14 Jun 22, 2013
Rahim wrote:
Do you have children? What stat do you live in now?
no children, and in new york city...
hidayah_nyc

Staten Island, NY

#15 Jun 22, 2013
Vernon HIV Outreach wrote:
<quoted text> Having HIV has opened my eyes 2 Many Things & I see Things Clearly Now. Please Be Patient,Allah is Grooming A Muslim Man That Will Be Perfect for U.
jazak Allahu khair for your kind words.

Since: May 13

Hackensack, NJ

#17 Jun 26, 2013
hidayah_nyc wrote:
<quoted text>
jazak Allahu khair for your kind words.
Jazakallahu Khayran
hivsis

Malawi

#21 Aug 22, 2013
Salaams,
I am turning 18 soon, inshallah, I am HIV+, and hoping to find a muslim man who fears Allah and is serious about Islam for marriage-Inshallah. Ages 20-25.
Add Adasa

Wheaton, IL

#22 Aug 22, 2013
salaam aleykum,am muslim man seeking long relationship.email me at adasa36@yahoo.com
Add Adasa

Wheaton, IL

#23 Aug 22, 2013
am turning 30
ab muslim

New York, NY

#31 Oct 3, 2013
I am a37yo man looking for marriage salafi email killaryh@yahoo.com
Abdul Bari

Toronto, Canada

#35 Oct 23, 2013
The reason is that as muslims, in Islam it is prohobited that we have pre-marriage sex and to commit adultry. We as muslim's are told that those who brake such laws shall face punishment in this world and in the heir after. We can see that people who do commit fornication are being punished with STI's or STD's. This is why we muslims are so low in having HIV and other STD's because we are abstinent of such acts. More info you can go to Islamic Q&A and other SUNNI websites ( as this kind of acts of ok in certain shia sects) Hope this helped
hidayah nyc

Corona, NY

#36 Oct 23, 2013
Abdul Bari wrote:
The reason is that as muslims, in Islam it is prohobited that we have pre-marriage sex and to commit adultry. We as muslim's are told that those who brake such laws shall face punishment in this world and in the heir after. We can see that people who do commit fornication are being punished with STI's or STD's. This is why we muslims are so low in having HIV and other STD's because we are abstinent of such acts. More info you can go to Islamic Q&A and other SUNNI websites ( as this kind of acts of ok in certain shia sects) Hope this helped
well thats a jahil's way of looking at it. no offense to u.
because we have hiv or an std doesnt mean that we commited a sin.
as in my case, i was raped by a stranger who forced his way into my dwelling.
some have been infected because of a medical procedure. some because of a adulterous spouse. and then unfortunately passed it to their children who were born with it and of course are not at fault for their parents actions.
lets face the reality and admit that there is adultery and infidelity. there are needle drug users, there are homosexuals.
there are those who had a choice in getting infected and those of us who didnt have that choice.
my post is meant to say that while many of us muslims who are infected are afraid of the stigma, we deny we are ill. we deny what we did. and in the basis of sharia, then even our taubah is not complete. and thru the window of humanity we are shameful. so we close ourselves off as best and as long as we are able. and even in some cases we die without care.
hamish

Hampton Park, Australia

#37 Oct 29, 2013
I don't care abut religion, bottom line is = you are a woman and should be respected as that x x
Ayeesha

United States

#40 Dec 10, 2013
I am muslim lady 36yrs seeking for marriage men between 40-60yrs
muslim

Glenview, IL

#42 Jan 21, 2014
Please join the facebook page "positive muslims" it is for muslims with std's and hiv. IT is a secret group so no one can read your posts etc. IT is private. You can only be added if a member adds you. Friend request brother Arthur garrett. I hope I spelled that correctly. If not keep looking for posts. the facebook group is there. JazakAllah khair
Hidayah NYC

Corona, NY

#43 Jan 21, 2014
muslim wrote:
Please join the facebook page "positive muslims" it is for muslims with std's and hiv. IT is a secret group so no one can read your posts etc. IT is private. You can only be added if a member adds you. Friend request brother Arthur garrett. I hope I spelled that correctly. If not keep looking for posts. the facebook group is there. JazakAllah khair
As Salaam alaikum wa Rahmatullah,
Barakah Allahu feek for your suggestion.
someone else suggested that on this forum and i became a member and even got a few others in it as well.
but i later found that the group was filled with fitnah from many sheikh googles.
that fitnah was very hard to ignore.
so i left the group. because its not for me.
maybe others like to deal with fitnah and their makers. but i rather just stay away from that cause for me no good can come out of it.
and most members are living with some type of herpes and few with hiv...
i wouldnt marry someone with herpes. because if i was to catch it then it will be much more intense than others who have it who are hiv negative...
so if that group helps u then may Allah give u and who think its good for them taufiq with it.
for me its no good.
jazak Allahu khair.

Since: Feb 14

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#47 Feb 17, 2014
AssalamuAlaykum I am a 25 year old muslim man who is seeking to fulfill half of my deen. May Allah (swt) allow all of us to find the righteous partner. I can be reached at

"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought" [Quran 30:21]

don't ever lose hope in Allah. keep making this dua "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous

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