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psychological erectile dysfunction, 20 year old virgin

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virgin

Coraopolis, PA

#1 May 13, 2009
I've been having problems in the sack since i tried to have sex for the first time about 3 years ago. been trying ever since... still a virgin to this day. i don't get it. i get rock hard when looking at porn (which is a lot) and i wake up with erections and fantasize about having sex all the time. but when the time actually comes i either can only get it half way up or not at all. and the few times ive been rock hard is when the girl doesn't want to have sex... most of my friends know about my problem and they probably think im gay because its gotten to point where i sometimes avoid hooking up with girls to avoid the embarrassment and depression that ensues. ive tried to have sex with atleast 15 different girls, i consider myself attactive and girls find me attractive. i don't understand what the hells wrong. i've only been hard like 3 times out of the 30 times ive hooked up with chicks. what should i do?? i just want to have sex! im the only virgin at my age that i know of. its embarrassing and extremely depressing. can anyone relate or offer anything to help? Thanks p.s. this has been extremely hard on me, not a day, or probably hour passes when i dont think abuot how i cant get it up and havent had sex yet. i think i have developed anxiety out of this problem and i believe i am definitely mildly depression.
Michel

Seattle, WA

#3 May 14, 2009
you should take something to boost your confidence and your performance ... try endurnz. they give free samples on their site ... what do you have to loose ?
virgin

Coraopolis, PA

#4 May 14, 2009
i am kind of skeptical on the whole pill idea. since i am able to maintain erections while masturbating and i do get morning wood. i dunno what it is, am i too used to porn? and the real thing doesn't turn me on or something? gah, i really need some help here.

Since: May 09

Großenkneten, Germany

#5 May 17, 2009
Actually you should be skeptical about the pill thing. But I think in your case it actually wouldn't be bad to try something. It's a psychological problem in your case and it would help a lot to just get the thing over with I'd say. It would take a lot of the pressure away and probably the placebo effect alone would be a great help to you.

This is a great natural supplement. Just use it for your first intercourse http://mens-performance.com/...

Have fun
Flavio

Tremont, PA

#6 May 18, 2009
I suffer from sexual performance anxiety too and I know how you feel. I am always able to attain a good erection, but just before penetration I sometimes lose it. You are young and healthy, so I'm sure things will improve with time. If the situation persists, you could try oral drugs. I'm currently taking Cialis 20 mg and a yohimbe supplement. I'm also taking oral phentolamine (brand names Vasomax, Vigamed), which is very useful in these cases: phentolamine blocks the effects of stress hormones and promotes blood flow to the penis. Vigamed is not available in the US but you can buy it on the Internet. Good luck!
fellow man

Caracas, Venezuela

#7 May 25, 2009
dude, i have the same problem. I´m practically hard all the time. When me and my girlfriend are just fooling around and we aren´t gonna have sex everything is fine. But when we "are" going to do it, grabing the condom in my hands makes it all go away... and its practically impossible to get another erection. I know my problem is psychological. I´m curious about trying any kind of pill but i´m a little embarrased. Are they over-the-counter medication? or do i have to go to a psychologist to get a prescription???

I appreciate any reply
herbalviga

Stara Zagora, Bulgaria

#8 May 25, 2009
Hello.If you wanna can check the site- http://wwww.herbalviga.com

In site have a lot of information about the product and that may be help to you.Sorry for bad English and have a nice day! ;)
Flavio

Portugal

#9 May 26, 2009
I forgot to mention that you should see a doctor (urologist) before you try any treatment. You'll have to go through a series of tests to determine the cause of your problem (i.e. psychogenic or organic).
ccv

United States

#10 May 26, 2009
this is to fellow man from venezuala.go to affordable meds.biz you can get generic viagra there.no prescription.just need a debit or credit card.the generics work just as good as the name brand stuff!
psychological ED

Leicester, UK

#13 Oct 20, 2009
hi dude
im in the exactly the same position as you except im 21 sucks.
Its a psychological block. im goin to try caverject think but apparetly it doesnt work if your nervous so might not work depending on how nervous i am
have you tried physo sexual counceling? i think im goin to try it
hiya

Leicester, UK

#14 Oct 20, 2009
hello
Expert

Bend, OR

#15 Jul 20, 2011
virgin wrote:
I've been having problems in the sack since i tried to have sex for the first time about 3 years ago. been trying ever since... still a virgin to this day. i don't get it. i get rock hard when looking at porn (which is a lot) and i wake up with erections and fantasize about having sex all the time. but when the time actually comes i either can only get it half way up or not at all. and the few times ive been rock hard is when the girl doesn't want to have sex... most of my friends know about my problem and they probably think im gay because its gotten to point where i sometimes avoid hooking up with girls to avoid the embarrassment and depression that ensues. ive tried to have sex with atleast 15 different girls, i consider myself attactive and girls find me attractive. i don't understand what the hells wrong. i've only been hard like 3 times out of the 30 times ive hooked up with chicks. what should i do?? i just want to have sex! im the only virgin at my age that i know of. its embarrassing and extremely depressing. can anyone relate or offer anything to help? Thanks p.s. this has been extremely hard on me, not a day, or probably hour passes when i dont think abuot how i cant get it up and havent had sex yet. i think i have developed anxiety out of this problem and i believe i am definitely mildly depression.
Bro, you seriously need to check this out. you can recover, but porn has screwed you up and you don't know it. Trust me, I had the same problem but I got better.

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#16 Jul 27, 2011
Firstly you should see you doctor. There are many causes of ED, some of them are physical, some psyhical. An example if you have a little accident in the past you may have some disfunction with blood microcirculation in some area of your body. I think this is not valid in your case but who know.

Here you will find very good article about posible causes of ED (you need to chose english version of site): http://vediclinic.com/przyczyny.html
savemoneydrugs

Germany

#21 Aug 13, 2012
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Tulsa, OK

#23 Dec 16, 2012
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Saint Petersburg, Russia

#25 Dec 24, 2012
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France

#26 Feb 14, 2013
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UK

#27 Apr 11, 2013
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Since: Jul 09

Tampa, FL

#43 Sep 8, 2013
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Cassaundra

Bucharest, Romania

#46 Sep 13, 2013
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