Perfomance Anxiety!
Grasshopper

Halifax, Canada

#1 May 7, 2009
Im a 33 year old male just coming out of a long relationship! In my prevous relationship i had a somewhat low sex drive but 95% of the time could maintain an erection for intercourse.

Now im in a new relationship and i cant maintain an erection - as soon as the condom goes on it shrinks to nothing - also when she goes to touch it it shrinks. The anxiety of trying to perform is killing me - is there any help for this? I just cant relax its so embaressing!
Flavio

Portugal

#3 May 12, 2009
Grasshopper, I know how you feel, because I am 32 and I've suffered from sexual performance anxiety for all my adult life. Psychogenic ED can be devastating.

I am always able to attain and maintain a good erection, but when the time to penetrate comes, I sometimes get too nervous and lose my erection.

Cialis is excellent and has helped me a lot but it's not an anxiety drug. Oral phentolamine (brand names Vasomax, Vigamed), on the other hand, could be helpful: phentolamine inhibits the effects of stress hormones (adrealine is an erection killer) and improves blood flow to the penis.

The ideal solution would be a centrally acting agent, but Uprima is no longer available in Europe and Zoraxel is still a few years away.

Anyway, before you try any of these solutions, you should consult a doctor and rule out any other physica causes.

Since: Apr 09

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#4 May 28, 2009
Carefull about cialis and viagra. Both make my heart race and gives me headaches. Id try a natural supplement.
HopefullyLoving

Brick, NJ

#5 Jun 2, 2009
my boyfriend, 24, can maintain an erection for oral play and for hands on play (sorry if i am not using the right words) but when the condom goes on and its time for penetration he goes away.... How can I help him... I am pretty sure hes resistant to speaking to someone. Any ideas how I can take the pressure away?
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