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Lupe

Sicklerville, NJ

#22 Apr 22, 2010
I Am handsome and it"s really the only thing I have to offer to the world and women and if I did not have my looks I would be nothing I dont make fun of ugly people because I think it is cruel and it is not there fault its there parents fault.
leelu

Bronx, NY

#24 Jul 12, 2010
Dear Chloe....I was once that way too or so I thought....gangly skinny buck teeth thick glasses straggly hair and a big ol schnozerola. I was picked on from about age 12-14 pretty badly. Teased by boys etc....one day an older boy looked me up and down and said to the other boys ....some day you will all want that girl...intriqued I followed him around for a minute or so asking why...(he brushed the silly little girl off like a fly). Turns out he was right...though I always saw myself as that ugly girl - different, no-one would want me...I have had my share of very good looking boyfriends. When I hit thirty boys ten years younger were interested...I had, for a time, outgrown my "ugliness", but never realized it. My aunt once told me, someday you will look at old photos and realize how beautiful you were. I will never be pretty or beautiful...but I did alright - you will too Hon...don't let the pain of not being model pretty be the focus of your life. I did and I know how painful it can be..I actually had to pray and ask God to make me grateful for what I had. I recommend this. God Bless you.
Intellecture Man 40s

United States

#25 Jul 30, 2010
I had to comment. I am seriously not attractive--never been and made fun of. I'm now 40. Anywho I've been acting professionally for awhile in my 20s. I went back to college later in life--and when a particular beautiful gal saw my talent--she couldnt wait to sit next to me. I think it's true if one is not born lucky looks wise--make the most of what you have. Now I even have a stunning galfriend who loves me. Why? I didn't listen to others and didnt focus on what i lacked--instead i focused on what i had inside-talents. Now I'd approach Jennifer Aniston and not be afraid. Ugly can be beautiful, yeah the world is shallow and is getting worse--but you only have one life-u must make the most of it.
Well

Raven, VA

#26 Aug 25, 2010
I am sorry to hear you have gone through that. Some people can be horrible. I noticed you were talking about your cousin, who is "fat", and people saying she is pretty. So? Maybe she is! Being "fat" doesn't mean she's ugly! Being thin with full lips and a "huge chest" as you say, doesn't equal pretty either. There is a lot more to beauty than size. But, that aside, you need to work on your self confidence. I know it's hard, when people have been so cruel. But, it sounds almost like you think you are "ugly"! I doubt you are "ugly". You've just been treated like crap, is my guess.
Chloe wrote:
All my life I have been treated bad because
of my looks. My post may be long so bear with me.
I need people to talk to. I'm a really nice
person who people never get to know because
of my looks. I am neatly groomed and a normal
weight, but people are very cruel to me. School
was a living torment. Ever since kindergarten
I was picked on mercifully. A typical day
in high school were boys taunting me and calling
me fungus and on occasion spitting in my hair.
Coming up to me saying I will never get
married and no guy would want to you know.
Girls would make fun of me and teachers
would get mad at me because they were making
a scene. I tried standing up for myself, but
it got me a black eye. I had to eat lunch by
myself on warm days outside. Pranks were
played on me. There is so much more, but
when your'e young this adds so much stress.
My father says things when he is mad.
For example I have full lips, but
their not full like Angelina Jolie, but still
full. He calls me ugly and liver lips.
My relatives are cruel. My cousin and I
when we were close would say on occasion why
are you thin but your'e face is so swollen.
Your'e ugly. I have allergies and swelled a little
but it wasn't that bad. I have another cousin
that had a huge face cause she was fat but people
said she was pretty.
I had a guy when I was getting gas who came over
to me and told me I was ugly!
My post is getting to long but I want to know
any celebrities who are ugly but charismatic?
The funny thing is I think I am average looking!
I have a small button nose with full lips
but their not overly huge and a huge chest
and thin. I must be missing something!
ATK

Nottingham, UK

#27 Sep 15, 2010
I have gotten to know all types of people and been friends with all types throughout high school and up to end of university. I have learned that ugly people are bad people. Good looking people should stay away from them. They will be friends with you only to help remove that ugly black cloud over their heads. Dont feel sorry for them, I did and it was a mistake. They will harm you and bring you down. This advice is from a 30 yr old male.
Amanda

Taylors, SC

#28 Feb 19, 2011
Don't listen to the people suggesting plastic surgery. Please don't. Then when you find someone, you'll always wonder, "Would they have loved me before? Would they love the *real* me?" And though they probably would have, you'll always wonder.
Better to be alone than to have that constant doubt.
But I don't think it's impossible for you to find someone. Most people don't stop to think of the implications of their shallowness, but some do. I hope you find someone who loves you for who you are, and cherishes your physical body. That would make you luckier than any of the beautiful people out there who have to wonder if anyone loves them simply for who they are. It's just a matter of perspective..... beautiful or ugly, we all have it hard when it comes to love.
joe

New Bedford, MA

#29 Nov 24, 2011
if you are ugly stay home never go out looks are every thing i am ugly i know what i am talking about.you will never find love or happiness people will just laugh at you and call you names.trust me people are not worth any thing to you if you are ugly they wont want you around they suck like that.
JAob

Irving, TX

#30 Nov 30, 2011
me as well people say im ugly to but im in middle school
JAob

Irving, TX

#31 Nov 30, 2011
they told me if i had ur face i would pay like a million dollars to get rid of it
Makiyah

Lees Summit, MO

#32 Dec 10, 2011
No ones ugly, im sure your really pretty. its only peoples opinion about you. no ones opinion is worth shit but yours. :)
liz

Morganton, NC

#33 Jan 30, 2012
just be your self don't change the way you look don't get surgery or a make over just stay the way you are! I'm 20, i am ugly i get made fun of by everyone even 5 year old. i think i have found my man hes lives i n Trinidad an Tobago he attractive but he thinks he is ugly i told him he wasn't an he says I'm beautiful i told him i don't think so but he still says it every day! makes me feel happy
liz

Morganton, NC

#34 Jan 30, 2012
don't listen to anyone who posts on here

i had to go to a guidance counselor in school cause i was not communicating with others in school! she told me that some people are jealous of others so bad like for example if your very beautiful an some one see this an gets jealous that they start to pick on you an tear u down before u know that u are attractive they like to rule with fear! its not what the outside counts its the inside that counts! remember ugly people are beautiful on the inside an beautiful people are ugly on the inside! also i read in the bible that god is a jealous god so i think the reason why some people like me are ugly is because we are so beautiful to god that he wants to keep it for himself or he waiting for some one to see threw looks idk its just a theory
Not cute not ugly

Boca Raton, FL

#35 Apr 24, 2012
If this pertains to you , Please learn this before you are 30 yr old or 25.) Personality matters to most people. Many ppl aren't really impressed with
looks that come with a mean or conceited personlity.Also, being smart help. KIndness can go a very long way too.And a person who cares about
others and listens will have more friends than those
who look nice but don't listen. HOpe this helps.
I have found this to be very very true.
Irena

Brooklyn, NY

#36 Jun 4, 2012
don't worry about it, honey, u are not ugly, those people who judge people based on appearance are ignorant and stupid, and they are ugly ones. Trust me, beauty in personality is the true winner ;)

“benzo hunting”

Since: Jul 11

Newcastle upon Tyne

#37 Jul 8, 2012
It's what's inside that counts not looks "to a fair point mind" hehe ;)
coochster

Melbourne, Australia

#38 Dec 14, 2012
Lupe wrote:
I Am handsome and it"s really the only thing I have to offer to the world and women and if I did not have my looks I would be nothing I dont make fun of ugly people because I think it is cruel and it is not there fault its there parents fault.
You`re an idiot, my advice to you is listen to John lennon`s masterpiece, "instant karma", listen to alllll the words.

“benzo hunting”

Since: Jul 11

Newcastle upon Tyne

#40 Jan 8, 2013
Uglyish people can be loved but fat people is a no no bloody disgusting although I am currently receiving suck from a Bertha at the moment they shouldn't be allowed to be loved :0
ugly

Bracknell, UK

#41 Jan 20, 2013
Chloe wrote:
All my life I have been treated bad because
of my looks. My post may be long so bear with me.
I need people to talk to. I'm a really nice
person who people never get to know because
of my looks. I am neatly groomed and a normal
weight, but people are very cruel to me. School
was a living torment. Ever since kindergarten
I was picked on mercifully. A typical day
in high school were boys taunting me and calling
me fungus and on occasion spitting in my hair.
Coming up to me saying I will never get
married and no guy would want to you know.
Girls would make fun of me and teachers
would get mad at me because they were making
a scene. I tried standing up for myself, but
it got me a black eye. I had to eat lunch by
myself on warm days outside. Pranks were
played on me. There is so much more, but
when your'e young this adds so much stress.
My father says things when he is mad.
For example I have full lips, but
their not full like Angelina Jolie, but still
full. He calls me ugly and liver lips.
My relatives are cruel. My cousin and I
when we were close would say on occasion why
are you thin but your'e face is so swollen.
Your'e ugly. I have allergies and swelled a little
but it wasn't that bad. I have another cousin
that had a huge face cause she was fat but people
said she was pretty.
I had a guy when I was getting gas who came over
to me and told me I was ugly!
My post is getting to long but I want to know
any celebrities who are ugly but charismatic?
The funny thing is I think I am average looking!
I have a small button nose with full lips
but their not overly huge and a huge chest
and thin. I must be missing something!
Chloe, I'm late in seeing your page about ugliness but I just had to comment. I was raised with comments about my looks throughout my life. Several family members called me ugly but not as in name calling, more like stating a fact. strangers also called me nasty names. Grandma implied that if her son had married the girl that he was dating, I wouldn't have been born so ugly. I could tell you more stories but it would only discourage you. Can ugly people be loved? Yeah - my dog loves me!!!
prnnd

Rochester, PA

#42 Jan 21, 2013
youtube.com/watch...
on goes life

Since: Jan 13

Eritrea

#44 Jan 26, 2013
I suffer the problem as you do dear. I have lost so much of my "appeal" and my highschool years still give me nightmares. I was tormented with same aged people n elderly who say am ugly and unloveable! At once i remember a guy said to my face "I doubt even could remake you". I am very lonely in person but eventually learned to live with it.

I never had freinds or thru out my life frankly but i have come across wonderful penpal who i treasure just tho they r friends around me. You should try that or some other means as well. Many are shallow...i believe someone smart will see past my looks and get to know me someday..i kno yours is somewhere out there as well...just hang in there with hope while trying to enjoy yourself. MOstly tho, love yourself and be who you are no matter what. After all, you want us to love you for the real you, right?

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